Hi All,
Its my first topic on here so be kind ;-)
Probaly been said a million times but being relatively newly single and new on here, here goes my discussion piece.
It seems there is an ageism going on with dating sites and Adult clubs.
I am too old to speed date, too old for all default searches and now even too old to be deemed worthy of going to some Adult clubs on a Saturday!!!
Really...... Should I just pack up my genitals and go live like a spinster now lol
In reality I have no problem with my age and neither has any guy I have liaised with; all younger I may add due to personal preference.
Your thoughts on this would be fun :-D
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Over 35.......Offically old lol
Sex God
Well that's me officially screwed then! I'll be 30+10 in November (please don't do the sum) 
Seriously though, we've never had any problems getting meets and have been amongst the youngest at the clubs we have been to.
Age is but a number and a few extra lines on your face!
Welcome to the forum by the way .... enjoy!!
Seriously though, we've never had any problems getting meets and have been amongst the youngest at the clubs we have been to.
Age is but a number and a few extra lines on your face!
Welcome to the forum by the way .... enjoy!!
I get you both lol
It just surpries me that whoever sets up these parametres and rules is blindly ignorant to the fact that it really is nothing to do with the date on your passport, so why restrict people on it??
I guess its just frustrating, kinda feels like segregation is being cultivated within the general dating scene and such a shame for all.......
As I said I tend to date younger guys generally but this is because of common interests and where I socialise; I would never turn someone away purely for age.
I just found it odd to come across a two tierd society where there is some specific cut off point(35)at which you should pack up and go away quietly or play with 'fellow oldies' only. lol
Anyone remember the film 'Logans Run'?? :scared:
Oh and Tom Baker/Peter Davidson on the Dr Who :-D
It just surpries me that whoever sets up these parametres and rules is blindly ignorant to the fact that it really is nothing to do with the date on your passport, so why restrict people on it??
I guess its just frustrating, kinda feels like segregation is being cultivated within the general dating scene and such a shame for all.......
As I said I tend to date younger guys generally but this is because of common interests and where I socialise; I would never turn someone away purely for age.
I just found it odd to come across a two tierd society where there is some specific cut off point(35)at which you should pack up and go away quietly or play with 'fellow oldies' only. lol
Anyone remember the film 'Logans Run'?? :scared:
Oh and Tom Baker/Peter Davidson on the Dr Who :-D
Sex God
Well, given that I turned 35 last birthday, I can't say I've ever felt old on the swinging scene.
I kinda liked it when I turned about 32 and all of a sudden hot young men were interested in me as an 'older woman' :rascal: I must say, I've "appreciated"
there youthful vigour and enthusiasm lots since!
:welcome: to the forum.
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I kinda liked it when I turned about 32 and all of a sudden hot young men were interested in me as an 'older woman' :rascal: I must say, I've "appreciated"
there youthful vigour and enthusiasm lots since!:welcome: to the forum.
x
Sexpert
Age is only important if you are a bottle of wine
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Well, given that I turned 35 last birthday, I can't say I've ever felt old on the swinging scene.
I kinda liked it when I turned about 32 and all of a sudden hot young men were interested in me as an 'older woman' :rascal: I must say, I've "appreciated"
I'm turning 33 next birthday.. Hope some hot young women are interested in me then :lol2:
I need to trade Shi in for a younger model
God i feel 22!!
I'm turning 33 next birthday.. Hope some hot young women are interested in me then :lol2:
I need to trade Shi in for a younger model
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Well, given that I turned 35 last birthday, I can't say I've ever felt old on the swinging scene.
I kinda liked it when I turned about 32 and all of a sudden hot young men were interested in me as an 'older woman' :rascal: I must say, I've "appreciated"
I'm turning 33 next birthday.. Hope some hot young women are interested in me then :lol2:
I need to trade Shi in for a younger model
Sex God
35 years old huh? .... yeah that's gettin on a bit for a woman...no doubt about it ... still ya look not bad fer it, so don't worry, just age graciously.
Sex God
I'm 46 and I am certainly NOT to old - for anything!
There are some guys who are too young - but that's about filtering out those with less experience without having to actually give them a competence test.
There are some guys who are too young - but that's about filtering out those with less experience without having to actually give them a competence test.
Sex God
Thanks for that Foxy, I was beginning to think I was the only one over 40 on 'ere. Youth of today, don't know they're bleedin' born so they don't. 35? I'll give 'em 35 so I will! 
Now what you make about that weather wot we have been having of late, being surrounded by sky and what have you? Terrible innit Foxy? Plays havoc with yer knees don't you find?
/wanders off counting the days till he can apply for a bus pass
Now what you make about that weather wot we have been having of late, being surrounded by sky and what have you? Terrible innit Foxy? Plays havoc with yer knees don't you find?
/wanders off counting the days till he can apply for a bus pass
Lmao
I love the positivity we are all showing on this topic. :smile2:
I am very confident and positive whatever age I get to and just generally in life!
Hopefully this false barrier is taken away soon as its really proposterous with all the Milfing, Gilfing and all the large age gap relationships on the go nowadays.
We are not all in cardigans and headscarfs at 40 anymore; from the looks of some of you 'oldies' I think we actually make more effort to look banging hot the older we get :thrilled:
Anyway thanks for being kind and the warm welcome........... bring on the birthday cake candles; just make sure you have a fire extinguisher too!
I love the positivity we are all showing on this topic. :smile2:
I am very confident and positive whatever age I get to and just generally in life!
Hopefully this false barrier is taken away soon as its really proposterous with all the Milfing, Gilfing and all the large age gap relationships on the go nowadays.
We are not all in cardigans and headscarfs at 40 anymore; from the looks of some of you 'oldies' I think we actually make more effort to look banging hot the older we get :thrilled:
Anyway thanks for being kind and the warm welcome........... bring on the birthday cake candles; just make sure you have a fire extinguisher too!
Sex God
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Anyway thanks for being kind and the warm welcome........... bring on the birthday cake candles; just make sure you have a fire extinguisher too!
Don't worry too much there are some firemen wandering around in the chat rooms from Blue watch in South London, I am sure they would be happy to help you out!
Master of Sex
Hell perhaps I should hang up my swinging boots, get out the hot chocolate and just generally admit that life should consist of only meals for one and being kind to animals and small children. Surely not ............
Jeeeeeeez
wait till you're approaching 50 as rapidly as laff - not chilli cos I'm taking a year off for every year over 45
He's as grumpy as an old man, but as bouncy as a puppy, as set in his ways as a statue, and as gentle and loving as any man had ever been
(enough of the praise - he'll be getting a big head - and back to the topic)
Age has put some ppl off meeting us - we know cos they've said so - and some ppl even say as much in there profile, but all we say is that your loss is our gain. Just means there's even more of us to go around for those who aren't blinded by their age-ist attitudes.
wait till you're approaching 50 as rapidly as laff - not chilli cos I'm taking a year off for every year over 45
He's as grumpy as an old man, but as bouncy as a puppy, as set in his ways as a statue, and as gentle and loving as any man had ever been
(enough of the praise - he'll be getting a big head - and back to the topic)
Age has put some ppl off meeting us - we know cos they've said so - and some ppl even say as much in there profile, but all we say is that your loss is our gain. Just means there's even more of us to go around for those who aren't blinded by their age-ist attitudes.
Sex God
Now really..... once you get past 40 years of age you should just accept that you swinging career has petered out....sorry Peter.....and just relax into the online "wank over porn" group...cos you're not gonna get laid....mind you there are still chatroom options where you can pretend to be virile or sexy and deceive some young couple that you can actually deliver the goods....but hey...we all know that it's not gonna happen..so just retire gracefully....I mean who would want to shag someone over 40 years of age?
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Now really..... once you get past 40 years of age you should just accept that you swinging career has petered out....sorry Peter.....and just relax into the online "wank over porn" group...cos you're not gonna get laid....mind you there are still chatroom options where you can pretend to be virile or sexy and deceive some young couple that you can actually deliver the goods....but hey...we all know that it's not gonna happen..so just retire gracefully....I mean who would want to shag someone over 40 years of age?
Best to just retire and have a nice cup of tea
William Hartnell and Peter Cushing were my favorites btw
Warming the Bed
I think it depends on how you take it....
If I'm looking at a profile that interests me and then I come accross an "under 40s only" type restriction (and there are a fair few out there) I simply move on. If they are that set against it by putting it in writing then I would only be wasting my own time as well as theirs by continuing my interest. No problem there.
Where I would have a problem was if I'd got to know someone and was getting on well and then when it came to meeting up they backed out because of my age.
For the record I have guidelines on my profile, simply as an aid to those browsing. It's simply a statistical analysis of the most common age of people I meet - a 'ballpark' starting point if you want. I would (and have) met people outside of that range.
Don't take it personally.....just look at it as their loss.
If I'm looking at a profile that interests me and then I come accross an "under 40s only" type restriction (and there are a fair few out there) I simply move on. If they are that set against it by putting it in writing then I would only be wasting my own time as well as theirs by continuing my interest. No problem there.
Where I would have a problem was if I'd got to know someone and was getting on well and then when it came to meeting up they backed out because of my age.
For the record I have guidelines on my profile, simply as an aid to those browsing. It's simply a statistical analysis of the most common age of people I meet - a 'ballpark' starting point if you want. I would (and have) met people outside of that range.
Don't take it personally.....just look at it as their loss.
Orgasminator
34 year old.....
A toyboy to my more mature meets.....dirty old man in training for younger ladies looking to find an experienced partner in filth :rascal:
Simply Fraser to anyone inbetween.
The only change age has brought is I have stopped using the word girl and replaced it with the word lady; in both my adverts and conversations (still preceded by the words filthy or dirty in most cases).
A toyboy to my more mature meets.....dirty old man in training for younger ladies looking to find an experienced partner in filth :rascal:
Simply Fraser to anyone inbetween.
The only change age has brought is I have stopped using the word girl and replaced it with the word lady; in both my adverts and conversations (still preceded by the words filthy or dirty in most cases).
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The only change age has brought is I have stopped using the word girl and replaced it with the word lady; in both my adverts and conversations (still preceded by the words filthy or dirty in most cases).
After reading that I can just imagine you in this scene:
:giggle:
Orgasminator
Dammit cubes; another potential wingman I have to scratch off the list :lol2:
Now I'm just left with bioke - somehow I don't think that will work out either
Now I'm just left with bioke - somehow I don't think that will work out either
Sex God
Quote by Big_Fraser
Dammit cubes; another potential wingman I have to scratch off the list :lol2:
Now I'm just left with bioke - somehow I don't think that will work out either
Oh believe me, it would work!
