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Anyone mentions the "V" word and the keys are coming out!!! confused :? :? lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I travelled by train or car THREE times to meet the same woman and she did a no show on me everytime (she was not from SH I hasten to add), another couple arranged a dogging meet with me and it was a 100 mile round trip and they didn't show again not from here. I know where you are coming from.
Best of luck in your future meets.
Regards
Harry Jones
No 'V' word, I promise wink
Guess there's got to be some bloody funny excuses though...I mean I get annoyed at the time but really (sometimes) admired the inventiveness lol
Reminds me of the time me and Medic1 were supposed to be meeting the stupidest Chinese woman who ever lived, but she got lost on the way.
I said "I guess we'll have to let her off as she is a...
...very thick Asian, Fred."
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...very thick Asian, Fred."

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What's the "V" word Sarge? innocent :whistling:
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Are we allowed racism on this site? Doesn't seem the done thing to me? sad
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Are we allowed racism on this site? Doesn't seem the done thing to me? sad

No we're not allowed racism and that wasn't racist!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
"Very thick Asian, Fred" = verification thread rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll:
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What's the "V" word Sarge? innocent :whistling:
:uhoh: :scared: :scared: :scared: bolt

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Ahh
Thanks Sgt, I was reading that and reading it and knew there was some sort of play on words but couldn't get it rolleyes
Regards
Harry Jones
hmm ... annoying no-shows, not had one happen to us but im sure at least one person on here thinks we did it to them , tho ive only ever seen him in chat never in the forum , but then again he now believes our kid dont excist and that means our reason of taking her to hospital is false too , not all excuses are excuses some are reasons smile but still i know what you mean :)
ck&mh
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Are we allowed racism on this site? Doesn't seem the done thing to me? sad

No we're not allowed racism and that wasn't racist!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
"Very thick Asian, Fred" = verification thread rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll:

Well, I know it was a play on words, but, to me, it still has a racist tone that I don't find funny. :(
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Are we allowed racism on this site? Doesn't seem the done thing to me? sad

No we're not allowed racism and that wasn't racist!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
"Very thick Asian, Fred" = verification thread rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll:

Well, I know it was a play on words, but, to me, it still has a racist tone that I don't find funny. :(
Having read through your past posts you really don't seem happy here do you?? confused :? :? :? dunno :dunno:
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Well, I know it was a play on words, but, to me, it still has a racist tone that I don't find funny. sad

rolleyes :roll: :roll:
I'm sorry you took offence at that, it certainly wasn't intended that way.
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Are we allowed racism on this site? Doesn't seem the done thing to me? sad

No we're not allowed racism and that wasn't racist!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
"Very thick Asian, Fred" = verification thread rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll:

Well, I know it was a play on words, but, to me, it still has a racist tone that I don't find funny. :(
Having read through your past posts you really don't seem happy here do you?? confused :? :? :? dunno :dunno:
Quite the opposite, I've met some really nice people so far and I'm getting on very well with them biggrin . I know racism is a touchy subject but, to be honest, it's something that I am quite concerned about, it's not just a trivial matter for many people I know.
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I'm sorry you took offence at that, it certainly wasn't intended that way.

Thanks, no problem. Without going into too many details, I work in an area where racism is a big problem at the moment and it's impossible to be 'too careful'.
Cheers, for replying biggrin
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I know racism is a touchy subject but, to be honest, it's something that I am quite concerned about, it's not just a trivial matter for many people I know.

I agree, but there was nothing racist about that. If there was, the person that wrote it would have been banned from the site. :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
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I just can't believe how many last minute disasters blokes come up with to avoid turning up for a meet, in the last two months (for example) I've had three car breakdowns, one car stolen, two 'football' injuries and two 'boss turned up at hotel at last minute'. Honestly, if blokes get off just chatting to people fair enough but why chat, arrange a meet, and bottle out at the last minute? Guess I'm lucky that I've not yet had a no show (must be awful) but it's a pain when you plan your day, expecting some fun at the end and get those last minute calls. Just a bit of honesty is all I ask.

What's even worse than the crap excuses is when you get no-shows who don't even bother to let you know they aren't coming.
I organised a bukkake night last year, and even as late as 2pm on the day I had 16 guys turning up. 5 actually arrived. I still had a good night, but i was annoyed by the lack of courtesy from the no-shows. Even a crappy excuse would have been better than no excuse at all.
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I just can't believe how many last minute disasters blokes come up with to avoid turning up for a meet, in the last two months (for example) I've had three car breakdowns, one car stolen, two 'football' injuries and two 'boss turned up at hotel at last minute'. Honestly, if blokes get off just chatting to people fair enough but why chat, arrange a meet, and bottle out at the last minute? Guess I'm lucky that I've not yet had a no show (must be awful) but it's a pain when you plan your day, expecting some fun at the end and get those last minute calls. Just a bit of honesty is all I ask.

What's even worse than the crap excuses is when you get no-shows who don't even bother to let you know they aren't coming.
I organised a bukkake night last year, and even as late as 2pm on the day I had 16 guys turning up. 5 actually arrived. I still had a good night, but i was annoyed by the lack of courtesy from the no-shows. Even a crappy excuse would have been better than no excuse at all.
Yes, guess you are right, you do know where you are with crappy excuses lol Still, I'd be quite happy with five blokes, I've never managed to have any more than two so far..though still hopeful 69position
well you can always rely on the welsh - and there are enough of us on here who always turn up for meets, even if it means driving 200 miles lol
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I just can't believe how many last minute disasters blokes come up with to avoid turning up for a meet, in the last two months (for example) I've had three car breakdowns, one car stolen, two 'football' injuries and two 'boss turned up at hotel at last minute'. Honestly, if blokes get off just chatting to people fair enough but why chat, arrange a meet, and bottle out at the last minute? Guess I'm lucky that I've not yet had a no show (must be awful) but it's a pain when you plan your day, expecting some fun at the end and get those last minute calls. Just a bit of honesty is all I ask.

And I thought it was just me!!!
Fortunately I have only had one "no show" this year and stupid as I was I gave him a second chance and a third, both of which he managed to have emergencies with - though to be fair he did tell me in advance for those. Finally i put him on block, should have done it earlier.
As well as him I think I have about 3 that chickened out at the last minue and came up with crapy excuses.
One recent one just seemed to good to be true, own hard hat, right age, seemed intelligent not to near to home yet not at the other end of the country. Needless to say he was too good to be true and went missing when we should have been making the final arrangements!!
Btw they arent all from this site, site dosnt seem to matter, it just happens
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site dosnt seem to matter

Oh God, not the old "Does site matter?" debate again! lol
Just to even things out women 'no-show' as well - also with crap excusues!!
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well you can always rely on the welsh - and there are enough of us on here who always turn up for meets, even if it means driving 200 miles lol

eh................no u cant, believe me you cant!!
Its just plain ignorance and lack of manner's, those who dont have the spine (male and female) to call and explain, especially if they have made all the arrangements and time etc to pick up the phone and say sorry but ............
even a crappy excuse would do, or better still a bit of honesty!
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I just can't believe how many last minute disasters blokes come up with to avoid turning up for a meet, in the last two months (for example) I've had three car breakdowns, one car stolen, two 'football' injuries and two 'boss turned up at hotel at last minute'.

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Guess I'm lucky that I've not yet had a no show

OK I'm being thick here - but I can't work out whether you've experienced these 'no shows' or not :confused: dunno First sentence looks to me like you have, and decided to put up a thread about it. Then you go on to say that actually it hasn't happened to you at all ....... but decided to put a thread up about it?? :confused:
What am I missing? :lol2: buggered if I can see it ....... although suspect I will as soon as I press the blummin submit post button rolleyes :undecided:
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I just can't believe how many last minute disasters blokes come up with to avoid turning up for a meet, in the last two months (for example) I've had three car breakdowns, one car stolen, two 'football' injuries and two 'boss turned up at hotel at last minute'.

Quote by amalthea
Guess I'm lucky that I've not yet had a no show

OK I'm being thick here - but I can't work out whether you've experienced these 'no shows' or not :confused: dunno First sentence looks to me like you have, and decided to put up a thread about it. Then you go on to say that actually it hasn't happened to you at all ....... but decided to put a thread up about it?? :confused:
What am I missing? :lol2: buggered if I can see it ....... although suspect I will as soon as I press the blummin submit post button rolleyes :undecided:
Phew, I was just about to ask the same question. Glad I'm not the only slow one :grin:
I've never been let down yet - but that's because I've not arranged to meet anyone yet!
And I'd just like to say that if I make a promise I keep it so if anyone does want to have a go at arranging to meet me - go ahead! Although I was kind of waiting to go to a munch before trying too seriously to meet anyone as meeting a few people from here in the flesh (socially speaking) would be quite like v v v v, dammit! like being known!
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