awhh flower,
i have always lived on my own, i enjoy my own space, watch what i want , etc. i never live din student accommodation or house shared either.
well i say lived on my own, i do lve with my kids lol
hey were swingers here so not really conforming to the norm, so why feel you have to in other areas?
i think if your both happy as you are why upset the apple cart?
on the other hand i wouldnt take a holday as a sign of what living together will be like, ive known couple who have lived togather fo yonks and then split up after going on holiday together lol
what ever happens i hope you are both happy
xxxxx fem xxxxx
I have a pretty chronic record with holidays and partners...
the last one I tried was an 11 day trip. He dumped me on day 2. :shock:
Flower, its always stressfull doing family stuff hunny..... even when youve been doing it for years....take it from one who knows babes!
You always need the first week to iron out the stresses of being together loads more hours than you are used to, and then the next week you can realx and begin to enjoy it!.
I (once) went to Malta for a fornight with Mr B and our first child who was 2 and a half....our first and only holiday abroad.
I worked full time in a busy operating theatre and Mr Bone was househusband by day and did a part time job a few evenings a week.......going on holiday threw us together all day every day, and by the 3rd day I was ready to kill him and bury his body on beach in Malta...no mean feat as they are mostly rocks!
It was just such a shock to the system being with each other so much after passing like ships in te night and only being together as a family at weekends.
By the time the 2nd week came, we were much more used to spending time with each other and a lot more relaxed, and ended up having a fab holiday.
If being with Mrs F and family,full time, is truly what you want then keep your chin up it will get better the more ou do it and gt used to it....if its maybe an excuse for different feelings then you need to have a think and a chat about the real resons that you didnt feel at ease on holiday
Whatever happens, good luck and be happy xxx
sorry about the typos....sticky keyboard!! LOL
Thats the problem sometimes- being in lust with someone can feel sooo heady. When you've found perfecion sexually, you tend to overlook the rest
Why don't you try spending some time together in a situation which reflects real life- without the sex?
Thats the only way you'll find out if you're compatible out of bed too. :thumbup:
i might not have much experienced to put a word but all i can say is have been seperated for just over two years the sex was great but some holidays and day outs were nightmare but one thing am certain is i miss it all.....well things are working back up!
Been with hubby 15 yrs came back off hols saturday and sunday morning was looking on net for a week away on my own this week. We love each other too bits but holidays are a different thing to everyday life.
Sara
. but we go on our annual pilgramage to blackpool, just us an the kids no one else and its the best. so don't allow a bad holiday decide your fate try again in different circumstances. if then its not for you then so be it but at least give it a proper chance. good luck
