Well at the risk of having my head bit of again. It seems to me women who dont have a problem reaching orgasm dont have a problem talking about it and vise a versa.
I dont have a problem
Any man I am with makes sure I have a good time and I make sure he has a good time :P :twisted:
Dont go upsetting the woman on this site, you might need us one day for a shag and I think most will be saying no
surely were missing the point here, forget that bisto lives in the 1800s, You cant generalise a male/female orgasm. There are so many factors that contribute to having a full on gush/spurt to having a little judder/ was it or wasnt it orgasm. What does it matter if you masturbated before or after or ideed whilest doing it. I find that the mood, setting, the chase, the petting, what kind of a day its be all contribute to the ORGASM. I would bet that even bisto himself if he was to find a women, treats her like a lady, relaxes her cooks for her, bathes her, massage, the full works but the main thing takes his time and is relaxed with it all, might even be able to see a female orgasm in action.
I agree with Johnno1973
There are a lot of factors to take into account !!
Mind you I always find that giving a nice, slow, soothing, sensual massage helps to unwind both partners. Then the mood is set, totally relaxed and go where you want from there !! :rascal:
I amaze myself sometimes, i believe that you should treat people as you would like to be treated yourself, that goes for every aspect of life.
Thanx for the good advice johnno!
For risk of bringing the heavens down upon me again, you have a 1 min wank????????
Either I have missed the point completley or I am wrong.... but from my experience some women do find it very dfficult enjoy themselves to the point of orgasm. Doesn't mean the fella is a crap shag... and it's a simplistic explanation to say so.
I read bisto's initial comment as: Men wank and come regularly, it's seen as normal . Women have (in the past) been told wanking is wrong and may therefore not be as at ease with orgasms or sexual feelings as most men.
It's a minefield of an argument, and sexual hang ups are evident on both sides, but from the question... yeah... the woman who says she doesn't wank... in my opinion will be less sexually confident and this may lead on to other areas including , but not ALWAYS, the female orgasm...
Not ALL women, not ALL men. But this is generalizations. And women on this site are more liberated sexually so maybe it doesn't make as much sense. But I bet you all know amongst your vanilla mates women who wont admit to wanking... you try and find a man who would say the same in front of his mates... he'd be laughed at... and called liar.
Should I hide now?
ok heres the question, put your hand up if you have been told that you will go blind if you have a wank. This stems from the church and as such is a religous argument. I was told many years ago by a wise man, never argue about polotics, religion and i cant remeber the last one as i was pissed at the time. STOP NOW.
I think i need to go and time myself having a wank. There was always the big man sydrome of " i can do it for three days before i come" victorian days, when bisto was a kid. Now i find myself trying to pull myself off as quick as possible.
Thanx postie for answering my question you read it exactly the way i intended for people to read it and yes your right the women on here are more sexually liberated so dont have any problems talking about it.
Truth hurts does it bisto. You put the thread up, are you trying to dictate what people should reply. I think your the one who should shut up if you havent got anything constructive to say. You can always tell when a mans beat, he has to resort to name calling. Well if im a cock at least i can get my women to orgasm. Leave it, lets not fall out.
If a woman has difficulty in reaching orgasm, it can be because of a number of reasons, women are more susceptible to mood change whereas men get a hard on...end result is to orgasm! maybe wanking too much too early does spoil mens ability to respond to the womens needs. reaching orgasm becomes the goal and we learn to get there in our own time...quickly! However I dont think men should be readily blamed for non orgasm in women, as has been said on here ..'if I dont know what I want, how would you know?'....or words to that effect! If women cant communicate what is wrong and just as importantly what is right, then the situation will continue to frustrate.
Relaxasshun and communicashun...innit!
johnno we wont fallout if you stick to the subject talk about it the way i intented and stop slating me to score points with the ladys!
Now now boys, calm down. You're both entitled to opinions and they are both valid. Now play nicely or you'll get the thread locked.
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it's not the quantity Angel it's the quality! 
I don't have any complaints about the quality of sex I've been having recently (far from it!), with any of the men I've been sharing it with. Maybe I just think too much, and remembering what he/we did makes me so horny that I have to go and have a lie down and think of it again :twisted: :oops: :oops: Maybe I should just shut up lol :bolt: 
Oh and any masterbating I do infront of him anyway and viceversa. We love to watch each other and help each other out.
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