Much preffer to give, admitedly I enjoy it more because I like to think I'm giving a woman lots of pleasure (if you're faking it, that's fine, just don't tell me so, ignorance is bliss and all that!)
But to be honest I just can't relax as much if I'm on the recieving end.
All the time I'm thinking:
"Oh, OK, this is nice, erm, what sort of face should I pull now? Like this? No, no, that probably looks like I'm pain..How about this? Nope, she'll probably think I'm smacked off my tits or something. And right, how am I supposed to sound. 'oh..yeah', no, sound too much like a cheesy pornstar..'ohhhwoahohhh', nope, now you sound like you're having some sort of overwhelming devine epithany..."
To be honest, I could rather do with out all that running through my head whilst I'm tryin' to have sex...
I think the more you feel comfortable with swingign in general the more likely you are to expereiment and then go futher with people than you would before
We're all so generous on here aren't we? as another vote for giving here. It doesn't worry me if the woman doesn't cum as it's all part of the foreplay and build up to sex. As long as it makes her feel good, that's what really matters surely. I usually find that a could finger and tongue combo tips them over the edge anyway :rascal:
I absolutely :love: to give and I quite enjoy receiving as well :rascal:
I understand completely, I feel the same way. I'm not sure why but I feel giving oral to a woman is more intimate than it is to a man, maybe it's something to do with merely the physical internal/ external nature of it. I love giving and receiving but am sometimes shy about receiving.
H.x
Wow! This is one of those threads where you really need to know which member of the couple-nics is speaking, lol!
As a bloke I really like giving oral to ladies, and so long as they are happy I like to continue until they orgasm if it takes for ever.
As for oral on me, I'm rarely in the mood, but if I am then short and sweet, the quicker the better!
i love to give oral to a woman. i feel it is really intimate. feeling and hearing a woman whilst licking her in her most intimate parts is almost enough to make me climax, having oral sex perfomred on myself is not as exciting, i suppose it could be part of a control thing for myself
I much prefer to give to male or female :twisted: :twisted:
G xx
sounds the more it does for me. It takes me ages and ages to get there usually so I end up feeling a little embarrassed 
Although certain instruments have been known to hurry things along a little 
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