performance anxiety

3 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
It's the worst thing ever, isn't it

From the male point of veiw may be - but from my point of veiw it isn't always...
I get...
more foreplay
more toy play
more massaging
more hands-on attention
more teasing, touching....
and usually fucked silly the next time/later when the guy wants to prove what he can actually do. :twisted:
polo lady, please stop. i'm finding it troublesome to be in complete agreement with you twice in one week? :shock: :P
there's a lot to be said for soft swing. can be a lifesaver for the blokes, and gives you a chance to show just how inventive you can be in adverse circumstances! smile

the extra attention tends to be warmly received too! :)
neil x x x ;)

3 Apr 2006

I'd bet that there are many men out there who are very glad that Sexycouple started this thread - all thinking 'phew, it's not just me'.

4 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird
I'd bet that there are many men out there who are very glad that Sexycouple started this thread - all thinking 'phew, it's not just me'.

That is so true, but I do think people should stop thinking of it as a performance. This is putting more pressure on by thinking of it as a perforamnce, when it is just a bit of fun between like minded adults. smile

4 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird
I'd bet that there are many men out there who are very glad that Sexycouple started this thread - all thinking 'phew, it's not just me'.

Yep....... hands up here as its happened to many times to want to admit!! I just put it down to my natural shyness Its great when it all works mind....... :wink: :wink: