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I have been told in PM by someone that they will not be going to any munches that I attend in the near future & when this person has informed the organisers was answered with "I told you so" I have asked the person what was meant by this & was told that they couldnt break a confidence.
As this person is much more popular than I am & also that I now couldnt face going to a munch where I thought I wasnt liked/wanted I have decided that it should be me that stays out of the forum & away from munches. (hey its not like anyone will miss my posts anyway lol)
I cant take on board anything that isnt said directly to me, so if anyone would like to enlighten me further as to why I am not liked or what this is about, please PM me.
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Traditional : The Last Post
This Bugle call is played in the military forces at the end of the day. It summarises the day since it consists of a number of phrases from different calls signifying different events which have occurred during the day. Since this piece marks a "closing", it is also played at military and other funerals.
I have been told in PM by someone that they will not be going to any munches that I attend in the near future & when this person has informed the organisers was answered with "I told you so" I have asked the person what was meant by this & was told that they couldnt break a confidence.
As this person is much more popular than I am & also that I now couldnt face going to a munch where I thought I wasnt liked/wanted I have decided that it should be me that stays out of the forum & away from munches. (hey its not like anyone will miss my posts anyway lol)
I cant take on board anything that isnt said directly to me, so if anyone would like to enlighten me further as to why I am not liked or what this is about, please PM me.
Hope you reconsider, for every one person who might dislike you, I am convinved there will be others who do and will stand up for you.
This isn't the first time I've heard this recently, and whilst I have no idea about the circumstances/people etc. I do find is abhorrent that people can't live and let live.
Lilacgem, my only advice is to speak to a mod, take a few days to yourself and then come back and carry on as normal.
:hugs:
Callie x
Lilac hunnie
There's no need for you to go anywhere.
I can't speak for anyone else but I like you and I have never ever heard a bad word said about you.
And if dammie and I were still doing a munch you'd be on the list - even if I had to drag you kicking & screaming to it
Please don't go away :cry:
There's no need for you to go anywhere.
I can't speak for anyone else but I like you and I have never ever heard a bad word said about you.
And if dammie and I were still doing a munch you'd be on the list - even if I had to drag you kicking & screaming to it
Please don't go away :cry:
I can only echo similar sentiments as Calista. I know there are people out there who don't like me, and aren't always subtle about it either....
But, at the end of the day you should really think "Is this really my problem?" I did and I came to the conclusion that if the party(ies) involved can't come to me and talk about it, then it's their problem not mine.
Take a few off. Think about what you want and then decide.
Remember: Clarity of thought before rashness of action (although I can talk....:roll: )
But, at the end of the day you should really think "Is this really my problem?" I did and I came to the conclusion that if the party(ies) involved can't come to me and talk about it, then it's their problem not mine. Take a few off. Think about what you want and then decide.
Remember: Clarity of thought before rashness of action (although I can talk....:roll: )
Sex God
Quote by Dlep
I can only echo similar sentiments as Calista. I know there are people out there who don't like me, and aren't always subtle about it either....
Take a few off. Think about what you want and then decide.
Remember: Clarity of thought before rashness of action (although I can talk....:roll: )
The badger is right. Sod 'em
Sex God
no dont go :cry:
i felt like this sometime back hun .
your such a nice person :rose:
dont good
please :cry:
i felt like this sometime back hun .
your such a nice person :rose:
dont good
please :cry:
Lilac....I dont know you hun but you have as much right to be here as anybody else. Surely this place (and the munches) is big enough for everybody to stick with people who they get on well with, and ignore those who you dont.
I hope you dont leave, you shouldnt let folk make you feel you have to.
Hope to see you again on here.
I hope you dont leave, you shouldnt let folk make you feel you have to.
Hope to see you again on here.
Quote by essex34m
if someone doesnt like you, then tough on them, with munches that has 200 people there, then there is enough space for you both to be kept apart, you dont have to stand side by side
ditto this Wide Boy :thumbup:
I have in the past 'stayed away' from events due to rumours and character assassination attemps to which I wasnt sure what my reaction would be in person.....but....we grow up, we realise idle gossip and people who talk behind your back but wont say it to your face are as insignificant to you as they are to life here itself ...and you rise above, dig your fookin heels in, and get your bloody name down! There will always be people who are your real friends, who are impartial and dont listen to the rumour mill because they know you well enough to think its all bollocks anyway.... and in my book, the one thing you never do around here is disappear because someone wants you to.
Sex God
Quite frankly Lilacgem, if it is not said to you directly then it isn't worth even considering.
I've seen some tension lately but that is private stuff and, as Essex says should not affect whether you go to a munch or whatever.
Don't be discouraged - no rational person is going to judge you on half a story (there's always two sides to any story).
Please come to your next munch - I've been wanting to meet you fer ages.
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I've seen some tension lately but that is private stuff and, as Essex says should not affect whether you go to a munch or whatever.
Don't be discouraged - no rational person is going to judge you on half a story (there's always two sides to any story).
Please come to your next munch - I've been wanting to meet you fer ages.
.
Orgasminator
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Lilac hunnie
There's no need for you to go anywhere.
I can't speak for anyone else but I like you and I have never ever heard a bad word said about you.
And if dammie and I were still doing a munch you'd be on the list - even if I had to drag you kicking & screaming to it
Please don't go away :cry:
As HLB has said we like you, we've not heard anything bad about you either......and......we will put you at the top of our list for the next one - not that one is planned as yet
We don't know what's gone on.
We don't know what's been said but don't let anyone worry you.
So please stay :therethere: xxx
Sex God
I'll expand on what i said earlier (not hard i know) i know theres a few people here that have a problem with me, it did used to bother me and i did dissapear for a while, it was a waste of time. A few sad people will always be vocal about their problems with you, ignore them because 99% of the time those "people" are nothing.
lilac.... I could have posted a very similar thing myself just a short while ago...
however, as has been said above, there are a lot of people here, and a lot of space... there is absolutley no reason why two people cannot co-exist on the site, and in the social arena without stepping on each others toes, or causing each other grief.
I have no idea, nor do I wish to know, what is happening and why... but surely, we are supposedly all adults...
nose?...face?... don't do it...
lp
however, as has been said above, there are a lot of people here, and a lot of space... there is absolutley no reason why two people cannot co-exist on the site, and in the social arena without stepping on each others toes, or causing each other grief.
I have no idea, nor do I wish to know, what is happening and why... but surely, we are supposedly all adults...
nose?...face?... don't do it...
lp
Quote by goose35
Don't go
Take a few moments and carry on.
Each and evry one of us has people who like us and don't like us but in the most part don't let it affect what we do.
Don't let anyone make you feel you have to do this and do what YOU really want
Again i say
Dont Go
Yeh Gem, Listen to good old uncle Yoda.
sorry Goose
Sex God
Lilac.... "Are you bovvered though"???
Stay!!! and do not let others dictate to you what you can and can't do. Thats defeatist and not allowed on SH...it's in the rules!
Love Fire xxxxx
Stay!!! and do not let others dictate to you what you can and can't do. Thats defeatist and not allowed on SH...it's in the rules!
Love Fire xxxxx
Quote by Darkfire
people who talk behind your back but wont say it to your face are as insignificant to you as they are to life here itself ...and you rise above, dig your fookin heels in,
in my book, the one thing you never do around here is disappear because someone wants you to.
Could not have said it better :thumbup:
(soz for chopping your post up dark lol)
Sex God
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if thats not a moral boost i dont know what is hun
:inlove: :rose:
if thats not a moral boost i dont know what is hun
:inlove: :rose:
Sex God
Lilac
Don't you bloody go anywhere.......... :twisted:
If someone has a problem with you (and I really can't work out why) it's THEIR problem NOT YOURS...
You have a PM and if you think you're going anywhere I'll come round and drag you back by those lovely :smitten: boots......
Don't you bloody go anywhere.......... :twisted:
If someone has a problem with you (and I really can't work out why) it's THEIR problem NOT YOURS...
You have a PM and if you think you're going anywhere I'll come round and drag you back by those lovely :smitten: boots......
Quote by sercher01
19 answers in 10 minutes
if thats not a moral boost i dont know what is hun
:inlove: :rose:
And a sign to the person(s) who have made LG feel like this (and to others out there that may be doing this to other people)......
Give it up. You're not big and certainly not clever......
Sex God
Quote by dambuster
I am almost absolutely fucking speechless.
:shock:
Sex God
Curiously enough, I was having a similar conversation with someone about attending a social earlier. I said if it had involved more people then I'd have gone - but the low numbers would have meant it could have been awkward.
I can see where Lilac's coming from, but agree that she shouldn't back down (ie not go to munches/socials) or this person/people will have won.
I can see where Lilac's coming from, but agree that she shouldn't back down (ie not go to munches/socials) or this person/people will have won.
Quote by Dave__Notts
If you can't go because someone doesn't like you or that you are not popular........
......then for fook sake, I wouldn't be allowed to go to any socials :shock: .
Dave__Notts
you're not you just turn up
lilac honey whatever is going on or whatever has been said, take some time to yourself but dont you dare disappear anywhere.
like dark said you certainly dont disappear from the scene cos someone else wants you to there are plenty of people here who like you honey and would miss it if you werent around
Earthy xx
Sex God
Quote by earthchild
If you can't go because someone doesn't like you or that you are not popular........
......then for fook sake, I wouldn't be allowed to go to any socials :shock: .
Dave__Notts
you're not you just turn up
lilac honey whatever is going on or whatever has been said, take some time to yourself but dont you dare disappear anywhere.
like dark said you certainly dont disappear from the scene cos someone else wants you to there are plenty of people here who like you honey and would miss it if you werent around
Earthy xx
i would
Quote by lilacgem
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I have been told in PM by someone that they will not be going to any munches that I attend in the near future & when this person has informed the organisers was answered with "I told you so" I have asked the person what was meant by this & was told that they couldnt break a confidence.
Then it's probably a load of crap. It would be different if the person said, "I dont like you because at such-a-munch, you blah blah" - it would give you a chance to apologise or disagree. As it has been handled by this so called "popular" person, its bullying, nothing short of bullying.
Fook em.
:thumbup:
