Right I am now upset I have just been told what some of the people I thought I could trust think of me. Dont worry I am not going to name and shame but the ladies that I used to chat too I wont be anymore. I may be not as educated or as good looking and I may seem a bit of a wimp but I am what I am. People can make a joke of me that is their choice but dont expect it not to get it back to me and for me then to continue talking to you again........... I am no longer looking for adult fun I will be going to the nw munch as I like to chat to the guys I know but as for anything else no thank you
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Sexlightened
Thats a shame mate,but I'm sure if you went to the mods they'd be able to sort something much everyone I've spoken to in this forum are really nice.I'll probably see you at the NW munch will be good to put some names to faces
OFTD
Whenever I've seen you in the chat room I always think what a nice guy you are. You are always polite and can have a laff with you. If someone is taking the P*** behind your back you should say who, so we can all steer clear of them mate.
Unfortunatley you get that in that environment, grown sensible adults become juvenile. I have had it myself(even though I'm very very very good looking- NOT)
Don't let a few idiots spoil it for you mate, be patient and don't let the b******s grind you down
Steve_cov_36924(in case anybody is remotely interested)
Whenever I've seen you in the chat room I always think what a nice guy you are. You are always polite and can have a laff with you. If someone is taking the P*** behind your back you should say who, so we can all steer clear of them mate.
Unfortunatley you get that in that environment, grown sensible adults become juvenile. I have had it myself(even though I'm very very very good looking- NOT)
Don't let a few idiots spoil it for you mate, be patient and don't let the b******s grind you down
Steve_cov_36924(in case anybody is remotely interested)
Gary I feel for you hun but I have never seen anyone pubically say anything about you in the chatroom and you will ALWAYS be welcome in there. Don't let anyone get to you, this site if for fun so ignore them and get on with it 
Please come in and say Hi.
See you at the munch if not before....... Dawn :silly:
Please come in and say Hi.
See you at the munch if not before....... Dawn :silly:
OneoftheDamned,
I have said this to you in private and now I'll say it publicly: you are a valued member of the chatroom and forum and would be missed if you left either.
As you know I've had an attack in the chatroom as well, but I refuse to let it stop me from enjoying the company of the many fine people in there.
Your friend
Sappho
I have said this to you in private and now I'll say it publicly: you are a valued member of the chatroom and forum and would be missed if you left either.
As you know I've had an attack in the chatroom as well, but I refuse to let it stop me from enjoying the company of the many fine people in there.
Your friend
Sappho
Oneofthedamned
Just read this thread and we are both mortified to hear this. Don't take it to heart you have many friends here and we have always enjoyed our chats with you.
We have suffered similar things in the past and we have always chosen to rise above it and not let the bastards have the satisfaction of knowing they have got to you.
Show them you don't give a Damn (pardon the pun).
Love
Wilma
x x x x
Just read this thread and we are both mortified to hear this. Don't take it to heart you have many friends here and we have always enjoyed our chats with you.
We have suffered similar things in the past and we have always chosen to rise above it and not let the bastards have the satisfaction of knowing they have got to you.
Show them you don't give a Damn (pardon the pun).
Love
Wilma
x x x x
OneoftheDamned,
May I echo the words so eloquently used above - I've always found you good to talk to in the forum and because some muppet thinks otherwise won't change my view !
Stick around and enjoy things with the rest of us - those making whatever comments were made really aren't worth wasting thinking time over.
OneoftheDamned ?
Nah, more like OneoftheGang !
Carpathian
May I echo the words so eloquently used above - I've always found you good to talk to in the forum and because some muppet thinks otherwise won't change my view !
Stick around and enjoy things with the rest of us - those making whatever comments were made really aren't worth wasting thinking time over.
OneoftheDamned ?
Nah, more like OneoftheGang !
Carpathian
Sex God
Hi Oneof....
We have not really chatted before as I am not a regular in the chatroom. However, various reports have reached my ears about you - all of which have been unfailingly positive, not to say glowing.
Several people whose opinion I respect and value have already posted their feelings above. Their recommendation is good enough for me.
Although the Forum can appear brutal at times the pace in the chatroom is very much quicker and very much harder to moderate (although the Sysops do a fantastic and unenviable job). I hope you don't leave us. This site would be the poorer if you did.
I will send any more 'personal' thoughts in a PM. Feel free to reply or not as you choose and if I can help in any way, please don't hesitate to ask.
All the best, my friend. For such, by definition, you are.
We have not really chatted before as I am not a regular in the chatroom. However, various reports have reached my ears about you - all of which have been unfailingly positive, not to say glowing.
Several people whose opinion I respect and value have already posted their feelings above. Their recommendation is good enough for me.
Although the Forum can appear brutal at times the pace in the chatroom is very much quicker and very much harder to moderate (although the Sysops do a fantastic and unenviable job). I hope you don't leave us. This site would be the poorer if you did.
I will send any more 'personal' thoughts in a PM. Feel free to reply or not as you choose and if I can help in any way, please don't hesitate to ask.
All the best, my friend. For such, by definition, you are.
Im really sorry to hear what you had to say OneOf. Although I've only just joined, I had been reading the posts etc. for a couple of months now and this is the first piece of unwarranted negativity I've come across againt an individual.
Although you have not mentioned names, hopefully the poeple who are involved have read this thread and realised all the upset they have caused!
All I can say is hang on in there mate and let the real people show thier true colour!
Enjoy
M x
Although you have not mentioned names, hopefully the poeple who are involved have read this thread and realised all the upset they have caused!
All I can say is hang on in there mate and let the real people show thier true colour!
Enjoy
M x
Orgasminator
Hi ootd,
He don't take the ramblings of some prat to heart. As a long time member of SH I admire your style although it differs a lot from mine. You are very welcome in the Forum, Chatroom or anywhere else on this site. If someone else can't take it, TOUGH.
As for me I'm old fashioned, Edwardian even, but everyone to his or her own. Variety is the spice of life. As far as I am concerned you are very welcome anywhere on this site.
Harry0
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Nil illigitimi carborundum.
(don't let the bastards grind you down)
He don't take the ramblings of some prat to heart. As a long time member of SH I admire your style although it differs a lot from mine. You are very welcome in the Forum, Chatroom or anywhere else on this site. If someone else can't take it, TOUGH.
As for me I'm old fashioned, Edwardian even, but everyone to his or her own. Variety is the spice of life. As far as I am concerned you are very welcome anywhere on this site.
Harry0
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Nil illigitimi carborundum.
(don't let the bastards grind you down)
Take the comments you have read on this page to heart, these are the majority. I only ever dip in and out of this site, but have been lucky enough to meet mark and helen. They are TOP people, and so are the other that I have had the pleasure of meeting and talking with.
Like all walks of life there are some prats, but you dont need to name and shame in public, a qieut word in a SysOps ear should sort any issues out.
Be true to yourself, and dont harm others. After that everyone else can go fuck themelves, or better still, each other as long as we are invited to watch/join in
Like all walks of life there are some prats, but you dont need to name and shame in public, a qieut word in a SysOps ear should sort any issues out.
Be true to yourself, and dont harm others. After that everyone else can go fuck themelves, or better still, each other as long as we are invited to watch/join in
Being new to this site, your comments shocked and saddened me. I have been pleasently surprised by the friendliness and good-natured banter I have encountered within this "virtual World".
If your mates in the real world let you down you would either sort it out with them or decide that they weren't worth it and carry on without them. You wouldn't opt to never have any mates again, and I think the same applies here.
It seems to me that if you left us, the only people that wouldn't care are those that you mention. The vast majority would.
I will be watching for you in the chatroom and look forward to us having a laugh.
If your mates in the real world let you down you would either sort it out with them or decide that they weren't worth it and carry on without them. You wouldn't opt to never have any mates again, and I think the same applies here.
It seems to me that if you left us, the only people that wouldn't care are those that you mention. The vast majority would.
I will be watching for you in the chatroom and look forward to us having a laugh.
Hello all I am so shocked that you feel that I play a part ( a good part ) in the chat room. I did not expect this response at all. I want to publicly say this, I have done things to myself in the past as I wasn't what I thought people wanted stupid and foolish it may be, but at the time it I did not think so. I am the way I am because of my past as we all are if we are honest our past shapes us it molds us into who we are. There was a philosopher called nietzsche who said "that which does not kill us makes us stronger" I believe that now, I know what it means. I did die but I came back I don't know why but I did. I cant do some forms of relationships as I am afraid to trust like that again but I can do friendship and will hold those people I class as friends to my breast and will be there should they need me. I hope this makes sense. But thank you for your kind comments I wont forget them.
