Quote by naughtynymphos1
as for awol's post, fabio has been told to use the search button and that the topics been done to death if you read
I read but the thread hasn't been locked ;) which was part of my point (if I did have a point)
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people who play without their partners knowledge
im the female in our couple and i honestly think that if you truely love someone u wud not want to do anything to hurt them and this wud also include cheating i think if you want to or have done u shud just say i dont want to be with you rarther than doing things behind there back people often dont see anything wrong with cheating until they have it done to them then they know how it feels and in most cases i think it stops them doing it again i know that if any man i dated cheated on me i wud out him through some unimaginable pain f lol
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Quote by Dino
The last thing this i wanted this to do was turn into a "lets all attack the cheats" thread (that was the "C"word i mean dawn!!!)
it was meant to be a geunine question and if it has been construed in any other way then i apologise for that....
If is going to turn in that direction then i'd rather have this locked, as it wasn't the intention....
sean xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
it hasnt turned into an "attack the cheats" thread, and it doesnt look like its heading that
way either Sean.
Who are we to judge what others do, who are we to condemn others for there actions?
We know little or nothing about other peoples lives, problems and reasons for doing what they do, so lets all be a little more accepting of others on here.
Hear hear!! One thing I've found recently is that there are a lot of genuinely nice people around these parts who are actually married and here without their partner's knowledge. The reason I mention them is that because of the countless posts condemning MWPKs - and we all know how vociferous a lot of people are on the subject! - those kind of posts mean that the MWPK keep quiet because they don't want the same treatment. Lets stop shouting at people for the way they choose to live their lives and just get on with our own eh? At least if people weren't villified for having the audacity to frequent a swingers site when they're married, they would be more inclined to be honest about it. Then the people who choose NOT to play with MWPKs could avoid them and we'd all be in full possession of the facts beforehand.
That all made sense in my head... not sure it's worked now that I've written it out
:dunno: Quote by peterboroughcouple
if you truely love someone u wud not want to do anything to hurt them ... u shud just say i dont want to be with you rarther than doing things behind there back
So it's better to end a possibly long, loving and successful (except for some aspects of sex) relationship ... wouldn't that hurt just a bit for your partner to say, "You're shite in bed, I'm off."
As swingers, shouldn't we be capable of realising that there is more to a relationship than sexual fidelity and be able to separate love and nsa sex. To be honest, I would be more upset to find that mrs northwest was meeting someone for clandestine lunches than shagging their brains out, but I certainly wouldn't expect her to leave over it.
Quote by northwest-cpl
if you truely love someone u wud not want to do anything to hurt them ... u shud just say i dont want to be with you rarther than doing things behind there back
So it's better to end a possibly long, loving and successful (except for some aspects of sex) relationship ... wouldn't that hurt just a bit for your partner to say, "You're shite in bed, I'm off."
As swingers, shouldn't we be capable of realising that there is more to a relationship than sexual fidelity and be able to separate love and nsa sex. To be honest, I would be more upset to find that mrs northwest was meeting someone for clandestine lunchesthan shagging their brains out, but I certainly wouldn't expect her to leave over it.
It would be far worse if she was paying the bill!
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Hear hear!! One thing I've found recently is that there are a lot of genuinely nice people around these parts who are actually married and here without their partner's knowledge. The reason I mention them is that because of the countless posts condemning MWPKs - and we all know how vociferous a lot of people are on the subject! - those kind of posts mean that the MWPK keep quiet because they don't want the same treatment. Lets stop shouting at people for the way they choose to live their lives and just get on with our own eh? At least if people weren't villified for having the audacity to frequent a swingers site when they're married, they would be more inclined to be honest about it. Then the people who choose NOT to play with MWPKs could avoid them and we'd all be in full possession of the facts beforehand.
That all made sense in my head... not sure it's worked now that I've written it out
Makes perfect sense to me :thumbup:
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Quote by northwest-cpl
I have deliberately not used the 'C' word in the thread
Was anyone else thinking Cunt or was it just me
I have to be honest and say YES !!! I thought it
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:Off to sit and blush in the corner :lol:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I was thinking it was Cant.
....or CRAP :lol:
