Ok. This is not easy for me to type as I know that I will mess up how I word it and probably offend some people. That is not my intention and I have agonised over this.
As some of you have noticed ( thanks for the emails and texts ) I have been absent for a while. Yes, I had some personal issues happen but that wasn't the only reason why.
When I first joined this site I immediately fell in love with the openness of it and the people here. I was very flattered with the attention I got from some very wonderful people and I admit that I dove in with both feet. I met people, I went to munches, I went to socials ... I got to really enjoy the part of me I had been keeping hidden.
Then I started to feel pressure. Not from anyone here but from myself. I am not sure how to explain this. I basically got overwhelmed as a single female on here. I started to burn the proverbial candle in so many different mental directions and didn't know how to stop it without making a huge train wreck style mess out of things. So I did what any good American does ... I ran for the hills!! Was it the right way to handle it ... no, of course not.
What I am trying to say here is that I am not sure if new people realise how quickly they can get lost and if I hurt, offended or made anyone mad by my not knowing how to handle things I am so very very sorry.
I have had a long soul searching weekend and I have also gotten things back on track that were spiralling away so ... if you will have me back .... I am here to play. ( Lord I worded that wayyyy wrong ... lol )
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My apologies to all.
Sex God
Welcome back x
Sex God
Abi, word it as you want, but the message is what matters, and I think we can all clearly see what the message is, and all we can say is Welcome back and do not vanish again 
Hope things are ok, but always remember that taking a break from here is actually allowed and dont believe the ones who tell you otherwise
Hope things are ok, but always remember that taking a break from here is actually allowed and dont believe the ones who tell you otherwise
Sex God
Abi... my fellow american......
honestly don't ever feel as if you need to apologise.....
I know that from time to time we all decide to take a step back.....nothing unusual in that, i think that if we didn't we would all go mental.....
but really nice that you sorted what you needed to get straight... and to see you back.....
Sean xxxxxxxxxx
honestly don't ever feel as if you need to apologise.....
I know that from time to time we all decide to take a step back.....nothing unusual in that, i think that if we didn't we would all go mental.....
but really nice that you sorted what you needed to get straight... and to see you back.....
Sean xxxxxxxxxx
Sex God
Abi!!!!!
Hiya hunni :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Love
FIRE xx
Hiya hunni :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Love
FIRE xx
Sex God
err! hi sexy 
rememder me ? the drunk
ops:
good to see you back hun
rememder me ? the drunk
ops: good to see you back hun
Dont give yourself Hassel girl. Lifes to short for that. Just remember, You are number one. your health your happiness, your mind comes first. Number one thats who you look after. To many fn ideots will tell you different. If your happy then every body around you will be happy to. What happend thare. did i get all grown up just then. Damn Iv faild.
Any how if you want to have some fun in a truck get back to me.
Thats better, back to my usall self. IM HAPPY ARE YOU ??? yipeeeeeee. sex sex sex.
Any how if you want to have some fun in a truck get back to me.
Thats better, back to my usall self. IM HAPPY ARE YOU ??? yipeeeeeee. sex sex sex.
Sex God
Sex God
Quote by Abilene
Ok. This is not easy for me to type as I know that I will mess up how I word it and probably offend some people. That is not my intention and I have agonised over this.
As some of you have noticed ( thanks for the emails and texts ) I have been absent for a while. Yes, I had some personal issues happen but that wasn't the only reason why.
When I first joined this site I immediately fell in love with the openness of it and the people here. I was very flattered with the attention I got from some very wonderful people and I admit that I dove in with both feet. I met people, I went to munches, I went to socials ... I got to really enjoy the part of me I had been keeping hidden.
Then I started to feel pressure. Not from anyone here but from myself. I am not sure how to explain this. I basically got overwhelmed as a single female on here. I started to burn the proverbial candle in so many different mental directions and didn't know how to stop it without making a huge train wreck style mess out of things. So I did what any good American does ... I ran for the hills!! Was it the right way to handle it ... no, of course not.
What I am trying to say here is that I am not sure if new people realise how quickly they can get lost and if I hurt, offended or made anyone mad by my not knowing how to handle things I am so very very sorry.
I have had a long soul searching weekend and I have also gotten things back on track that were spiralling away so ... if you will have me back .... I am here to play. ( Lord I worded that wayyyy wrong ... lol )
I really thought you were going to blame FC
phew
wrats
xx
However much one debates, the fact is that any female whatever your oriantation, will get inundated with offers pms etc etc by men and men will not get females exactly falling over themselves to even send a wink ! Maybe the gay (man-man) scene is different? but thats how it seems to me. Just have fun but don't take things too seriously ! welcome back Ab ! see you in chat sometime you have been soooo damned quiet that I was starting to think you may really be a canadian !!!!!
Sex God
nice to see your well Abi How's the kitty? 
How's the kitty? Quote by mistress_sassy
nice to see your well Abi
I was really going to avoid commenting inside my own post for fear of it looking like a me me me post when it's really an apology post but I couldn't resist telling you he is doing fine!!
Absolutely awesome. He is soooo the love of my life!!!
Wrats: I promise to send you some pics of him ( btw ... he loses his manhood next month!!! )
