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I do not have the same problem.
In as much as I have never planned to meet. I ether know the lady, or I find her in my wondering.
However crossing the room still does something to me. I did have feelings when I was planning a meet, but I never got to the stage of knowing it was going to happen, knowing when, knowing I had committed myself.
Travis
:-) I think I know what he means, lol
Quote by Kaznkev
:giggle:
kev has accused me of being a bloke in a womans body before!
Your all woman to me Kaz passionkiss
Hope you have wink a great time
Quote by Kaznkev
its too early to start my shower routine,and my brain flits from activity to activity,dont get me wrong, i kinda like the nerves,the building excitment iss a fab aprodisiac,but was wondering if any one else suffered and how they deal with it

Sounds like Anxiety to me, try to accept it, stay positive minded and relax smile
The before and after are the best bits!!!
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The before and after are the best bits!!!

In that case you ain't doing it right.lol
A meet lasts a finite time - the memories are forever
there was a great thread about someone (mrs bonedigger) and their build up to their first party there was some fab comments on how it helped them with nerves and also comments on how thats how most felt on going to their first party. i am sure that if you can search the threads you will come across it and if you can wade through the pages of comments you may get some helpful advice on how others feel
Quote by New_eastmids
A meet lasts a finite time - the memories are forever

That's so true! We often "dine out" as it were on memories of past meets.
And :welcome: to the forums. How long before you get round to changing your user name? :giggle:
Quote by Ms_Whips
strangely after posting in here on friday morning, i was in the same nervous state by the afternoon due to impromptu plans. the nerves didn't make me lose my errection but kept me on my toes till the evening :twisted:
hope you enjoyed yor time kaz!
whips

You had an erection? Aren't you female?
Quote by Freckledbird
strangely after posting in here on friday morning, i was in the same nervous state by the afternoon due to impromptu plans. the nerves didn't make me lose my errection but kept me on my toes till the evening :twisted:
hope you enjoyed yor time kaz!
whips

You had an erection? Aren't you female?
I was thinking the same thing??? confused :? :?
Quote by sara2010
there was a great thread about someone (mrs bonedigger) and their build up to their first party there was some fab comments on how it helped them with nerves and also comments on how thats how most felt on going to their first party. i am sure that if you can search the threads you will come across it and if you can wade through the pages of comments you may get some helpful advice on how others feel

Yep, I read it a while back and it was a classic, well worth digging out!
Quote by Kaznkev
strangely after posting in here on friday morning, i was in the same nervous state by the afternoon due to impromptu plans. the nerves didn't make me lose my errection but kept me on my toes till the evening :twisted:
hope you enjoyed yor time kaz!
whips

You had an erection? Aren't you female?
I was thinking the same thing??? confused :? :?
it makes perfect sense if you read the whole thread! wink
I did read it all smile
It was in relation to this comment:
Quote by brucie
hope you dont get too nervous and lose your erection dear...

which followed Ms Whip's post.
Quote by Cherrytree
It was in relation to this comment:
hope you dont get too nervous and lose your erection dear...

which followed Ms Whip's post.
I know - but I thought was directed towards the opening post.
No probs - guessed what it was about smile
Quote by Kaznkev
strangely after posting in here on friday morning, i was in the same nervous state by the afternoon due to impromptu plans. the nerves didn't make me lose my errection but kept me on my toes till the evening :twisted:
hope you enjoyed yor time kaz!
whips

You had an erection? Aren't you female?
I was thinking the same thing??? confused :? :?
it makes perfect sense if you read the whole thread! wink
I did read the whole thread - still doesn't make sense :?
Even Cherry?
Bloody hell, it must have been simple!
bolt
You guys :mrgreen:
Quote by Ms_Whips
glad to know you understand it now. well done and have a gold star.
whips

Can I have a Gold Star too? wink
Quote by Ms_Whips

glad to know you understand it now. well done and have a gold star.
whips

Can I have a Gold Star too? wink
yep, you can even have one stitched on your black belt, it will show up lovely lol
whips
can i have your brown star? :twisted:
what? dunno
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Simple? Yeah, I recognise simple.

glad to know you understand it now. well done and have a gold star.
whips
I never said I understood it. I said that I recognise simple. Keep the star, stick it on your erection :thumbup: