Hi WBB - how are you?
I think we're right to try and reply but I had a nasty moment, not on this site I hasten to add. On AFF. I got a standard "You must be gagging for a young guy - I can..." etc etc message, written in text and I replied in the constructive SH manner saying No thank you, but here are ways you can improve your approach. Big mistake. I got a horrible reply saying "I know where you live, bitch - watch your back" etc etc. I reported him and his account was closed off immediately but it left a bad taste.
I still try and reply, though, and will continue to.
Jezzay.