I do not have the same problem.
In as much as I have never planned to meet. I ether know the lady, or I find her in my wondering.
However crossing the room still does something to me. I did have feelings when I was planning a meet, but I never got to the stage of knowing it was going to happen, knowing when, knowing I had committed myself.
Travis
The before and after are the best bits!!!
A meet lasts a finite time - the memories are forever
there was a great thread about someone (mrs bonedigger) and their build up to their first party there was some fab comments on how it helped them with nerves and also comments on how thats how most felt on going to their first party. i am sure that if you can search the threads you will come across it and if you can wade through the pages of comments you may get some helpful advice on how others feel
Simple? Yeah, I recognise simple.