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I can see that there are plenty of perhaps larger ladies who are comfortable with their size and shape and good on em for that!
This is very true. Many of them are members of this site
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I would guess there are lots who are perhaps less happy and more self concious.
That would be me then
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I did hear of a story of a single guy who met a lady without seeing a picture who, when he met her, he saw that she was much larger than she had previously stated and turned on his heel and walked out of the pub. Shame! Rotter! You might say, however he felt he had been mislead and if he had known he wouldn’t have arranged to travel and meet. No doubt the lady in question was upset and hurt.
The moral of the story should be always be honest in what you are or are looking for. There are plenty of guys that like either slim large or something in between. No need for anyone to set themselves up for a fall.
Reading Fabios thread, it works both ways.
I hate the fact the BBW tag (as previously stated not all big women are beautiful) but I am guilty of using it as I'm very very cautious about not misrepresenting myself. Wee Fatty doesn't have quite the same ring to it as BBW!
I would hate the idea that I would only be attractive to people with a fat fetish - as I was once very kindly told was the case. Yes I am member of some BBW sites, I suppose because at least I feel folk there will know what to expect and I will not have the horrific example mentioned above where someone walks out on you.
Interesting to read Fabio's point of view in the other thread. Insecurities on both sides
I think that there are plenty of men that prefer larger ladies and they should therefore feel comfortable with themselves in that knowledge.
There are plenty of slim women who are very insecure about their bodies, some may be obsessively vain others may just be naturally lackking in confidence.
I would nt describe liking a larger man or woman as a fetish, just as their personal preference. There isnt a set criteria for attractiveness – larger women (or men) should remember that!
There are plenty of slim women who are very insecure about their bodies, some may be obsessively vain others may just be naturally lackking in confidence.
I would nt describe liking a larger man or woman as a fetish, just as their personal preference. There isnt a set criteria for attractiveness – larger women (or men) should remember that!
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]I would guess there are lots who are perhaps less happy and more self concious.
That would be me then
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However can you say that, when you know there are so many here that literally worship you?! :smitten:
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You only have to go to a party to see how little size and shape really matters, it's confidence that does the trick, if you have a sexy attitude people will be attracted to you. I've only been to two parties so far but at both there were larger men and ladies (me included) and we all got plenty of very positive attention, nobody was looking in disgust because we may have the odd extra-curvy bit on us! I certainly wasn't thinking 'eww he/she is fat I'm not playing with them!'
It is only natural to be attracted to a certain 'type' but as long as it's not to the exclusion of all others you won't miss out on some fantastic experiences. Some of the best experiences I have had were with people I wasn't immediately attracted to at first, so you never know until you try!
It is only natural to be attracted to a certain 'type' but as long as it's not to the exclusion of all others you won't miss out on some fantastic experiences. Some of the best experiences I have had were with people I wasn't immediately attracted to at first, so you never know until you try!
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You only have to go to a party to see how little size and shape really matters, it's confidence that does the trick, if you have a sexy attitude people will be attracted to you. I've only been to two parties so far but at both there were larger men and ladies (me included) and we all got plenty of very positive attention, nobody was looking in disgust because we may have the odd extra-curvy bit on us! I certainly wasn't thinking 'eww he/she is fat I'm not playing with them!'
It is only natural to be attracted to a certain 'type' but as long as it's not to the exclusion of all others you won't miss out on some fantastic experiences. Some of the best experiences I have had were with people I wasn't immediately attracted to at first, so you never know until you try!
I to am a larger lady and in some ways do lack in confidence. I still find it hard being totally naked on a meet and try as hard as i can to cover myself up...lol But that comes down to me not being happy with myself...but it doesnt stop me arranging fun....or enjoying it when im having it
Just bring more my way :D 