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Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
our local club has a nudity/sexy lingerie code up stairs so you can imagine my surprise on our last visit when i realised there was a fully dressed guy up stairs watching the was clear he was with his partner,but i found it rather disconcerting,and if i hadnt been otherwise occupied would have gone down stairs to tell the manager.
Do you think dressed ppl should be allowed in the play areas of clubs and would you have complained?
I must point out i have no problem with ppl who only want to watch,but find it freaky to have someone in the room fully dressed.
We went to a place once where it was mandatory for the guys to be naked - no ifs or buts and the women could take their time and be as undressed as they liked. The thinking behind this is is exactly as you have described - women feeling uncomfortable in the presence of a fully dressed man. I would have complained - just told him to go away from us and mention to the owner/manager later how off putting it was.
Sex God
I can see how that would be very disconcerting. I think that if the upstairs rule is nudity then clothed people no matter what sex should remain downstairs.
Sex God
i have and would have no hesitation complaining again. it is for everyone's comfort that there is a dress/undress code in clubs .. i would also find it uncomphy if it was a female that was in 'vanilla' clothes and not in appropriate attire like undies or towel or bdsm attire
Sex God
Certainly should have told the Management !!
John & Shel
John & Shel
Sex God
greedy girls or not he was nt going to play....so should of told him...
Sex God
thats why we like chams so much its dress code is towels or lingerie as soon as you go in so very equalizing and no worries bout feeling uncomfortable with dressed folks
Quote by Kaznkev
our local club has a nudity/sexy lingerie code up stairs so you can imagine my surprise on our last visit when i realised there was a fully dressed guy up stairs watching the was clear he was with his partner,but i found it rather disconcerting,and if i hadnt been otherwise occupied would have gone down stairs to tell the manager.
Do you think dressed ppl should be allowed in the play areas of clubs and would you have complained?
I must point out i have no problem with ppl who only want to watch,but find it freaky to have someone in the room fully dressed.
i agree with the above comment dress code should be adhered to if you are as a couple visiting these places where you can go when you want too
when you go as an organised group to a club would you mind if the designated drivers had adhered to the dress code until much later in the evening then got dressed to drive people back to the hotel that had been drinking yet remained dressed ready for the next group of people wanting to go back to hotel for the night saving you the cost of the taxis both ways
Quote by Big1gaz1
when you go as an organised group to a club would you mind if the designated drivers had adhered to the dress code until much later in the evening then got dressed to drive people back to the hotel that had been drinking yet remained dressed ready for the next group of people wanting to go back to hotel for the night saving you the cost of the taxis both ways
It wouldn't bother us if someone was dressed in the bar for a few minutes. However,if the dress code is undressed throughout the club then really the designated driver should be undressed - or the next lift should be ready to leave as the driver arrives back. The people that are not in the organised group may not want dressed people sat in the club. If dress code allows street wear in the bar then there isn't a problem.
The dress code is there to allow customers to feel relaxed - if anyone doesn't like the idea of a towel/underwear club then maybe they should stick to the 'nightclub' style clubs. We will say to people that are dressed in playrooms that they should change and have reported them to the staff if they continue to stay in the playrooms dressed.
Sex God
In our local club (Townhouse) the manager bangs a gong at 11pm and from this time you cannot wander around the play areas unless you are dressed down, but it is fine to stay dressed if you just want to stay in the bar area.
We went to a club in Blackpool (Buddy's) and all of the women were expected to be dressed down but men were not .... there were men shagging in the playrooms, dressed with their trousers round their ankles!!!! We both thought this was totally out of order and would never go there again (for that and many other reasons)!!!
We went to a club in Blackpool (Buddy's) and all of the women were expected to be dressed down but men were not .... there were men shagging in the playrooms, dressed with their trousers round their ankles!!!! We both thought this was totally out of order and would never go there again (for that and many other reasons)!!!
Quote by Kaznkev
Certainly should have told the Management !!
John & Shel
True,but not only was i *ahem* busy but felt a bit like it would not gone down well as his partner was rather popular,if it hadnt been greedy girls i probs woud have said something
Just cause hiis partner is popular does not give him ethe right to be fully dressed if it is against the rules...surely.
As for you being otherwise engaged, lol, should have gone to Management later that day. They would want to stop that from happening again! wouldn't they??
