Why is this thread showing zero replies on the forum when there are six or seven now?
The answer to the question is the same wherever you are. You can't expect a girlfriend to drop out of the sky. Your prospective girlfriend has a right to know who you are and what you're like. If you hang around here and impress some people (honestly) then you might have a chance - it is just one way and it's actually good fun.
didn't think it would be easy, just wondered if it was possible, and if the effort required was proportionate...
gonna go dancin tomoro
As far as meeting a life partner or someone for a long term relationship goes (or whatever P.C. buzzword we are supposed to be using at the moment).......as has already been stated on this thread, its a common notion that "love" always happens when you least expect it and aren't looking for it.
It may be a cliche but then a cliche is full of truth otherwise it wouldnt be a cliche.
You are "putting yourself out there" which cant hurt. I would just say avoid being pushy. Pushiness seems to be everyones biggest pet hate, maybe more so on this site than others.
But then in the same breath I always believe that persistance overcomes resistance, just persevre. Stick around, who knows what will happen.
I must just be bitter and twisted 'cos I think you should stop looking. Stay single and enjoy it while you can. Take pleasure in your freedom and independence and love yourself.
Welcome to the assylum Soulmate.
I would take time to relax in here for a while.
You may not find the girl of your dreams - but will will ceratinly find some lovely people and some good friends. This in itself may change your attitude a little and when you are least expecting it, that certain someone may just walk round the corner.
Hugs, Alex x x
Yes,
that's the reason why I joined this great site due to wanting to meet a lovely lady that understands what I call my "Prince" side.
You know what I mean, very open about Sex. In previous realtionships when I've always wanted to push the Sex & make it better all my previous partners have been uncomfatable. One Girlfriend even said that me performing Cunny Lingus was an Homosexual Act... :!: :!:
After going to the previous munch I have seen that their are many a couple that prove that Swinging is not a negative thing but done right is postive. I just want to meet a person that I more than do anything I CAN SAY ANYTHING & have no hidden stuff.
After all that's what's True Love is about the feeling of being open about ones nakedness both physical & mental ways.
My advice is that you should post as many stuff on this section of the site & then a lady might take to you & want to know more. Also put the city & county that you live so people have an idea. I hope you find what your looking for cause so DO I.
Omar.
Soulmate, just happened to see you're from Farnham - hurrah! Someone very local (I live there too). If you wanna hang out for a drink or chat about the site/experiences (I'm a newbie too, just been to my first munch this weekend) that'd be cool. Welcome on board.
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hwoar: :rose: :cheers: :wanker: :grin: 
There are plenty of oportunities to stray in real life, you just have to have faith that your partner won't.... trying to get in their way all the time will only make them leave. 
