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Hi everyone!
My name is John and I have never ever had a go at anything like this! First off I have to admit I am one of millions, yes I am afraid I am a 'Men Seeking Women' clicker....I apologise for my lack of originality. However, as expierience is gained....who knows?
Anyway, I am not having much luck. I have emailed some ladies and complied with their wishes, be it pic of face, no one-liner!, information or 'no cock pic'!lol. It just seems strange...I am handsome(not just according to my mum....my gran said I am too), tall, athletic, intelligent(well meant to be, according to letters after my name but who hasnt got those in Tony Blairs-everybody-gets a degree-society.....oooo political!!!) and most importantly an easy going sort of guy. Nobody wants me though! :cry:
Anyway after my little moan is there anyone out there that can offer some tips/advice? I would like to get the ball rolling while I am still in my 20s!(23 now) Well thanks for any help...and please go easy on me!
Thanks
J
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Hi everyone!
My name is John and I have never ever had a go at anything like this! First off I have to admit I am one of millions, yes I am afraid I am a 'Men Seeking Women' clicker....I apologise for my lack of originality. However, as expierience is gained....who knows?
Anyway, I am not having much luck. I have emailed some ladies and complied with their wishes, be it pic of face, no one-liner!, information or 'no cock pic'!lol. It just seems strange...I am handsome(not just according to my mum....my gran said I am too), tall, athletic, intelligent(well meant to be, according to letters after my name but who hasnt got those in Tony Blairs-everybody-gets a degree-society.....oooo political!!!) and most importantly an easy going sort of guy. Nobody wants me though! :cry:
Anyway after my little moan is there anyone out there that can offer some tips/advice? I would like to get the ball rolling while I am still in my 20s!(23 now) Well thanks for any help...and please go easy on me!
Thanks
J

Welcome NWguy,
You appear (at least from some of your comments) to have read some of The Forum Pages, take some time to read a good many more, there's lots of good advice for newbies.
I'm glad you realise that your outnumbered in the Men Seeking Women field. The current ratio on this site is 36males to 1 female. Despite that your mother and grandmother say about your being 'handsome', a good personality and a sense of humour is more important.
Many of the members have letters after their name, i.e. BSc, MSc, PhD, LLD etc, but a greater number have P.R.A.T. after them, reading some of the posts will reveal all. lol
At 23 you are at the bottom of the age range in here, most swingers are people in the 35+ age range. You may have realised that this is not a site where a 'Shag me tonight' advert will get you anything, but ignored, I hope so. It's a long hard road to success in here.
I'm not trying to put you off, but you will have to work very hard indeed to get even a single reply to any advert you place. Be prepared to travel, it's seldom a contact is just around the corner, they're more likely to be a couple of hundred miles away. It's all part of the fun.
You will have to be persistant, and very patient to get anywhere.
Best of luck.
Harry0
'What's a few injuns against the might of the 7th Cavalry, Oops'.
George Armstrong Custer. Little Big Horn. 1876.
A warm welcome to the Forum.
Have a bit of fun while you look........you never know you may get lucky!!!
Love
Wilma
x x x x
:welcome: Happy hunting smile
You get out of this what you put in. If you mke the effort, you will make a lot of friends on here and that should be your aim.
Best of luck and have fun biggrin
Mal
lol
Hi NWGuy....nice to have you here....good luck.
Hi NWGuy - nice to meet you!
And what a lovely first post!
I would like to point out that at least one 23 yr old has had success on this site recently. Again he was polite and intelligent - so, regardless of the average age on here, your youth may not be a dissadvantage.
So enjoy your time here!
Hugs, Mrs Peel x
Thanks for the warm welcome! I will use your advice and see how it goes.