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Having compliemented the site on its chatrooms I'm forced to ask why do so many people (guys predominantly it has to be said) try to direct those on cam when there are specific instructioins NOT to do so? If I stumble across someone on cam who's prepared to put on a show the last thing I'm going to do is hassle them to do things they don't want to. Of course there is a fine line between encouragement and direction but I do think more people ought to be a bit more considerate and allow those on cam to run their show their way.
Oh and I'm off for a passive perv now ;)
I have to agree- I was on cam last night... and attracted quite a lot of attention I am pleased to say biggrin .... Before beginning to put on a show I chatted to people and emphasised that I didn't want whispers and directing.
lo and behold I start to play... and I get bombarded by both.
initially I was copy/pasting the whisperers into the chatroom. and they were getting booted....
then I just gave up- lost interest in being watched and went off cam. to a lot of peoples' unhappiness.
I do enjoy being watched... but I hate being told by complete strangers what I should do.... if I wanna do something I will.... if not I won't. And it doesn't take much to read my profile and know that being offered a "red hot C@ck" is not going to fire my rockets. !!! :shock:
(although I do have a thing for sheddy) :P
x x x
chatroom directors are a pet hate of mine (alongside a few others lol ), so I'm not even gonna go there!
but, wave Hello again, nice to see you back here and posting biggrin
Hiya
Unfortunately a lot of the fellahs assume that because you have a webcam, you are up for putting on a show. in fact they don't realise there is any other use for it at all.
They also take on personalities far from how they are away from here. The anonimity also give them the courage to be rude and lewd. They begin to think they have a right to tell you what to do and sometimes become abusive if you don't do their bidding.
Sad but true.
Ah! Well there's the problem - you are a gent, and quite a lot of blokes aren't... biggrin
...the best we can do is to try to put up with them... *sigh*
Quote by splendid33
I have to agree- I was on cam last night... and attracted quite a lot of attention I am pleased to say biggrin .... Before beginning to put on a show I chatted to people and emphasised that I didn't want whispers and directing.
lo and behold I start to play... and I get bombarded by both.
initially I was copy/pasting the whisperers into the chatroom. and they were getting booted....
then I just gave up- lost interest in being watched and went off cam. to a lot of peoples' unhappiness.
I do enjoy being watched... but I hate being told by complete strangers what I should do.... if I wanna do something I will.... if not I won't. And it doesn't take much to read my profile and know that being offered a "red hot C@ck" is not going to fire my rockets. !!! :shock:
(although I do have a thing for sheddy) :P
x x x

Hiya splendid hun wave
Just familiarised myself with your profile , and I just have to ask....
How do you become a fully qualified lesbian?
Do you take an "o" level?
rolleyes :giggle:
hi all - Well I can see there are those guys who simply get carried away and then there are those who become quite indignant if the woman on cam either refuses to perform or won't go far enough for their liking. I really think that says something very sad about their view of women.
I'm still not saying owt lol
Quote by Darkfire
I'm still not saying owt lol

yeah but you want to don't you??? smile You know you do!! Come on spit it out - I'm directing you to FGS! LOL
Hiya splendid hun wave
Just familiarised myself with your profile , and I just have to ask....
How do you become a fully qualified lesbian?
Do you take an "o" level?
rolleyes :giggle:
it is a "trade" secret.... I can show you how if you like ? wink
:rose:
Quote by splendid33
Hiya splendid hun wave
Just familiarised myself with your profile , and I just have to ask....
How do you become a fully qualified lesbian?
Do you take an "o" level?
rolleyes :giggle:

it is a "trade" secret.... I can show you how if you like ? wink
:rose:

Sounds good to us ;)
Having recently been initiated into the chat rooms (thanx Sarge and Minxy!) I find myself holding back because of these serial directors. On many occassions I've wanted to compliment one of the 'cammers' but I don't want to get labelled as one of those people who think that because they've thrown in a cursory "Cor! Nice beef flaps Darlin!" they can go on to issue commands. I don't want anything to do with that!
Funny thing is with these people, they never do it when there's an Op around dunno
Red won't go anywhere near the chatrooms because of all that. Can't say I blame her either.
CB
best thing to do is just turn your cam off, soon shuts them up lol
It does annoy you after a bit tho, and what really annoys me is when they call u boring cause ur not prepaired to perform to like a circus seal for them :shock:
Quote by Darkfire
I'm still not saying owt lol

come on dark.......we're all waiting here with bated breath! :lol:
Quote by osemlover
Hiya splendid hun wave
Just familiarised myself with your profile , and I just have to ask....
How do you become a fully qualified lesbian?
Do you take an "o" level?
rolleyes :giggle:

it is a "trade" secret.... I can show you how if you like ? wink
:rose:

Sounds good to us ;)
:roll: They'll be wanting to direct next lol
We've recently found our way into chat too and love it :P
I know two rights don't make a wrong but every time I see a bloke ask a female to "move the camera"...."show us a nipple"... "do this... do that", I ask them to get their knobs out or show me their arse - what's good for the goose.... that seems to shut them up too wink
I am not a performing seal (tm Dambuster) and i will not come out of nowhere in psycho bitch attack mode just because you've directed( mad ) me to. flipa
(now look, you've made me laugh so it'll be at least another 20 minutes wait for the Dark Goes Off on One Again Show )
rotflmao :rotflmao:
Quote by winchwench
Hiya splendid hun wave
Just familiarised myself with your profile , and I just have to ask....
How do you become a fully qualified lesbian?
Do you take an "o" level?
rolleyes :giggle:

it is a "trade" secret.... I can show you how if you like ? wink
:rose:

Sounds good to us ;)
:roll: They'll be wanting to direct next lol
LOL -
Obviously darkfire is proving her point smile
Quote by winchwench
Hiya splendid hun wave
Just familiarised myself with your profile , and I just have to ask....
How do you become a fully qualified lesbian?
Do you take an "o" level?
rolleyes :giggle:

it is a "trade" secret.... I can show you how if you like ? wink
:rose:

Sounds good to us ;)
:roll: They'll be wanting to direct next lol
ummmmm the lessons would then have to be conducted off cam !! :color:
just name the time and place and I will get you that qualification :jagsatwork:
Quote by Darkfire
I am not a performing seal (tm Dambuster) . . . . . .

rotflmao
I'm just gonna slip this one in (ooo'er Missus) while Darkfire's in pink n fluffy mode.
Lesson 1.
never be lolled into a false sense of security, the pink fluff is just there for decoration
biggrin
Quote by Bloke2005
We've recently found our way into chat too and love it :P
I know two rights don't make a wrong but every time I see a bloke ask a female to "move the camera"...."show us a nipple"... "do this... do that", I ask them to get their knobs out or show me their arse - what's good for the goose.... that seems to shut them up too wink

What i do lol
Darkfire
Want to borrow my pink fluffy handcuffs????????????
lol
As a single guy i do go in the chat room from time to time and have meet some great friend to chat to, i must admit before the new room was created i used to hate it, as it was too fast for me to reply as i am a chatroom virgin lol Ok well maybe not now.
But i have to agree with a lot of you on your views in this post there are a lot of idiots that will direct and when ask not to get very abusive towards the couple and the room, i for one hate it, there has been may occasions that i have opologised on behalf of the idiot to the couple for the shear disespect for the couple concerned.
Please dont get me wrong there are nice guy and singles and couple in the chat rooms but there a of idiots too that spoil it for everyone how injoys and apresiate the people that put on the great shows for us.
I know i dont post many post on the forum but i feel very strongly about this, i hope you take it the way it was ment.
Mikey55
Quote by splendid33
Hiya splendid hun wave
Just familiarised myself with your profile , and I just have to ask....
How do you become a fully qualified lesbian?
Do you take an "o" level?
rolleyes :giggle:

it is a "trade" secret.... I can show you how if you like ? wink
:rose:

Sounds good to us ;)
:roll: They'll be wanting to direct next lol
ummmmm the lessons would then have to be conducted off cam !! :color:
just name the time and place and I will get you that qualification :jagsatwork:
OK.....This takes a lot for a 60ft tall, High Kickin hottie to admit,
but
I must admit
to being ever so slightly
just a touch
SCARED! :scared:
:lol:
I can assure that I am a good teacher and you will qualify after giving 150 orgasms.!!! :shock:
I will be gentle with you lol
x x x x
Quote by splendid33
I can assure that I am a good teacher and you will qualify after giving 150 orgasms.!!! :shock:
I will be gentle with you lol
x x x x

Phew! And I thought it would be hard work! :shock:
(Goes off to find some tongue strenghthening excersises! Redpantherman....I may be needing my personal trainer!)
:lickface: rotflmao
Quote by Bloke2005
We've recently found our way into chat too and love it :P
I know two rights don't make a wrong but every time I see a bloke ask a female to "move the camera"...."show us a nipple"... "do this... do that", I ask them to get their knobs out or show me their arse - what's good for the goose.... that seems to shut them up too wink

Yep me too now I’ve concurred my chat phobia it's great loads of friendly people and in all honesty loads of fun biggrin :D
However I'm still cam shy not really on my own but more so on others it always seems like I’m being nosey when I click on them so I just take a sneaky peak and then I’m gone again, so I think we can safely say I won't be doing much directing, and if I am it'd be pointless as I'd get to see sod all lol :lol:
I was getting that last night as it was from some people in there :shock: redface surprisedops: poor disillusioned souls :lol: :lol:
And splendid I'm flattered thank you kiss