Other people's opinion of you?

31 Mar 2004

Well hello all its me again........... Just been thinking about what other people think of me from 1. my profile and 2. the chat room. A woman in the chat room had a look at my pic and felt I was Gay now that she knows me she is surprised that I don't want to meet her. rolleyes

Anyway my question is this has anyone else had a opinion made about them and was it wrong?. See ya you lovely people.............. :twisted:

31 Mar 2004

Hi Oneof...
I wouldn't worry too much about what others think of you, so long as you're being yourself. You certainly can't please all the people all of the time, and why would you want to anyway?
Personally I've had occasional obnoxious comments about me (only one via this site), and just plain argumentative ones (I'm a bloke in drag according to one!!) and no amount of persuading or arguing over this sort of medium will convince them they are wrong. Life's just too short to worry about it... trolls abound! lol

You seemed completely masculine at the last NW munch and it's entirely up to you whether you want to meet a lady or not - if they don't flat your boat then get the binoculars out and find one that will! :shock:
Take care,
Mandy

31 Mar 2004

Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn....

31 Mar 2004

Quote by JQL
Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn....

Just about sums it up for Terry-Jayne and me too wink

31 Mar 2004

Me Me Me,,,
He He

1 Apr 2004

I got dumped for being too nice by someone on here after seeing my pic.
However, since then, my wit, charm and personality have won her over lol

Well, I THINK it was that, anyway!!
Mal
:lol:

1 Apr 2004

I think I'd rather not know peoples opinions of me.I'm quite a fragile person

1 Apr 2004

:shock: How can you be dumped for being too nice? confused

Personally, I'm quite content for folks to think I'm gay. :twisted: The girls offer me their bodies and the guys try to 'sort me out'. Can't lose, can I? biggrin

Hxx

1 Apr 2004

Quote by Heather
Personally, I'm quite content for folks to think I'm gay. :twisted: The girls offer me their bodies and the guys try to 'sort me out'. Can't lose, can I?
Hxx

HeHe Heather - 'when I were a lad' it was seen as acceptable to 'pretend' to be gay to get the girls to try and 'turn you' :shock: I never tried it myself, but some of my mates did, with great success too!! wink

PS
We are now centurians :roll: :wink:

1 Apr 2004

I have come to the conclusion that I don't like everyone and there is nowt so sure as not everyone likes me. So c'est la vie!!
I am what I am
And what I am needs no excuses
I deal my own deck
Sometimes the ace
Sometimes the deuces
Its one life And there's no returning, no revising
One life and so its time to open up your closet..........
Thought for the day........A little tolerance of others goes a long way.
Love
Wilma
x x x x

1 Apr 2004

Quote by mal609
I got dumped for being too nice by someone on here after seeing my pic.
However, since then, my wit, charm and personality have won her over
Well, I THINK it was that, anyway!!
Mal
:lol:

You have wit, charm and personality? :shock:
LoL

1 Apr 2004

OI!
Thick skin also helps for the more cutting comments! smile

mal

1 Apr 2004

Quote by mal609
OI!
Thick skin also helps for the more cutting comments!
mal

LoL....I was only joking, couldn't resist teasing you!! kiss

1 Apr 2004

I am what I am.
If some one don't like me, I'm, not bothered really. I already have plenty of friends, a great many from this site.
kiss

for the ladies.
:cheers: Dudes.
Harry0
You know when your getting old, when you
attend more funerals than birthday parties.

1 Apr 2004

Can't say that I'm too fussed if some people don't like me.
Of course I dont know anyone that does not like me. Everybody thinks I am a great guy. Handsome, witty, charming and generous. And of course modest.
Sadly, I have lived as a hermit for the last twenty years and have not left my house in all that time
Paul

1 Apr 2004

I think you are luvly damned :kiss:

1 Apr 2004

I do admit to caring a great deal about how my friends see me! rolleyes

1 Apr 2004

Quote by mal609
I got dumped for being too nice by someone on here after seeing my pic.
However, since then, my wit, charm and personality have won her over
Well, I THINK it was that, anyway!!
Mal
:lol:

WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
... it was the size of you hands!
wink

1 Apr 2004

Quote by well_busty_babe
I got dumped for being too nice by someone on here after seeing my pic.
However, since then, my wit, charm and personality have won her over
Well, I THINK it was that, anyway!!
Mal
:lol:

WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
... it was the size of you hands!
wink

What, the size of my hands got me dumped, or won the fair maiden?
mal
:lol:

1 Apr 2004

Quote by mal609
I got dumped for being too nice by someone on here after seeing my pic.
However, since then, my wit, charm and personality have won her over
Well, I THINK it was that, anyway!!
Mal
:lol:

WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
... it was the size of you hands!
wink

What, the size of my hands got me dumped, or won the fair maiden?
mal
:lol:
now THAT would be telling toooo much!!!!!!!!!!!! :wink:
anyway.... no time to chat here... too many "nice" men to dump!

1 Apr 2004

Ohh Shelly baby thank you for the kind words there and to you too mandy thank you also. Well I have people who like me that makes me feel so happy lol

:lol: and to htose who dont like me well all the best .............

1 Apr 2004

OOTDF
One thing I would like to say is that your advert is polite and honest. That is surely a good reflection of you. Just be yourself! Those that choose not to like you are not worth the effort anyway!
Hugs, Mrs Peel

1 Apr 2004

Sounds like you needed a confidence boost because somebody has or hasn't said something that has touched a nerve.I know how you feel felt that way this week also but feel great a drink on me mate :cheers:
btw I've been told I'm gay loads of times I like to keep them guessing :confused2:

1 Apr 2004

Just as long as people have got to know me and not decided they don't like me before I've been given a fair chance, I really don't mind.
I know what I am and accept myself. I can only hope others do biggrin

Dawn :silly:

1 Apr 2004

Quote by Dawn_Mids
Just as long as people have got to know me and not decided they don't like me before I've been given a fair chance, I really don't mind.
I know what I am and accept myself. I can only hope others do
Dawn :silly:

My sentiments entirely.

1 Apr 2004

i heard your hands are smaller than mine Mal,and mine are small m8.

1 Apr 2004

Quote by the_tongue
i heard your hands are smaller than mine Mal,and mine are small m8.

Well by the looks of his pics his hands are the only thing about him that's small!! wink

1 Apr 2004

Quote by OneoftheDamned4ever
Ohh Shelly baby thank you for the kind words there and to you too mandy thank you also. Well I have people who like me that makes me feel so happy :lol: and to htose who dont like me well all the best .............

Dont think you look gay at all just good looking so does that signify gay? Peoples first impression of me is that I am scary because I come over very confident and in control but thats an impression thats taken years to perfect for protection. Can put men off but not alll men ...........

1 Apr 2004

Quote by corrie
Peoples first impression of me is that I am scary because I come over very confident and in control but thats an impression thats taken years to perfect for protection. Can put men off but not alll men ...........

You didn't put me off Corrie last time we met, I think your gorgeous. So there.
kiss

Harry0

1 Apr 2004

Quote by harry0

Thanks HarryO needed that tonight