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I have also been on anti-depressant on and off for the past 10 years, but I have always been pescribed Sertraline... I have never had any side effects from them and they have been perfect for me to enable me to regain a grip on a bit of sanity (although talking about sanity and me in the same sentance may be a contradiction wink )
However, this just goes to prove that you are not alone the funk and here on SH it is also not a subject nor something to be ashamed of....
You know in your heart of hearts that the binge drinking is not the right thing to do and it will only counteract the good the medication is doing.....
I applaude everyone on this thread who has opened up and talked about what is a difficult subject to discuss kiss
But can I also give Vix a passionkiss as you didn't have to reveal so much about yourself...
Shireen
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Shireen wrote:
You know in your heart of hearts that the binge drinking is not the right thing to do and it will only counteract the good the medication is doing.....
I applaude everyone on this thread who has opened up and talked about what is a difficult subject to discuss
But can I also give Vix a ...(hug)... as you didn't have to reveal so much about yourself...

I agree with everything there, Shireen. Funk it is important that you keep to the same dose, and not reduce it or increase it without checking with the doctor, and moderate your alcohol intake right down.
And i take my hat off to you Vix, for your frankness. Only my hat, mind you! redface
Mike.
you guys are bloody great xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx love you all xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Look, your breakfast kipper may be going cold, but I'll reheat it if you lemme know if you have an instant messanger at all. ? MSN? By PM will do if you don't want all these perverts knowing it.
hi funk
if you need a chat, regarding anything relating to this thread dont hesitate to pm...im a fully qualified Drug and Alcohol worker...(councillor).
nige (mr sophiebifem)
I may be being a bit contentious here but I have read many times on the site that people are taking I find it quite shocking that someone 21 is taking anti-depressants. I don't know your situation Funk, so basically what I mean is that if you have issues that require you to take anti-depressants then I sympathise with you and hope you can sort out the issues soon.
However, I do feel that doctors in the UK are just too ready to slap people onto AD's rather than try to find out what the root cause of the problems are.
Earlier this year I went to see my GP as I was feeling run down and lacking motivation at work. Within 5 minutes my GP had me out of the door with a prescription for AD's! I've talked about this to some of my friends who have said they have experienced the same thing...
Whatever happened to being able to talk over your problems with your GP and just having an impartial professional ear to bend? I don't blame all the GP's, as some are so overstretched they can't give people the time, but there are some who think that AD's are a good way to keep their patience out of their waiting rooms.
Funk... as I said I don't know why you're on AD's and I'm not the person to discuss it with nor is this the place, but I hope you will get down to your GP and ask for professional counselling to overcome the issues, rather than potentially spending many years taking pills to dampen the symptoms...
Oh, and by the way... I'm not suggesting for one minute that people who do take AD's are wrong to do so, so anyone on AD's please do not take offence...
*Bites lip so hard it bleeds*
Quote by Vix
*Bites lip so hard it bleeds*

Why?
I'm not suggesting for one minute that a person taking AD's is wrong to do so... I'm just saying that...
a) 21 is a very young age to be on anti-depressants
b) Doctors today are quick to hand them out
If that's offensive then i'd genuinely like to know why?
Did not say it was offensive, just slghtly.... misguided? Misinformed?
Am not getting drawn into this, sorry.
Quote by DaHamsta
*Bites lip so hard it bleeds*

Why?
I'm not suggesting for one minute that a person taking AD's is wrong to do so... I'm just saying that...
a) 21 is a very young age to be on anti-depressants
b) Doctors today are quick to hand them out
If that's offensive then i'd genuinely like to know why?
21 is a young age to take ADs, but better Funk takes them now than in ten years time wish he'd taken them a lot sooner.
Some doctors hand them out like sweets, so it would be best not to use that doctor if you seriously want longterm help from them. That said, some doctors are very good, so I guess you do a bit of research yourself and then pick your doctors brains - if they know less than you, make an appointment with a different doctor!
Thats what I had to do, i swear one doctor was on commission the way he wouldn't even hear of another perscription mad
Funk
YOU CAN GET THROUGH IT, admitting it was a very big step!
Quote by DaHamsta
*Bites lip so hard it bleeds*

Why?
I'm not suggesting for one minute that a person taking AD's is wrong to do so... I'm just saying that...
a) 21 is a very young age to be on anti-depressants
b) Doctors today are quick to hand them out
If that's offensive then i'd genuinely like to know why?
Flippin 'eck ... I was on them at a very early age ... yes it probably was too early in some people's views but I was able to get on with my life adequately. I know there is at least one person who knows my true story on here and knowing me now (off the A-D's and fighting hard not to go back there) it was definitely the best course of action.
Doctors might be very quick to dish them in but ..... the lack of genuine counsellors out there is far more worrying. There is a waiting list at my surgery to talk to the counsellor who frankly is an arse!
It is often my experience, that those never having suffered depression and taking meds for it, have no genuine understanding of the daily struggle to survive. Depression is often a hidden illness .. there is a stigma surrounding it and the "pull yourself together" brigade are less than helpful.
Occasional moods of discouragement or sadness are nornal and usually pass quickly. but more severe depression, accompanied by despair, lethargy, loss of sex drive, and often poor appetite, may call for you to see the doctor. such depression can arise from life stresses such as the death of someone close, an illness, or sometimes from no apparent cause.
minor depression does not usually need drug treatment. support and help in coming to terms with the cause of the depression is often all that is needed, moderate or severe depression usually requires drug treatment, which is effective in most cases. anit depressants may have to be taken for many months/years. treatment should not be stopped too soon as the symptoms are likely to re appear.
depression is caused by the reduction of the level of a curtain chemical in the brain called Neurotransmitters. which affect the mood by stimulating brain cells. the neurotransmitters are constantly reabsorded back into the brain cells where they are broken down by the enzyme called Monoamine oxidase, in depression fewer neurotransmitters are released.........this is why anti depressants are prescribed by GP's, so the levels of neurotransmitters are raised .
nige (mr sophiebifem)
Quote by Calista
Doctors might be very quick to dish them in but ..... the lack of genuine counsellors out there is far more worrying. There is a waiting list at my surgery to talk to the counsellor who frankly is an arse!

Aint that the truth Calista, I have seen 3 counsellors over the 10 year period where I have been taking the AD's and all were diabolical.... The biggest problem for me is to be able to loose the "public" face and reveal the "private" face which would allow me to open up and maybe talk about what has happened in my past..... I have yet to meet a counsellor who is able to coax me into talking about my problems without me being aware of it... One even just sat there and looked blank, neither of us spoke for about 10 minutes and then I said "If that's your approach then we are wasting each others time" and promptly walked out... Now obviously this is just my experiences so this isn't a dig at all counsellors...
Quote by Starsign_2
but more severe depression, accompanied by despair, lethargy, loss of sex drive, and often poor appetite, may call for you to see the doctor. such depression can arise from life stresses such as the death of someone close, an illness, or sometimes from no apparent cause.

Yep I can relate to that.... Although people often find it hard to believe that I am actually that depressed as I normally only show my "public" face and therefore appear the clown/jester/loudmouth/joker.....
Isn't it funny.... This thread makes you realise that although you knew you were not the only one out there with depression the fact that other people who are part of your daily life (and lets face it once you enter the SH building you can never leave wink ) also are in the same boat.... passionkiss to all who are contributing...
Shireen
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Quote by shireen-steve
Although people often find it hard to believe that I am actually that depressed as I normally only show my "public" face and therefore appear the clown/jester/loudmouth/joker.....

Oh how I so relate to that post. All too often I tell people how shy and introverted I actually am and when they meet me they don't believe me sad The public face is very extroverted and bubbly ... pretty much how you described yourself.
Only those who I let get close see the real me and the pain and it comes as a shock to many people when they realise and really understand.
Quote by Calista
Oh how I so relate to that post. All too often I tell people how shy and introverted I actually am and when they meet me they don't believe me sad The public face is very extroverted and bubbly ... pretty much how you described yourself.
Only those who I let get close see the real me and the pain and it comes as a shock to many people when they realise and really understand.

Do you know Calista, I really think that this is a common trait among people that suffer with depression....
Cum ere hun passionkiss
Shireen
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When I went through a phase of depression (not that anyone can ever be sure that a "phase" is finished for good) I was greatly helped by joining a self-help group, funded by the local area health authority. Just thought I would mention that as an alternative, or addition, to counselling. Maybe we've even got the start of a sort of self-help group amongst ourselves here in SH. Anyway, I for one would always be happy with messages or PMs from others here about depression.
Mike.
Quote by MikeNorth
When I went through a phase of depression (not that anyone can ever be sure that a "phase" is finished for good) I was greatly helped by joining a self-help group, funded by the local area health authority. Just thought I would mention that as an alternative, or addition, to counselling. Maybe we've even got the start of a sort of self-help group amongst ourselves here in SH. Anyway, I for one would always be happy with messages or PMs from others here about depression.
Mike.

I think you are right Mike, we do have a self-help/support group type of thing going without us even realising....
I will also say that I am happy to be someones "shoulder to cry on" etc if anyone needs it....
Shireen
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mike north....you can always rely on Brian.....
nige (mr sophiebifem)