Mature swingers

15 Mar 2005

Quote by teluk
In answer to Ms Naughty, I am 57 and still looking for fun.
I may be wrong but there appears to be an anti mature theme here which concerns me. We all get older although we may still feel younger

I'm not so sure I agree that theres an anti mature theme here but if it worries you,
why don't you get your HGV licence and join ES in the "Mature Truckers Lounge" with the young twenty something hostesses lol

:lol: :twisted: :twisted:

15 Mar 2005

Quote by teluk
In answer to Ms Naughty, I am 57 and still looking for fun.
I may be wrong but there appears to be an anti mature theme here which concerns me. We all get older although we may still feel younger

I can`t say I`ve noticed a particular prejudice toward older members myself. Here in the forum they seem to be positively encouraged, and certainly at the munches I see many members who are on the plus side of 40 . I`ve often seen posts in `Lets meet up` requesting a meet with a `mature woman` also (but not man come to think of it, I stand to be corrected on that). I can`t speak for the Ad section however, as I don`t use it. After spending quite some time on this site, mine and Mars preferences are certainly not as set in stone as we first considered them to be. Although we tend to naturally click with our own age group more often, we have often found ourselves clicking with singles when we thought we`d only consider couples, younger, when thought we`d only consider the over 25`s, and people of a larger build when we thought we`d only be attracted to size 14 and below! This is something we hadn`t predicted, so although we have a general criteria, nothing is ever set in stone, and I think you`ll find the majority here are very similar in this. Personality is a huge factor once a person becomes known.
Venusxxx

15 Mar 2005

Quote by davej
We could always have the older people verified as being older......say with a little + at the side of there ads??

a plus might be misunderstood where as this

seems more appropriate
Yeah, but what is she doing with her hand up his arse anyway? A bit of prostate massage maybe?

15 Mar 2005

This seems appropriate...if the arthriitus lets me get o n my knees to pray.......
THE SENILITY PRAYER
Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked anyway,
the good fortune to run into the ones I do,
and the eyesight to tell the difference.
Bill.

16 Mar 2005

Quote by teluk
In answer to Ms Naughty, I am 57 and still looking for fun.
I may be wrong but there appears to be an anti mature theme here which concerns me. We all get older although we may still feel younger

I'm not anti mature i'm what some might call mature myself .. but not as mature as you! kiss

I've enjoyed being "mature" its great fun wink

16 Mar 2005

If you were to create a section for the "mature swinger" who would be eligible to enter it?
Does anyone know the definition of a mature swinger?
I think a section for immature swingers would go down a treat then we all know who to avoid!!!!!! wink

G & D x

16 Mar 2005

I suspect that there are simply those that prefer the company of people around their own age, those that prefer people younger, those that prefer people older, and those that don't have a preference.
Having a separate section for mature swingers would be fine for mature swingers who only want to meet mature swingers, but it would also mean that the younger people seeking older people, and the older people seeking younger people, would end up very confused about where they should be looking.

Quote by Damn, I forgot who did this
I'm new to this site and probably totally niave - but I thought swinging was all about being free from all those normal constraints in society - age, colour, race and sexual orientation shouldn't really matter

Broadly speaking - yes, this is correct. However, on the individual level, each person still has their own personal constraints. Swinging is not so much about trying all the fish in the sea, but about trying the fish you like in a variety of different recipies.
lhk
Kat
P.S. Although everyone should be encouraged to at least consider trying other types of fish! wink

16 Mar 2005

Quote by teluk
A few months ago there was suggestion to create a new section for mature swingers as people like myself seem to be forgotten or regarded by others as past it. Mature people still enjoy sex at any age and in the company of others and maybe are more respectful of the wishes of others. Majority of the adverts placed by ladies or couples always seek young men or ladies and oder men especially seem to be discarded. I would like to hear the opinions of others or even suggestions for mature people to have fun

The thing is.... Are we talking about mature as in age or mature as in mentality??? I 'hit' 44 this year but still act 'young at heart' (Having a 21 yo girlfriend helps I suppose!!) We have 'entertained' both younger and older than us in the many years we have been doing this and basically it seems that if you get on, you get on, the age difference either way seems not to matter!!!!!!
Alex DJ xxx XXX