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Non replies.......such a waste of time!

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There I was, trying to arrange time and looking foward so much to my first meet with my prospective 'lady friend', and all the while it seems that she was just stringing me along! (If indeed she was a 'she'!)
OK so I'm not alone in that, but wasting time with promising emails and non responsive 'phone calls is so frustrating that I feel like giving up.
Here in Fife there seem to be very few genuine ads being placed, or is it just that the swingers are more hesitant? So far I've been in touch with couples and singles (male and female) who all fall at the first fence.
How do others cut out the timewasters? Is there a sure-fire way of finding the genuine swinger?
WJ
Quote by Wee-Jimmy
Is there a sure-fire way of finding the genuine swinger?
WJ

NO!
Quote by meat2pleaseu
have you tried

?????

Or Moaner's Anonymous might be his next stop.
Thats life
if u get let down
try &try again
it happens to us
so we try again
till we find some one
biggrin :D
mind u could find nothing on yr profile
so perhaps that why rolleyes
I'm not sure that telling you it happens to everyone will make you feel better but...
It happens to everyone.
Feel better?
H.x
As this is quite a regular topic on here, and I have been one of the so called moaners as well, why not make a list of all the people who have either placed ads, or answered ads and got no replies, and then moaned about timewasters.
Then we could just look at the list and message one of the people, with the sure knowledge that we would get a reply and be off to a meet in record time.
Think it would happen? rolleyes
Would be interesting to see if anybody who has placed a topic about timewasters actually turned out to be one smile
Well here's me at the top of the list, anyone else want to get on it lol
Bazzanw
Bazza nobody's allowed to name and shame on here. It would be very open to abuse.
Quote by freckledbird
Bazza nobody's allowed to name and shame on here. It would be very open to abuse.

It was meant to be tongue in cheek Frecklebird, I know you can't name and shame lol
Quote by BazzaNW
Bazza nobody's allowed to name and shame on here. It would be very open to abuse.

It was meant to be tongue in cheek Frecklebird, I know you can't name and shame lol
Good boy wink
but how about
those that have turned up for a meet
how about a green tick by the side of the names
biggrin
Bloody hell!! what's going on today?? :shock:
This thread - about timewasters confused
Another thread not very far away - pubic hair, to shave or not :? :?
Another not very far from that - winge about the chatroom in the forums! :? :? :?
Have we gone back a couple of years? Am I in a timewarp??
If we carry on getting posts like that today, perhaps we should lock the FORUM!!!!
Mal
wink
Not this old chestnut again? :doh: banghead :banghead: :banghead:
Quote by twos_company
but how about
those that have turned up for a meet
how about a green tick by the side of the names
biggrin

:shock: don't even go there! lol
No really, don't.
Quote by Mal
If we carry on getting posts like that today, perhaps we should lock the FORUM!!!!
Mal
wink

smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Quote by twos_company
but how about
those that have turned up for a meet
how about a green tick by the side of the names
biggrin

Yeah - why not ?
Like some sort of - oh, I don't know ?
Verification Scheme ?
Maybe the mods could oversee it all and make it work ?
Quote by freckledbird
but how about
those that have turned up for a meet
how about a green tick by the side of the names
biggrin

:shock: don't even go there! lol
No really, don't.
This thread seems to be heading towards the dreaded "V" word :scared:
Everyone run for the hills while you still can :shock:
Quote by dambuster
but how about
those that have turned up for a meet
how about a green tick by the side of the names
biggrin

Yeah - why not ?
Like some sort of - oh, I don't know ?
Verification Scheme ?
Maybe the mods could oversee it all and make it work ?
OMG DB you're going to be in so much trouble for that, you best start hobbling away now lol
OMG!!!
our thoughts are morphing together now?
This is getting really spooky :shock:
Quote by freckledbird
OMG DB you're going to be in so much trouble for that, you best start hobbling away now lol

I'm having a good day Sweetie.
I've never been as happy to have an ordinary backache. Problem is, it's making me feel a little frisky and cheeky.
I'm not sure whether to hang around for a while or log off and let Tramper come out to play
bolt
Quote by dambuster
but how about
those that have turned up for a meet
how about a green tick by the side of the names
biggrin

Yeah - why not ?
Like some sort of - oh, I don't know ?
Verification Scheme ?
Maybe the mods could oversee it all and make it work ?
How would that work Dammy ? It sounds like a good idea :idea:
bolt
Minx x x
This thread - about timewasters confused
Another thread not very far away - pubic hair, to shave or not :? :?
Another not very far from that - winge about the chatroom in the forums! :? :? :?
Have we gone back a couple of years? Am I in a timewarp??
If we carry on getting posts like that today, perhaps we should lock the FORUM!!!!
Not everyone has been a member since Noah fell of the Ark
Quote by Reikiradical
This thread - about timewasters confused
Another thread not very far away - pubic hair, to shave or not :? :?
Another not very far from that - winge about the chatroom in the forums! :? :? :?
Have we gone back a couple of years? Am I in a timewarp??
If we carry on getting posts like that today, perhaps we should lock the FORUM!!!!
Not everyone has been a member since Noah fell of the Ark

Meouww!!!!
Quote by Reikiradical
Not everyone has been a member since Noah fell of the Ark

FreckledBird isn't that old Reiki...
Feck now I have done it! :shock:
bolt
Minx x x x
kiss FB
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
our thoughts are morphing together now?

Hmmmm
So ....................................
Would you like to chairmorph ? Or maybe it's warm enough to go morph on the patio ???
,
Quote by Reikiradical
This thread - about timewasters confused
Another thread not very far away - pubic hair, to shave or not :? :?
Another not very far from that - winge about the chatroom in the forums! :? :? :?
Have we gone back a couple of years? Am I in a timewarp??
If we carry on getting posts like that today, perhaps we should lock the FORUM!!!!
Not everyone has been a member since Noah fell of the Ark

I think you're missing the point Reikiradical. The point being it's dull and moany.
HLB goes off to start a clock thread bolt
Quote by BiWelshMinx

Not everyone has been a member since Noah fell of the Ark

FreckledBird isn't that old Reiki...
Feck now I have done it! :shock:
bolt
Minx x x x
kiss FB
Reiki it's still boring - you don't need to have been a member for that long rolleyes
Minx you bad girl smackbottom :smackbottom: wink
Quote by freckledbird
Minx you bad girl smackbottom :smackbottom: wink

Sorry FB, HornyLittleBlonde told me to write it.... rolleyes
Minx x x