Yes I know about this, I have a reminder set for it, it looks very interesting
It is interesting but why do larger ladies have to be shoved in a 'specialist tastes' category?
oooooohhhhhh - I'm glad you mentioned this. I'm going to get someone to tape if for me. Bet its like all TV shows and will make us out to be freaks!
a REAL WOMAN is a female version of a human being plain and simple as that, no matter what she looks like.
its a tough subject alright . I like a proper rounded woman by preference , and im no stick man meself . I have also met many slim women who were very sexy . Its a subject often walked around gently wearing egg shell soled shoes because so many are offended by frank discussion of body image .
I think generalisation is something thats rife in shallow documentaries like the one on tonight , which is probably lets face it , just another tabloid type 'skim the surface' poke at some kind of sexuality. For me a woman classed as 'over weight' whatever that means , can be incredibly sexy if she is confident in her sexuality , but the same applies to almost any shape and size ( side show oddities excepted ) . That said , I believe there is a level of obesity which goes past being someone who is unconcerned with their body image and reaches a point where it is someone who is either frankly past caring about themselves or worse someone who has a psychological disorder that either means they seek to gain weight or cannot stop eating . I know that may sound harsh , but im not intending to judge those folks , im simply seperating them from those of us that have a genetic predisposition to being a little chubby .
I for one find there is a cut off point where someone becomes too fat ( usually that point being when movement is restricted and personal hygeine becomes difficult) to be of interest to me sexually . Of course many of the women shown on the trailer for the show tonight are very fat indeed and some of them would be included in that definition . The men that will be on the show will be portrayed as liberal and unjudgemental , but what they actually are are fetishists . If it wasnt fat girls it would have been shoes , or uniforms or whatever triggered their latent desire . To simply find very fat women sexualy exciting , to the exclusion of all others if of course a fetish , and I would say that I have rarely if ever known a man personally that would be attracted to women quite that big and also to other shapes and sizes .
The net itself is a weird place when it comes to big women , those of us who have been on here a long long time know that a profile containing the phrase " particularly interested in BBW" will very often mean when translated " Ill shag anyone really , but i reckon of got a better chance if i flatter the fat girls". Of course there men like myself who prefer curvy women to stick thin , but you'll rarely get a swingers ad asking for a special interest in " medium build" women .
Each to their own i guess , but much like a couple of people have commented already its not really about that for most balanced people , I for one would be much more flattered by someone saying " hes a good shag " than " hes a great fabulous shag for a fat bloke".
Just in closing , you know what not ALL BW's are B . There actually is such things as a
BUW !! Its true or Jo Brand wouldnt exist !
G xx
When it gets to the point of like the American Woman who was engaged to the English Guy clearly having difficulty breathing while just walking down a corridor THEN its a not just that it potentially shortens their their life,its the quality of their life too.
Channel 4 had a thing on a while ago about overweight Texans and one woman in that was a completely isolated human mountain,virtually bedridden,needing breathing apparatus and in constant terrible to see a person reduced to that.
Yet a while back a fit,active slim guy I knew with everything going for him suddenly dropped dead with heart failure aged just ain't no telling.
Theres too far either way - the emaiciated anorexic or the wheezing 40 stoner.
Once I'd have purely confromed to seeking the 8/10/12 sized media ideal but some wonderful experiences have taught me otherwise - its the spirit and sexiness of the woman within - and wasn't Marilyn Monroe a size 16 at one point?
I am a BW and hate the thought that i may be thought of as an easy shag.
Do guys actually think that BW's are an easy shag???Serious question guys.
Gill x
