perverts - we're all dead normal really...

4 Jan 2005

Quote by hans dip
the ratio of troll posts to decent posts seems significantly down on other (non-sex) forums i read... no flaming, everyone seems to behave with respect for everyone else. which is nice.

Lack of sexual frustration helps wink

And :welcome: to the Cafe. wave

You have no idea what you've let yourself in for.... and there's no way out lol

4 Jan 2005

Quote by Debbiewebs
The curiosity came relatively late with me but I managed to satisfy this curiosity in my mid to late teens and I have been trying to satisfy it ever since. My fist reactions to this was I mistakenly thought I may have been gay, I quickly realised I was 50-50 bisexual. Have I been bi all my life? ...not yet, getting there tho :P .
Judy

I have to admit to you!.......that i have Known from the age of 10 that i was kinky purvey! lol

my first fantasied was of being in a big ware house full of women naked bending over and men walking around taking us from behind!....boy i got off loads of times with that thought.......still working on it to become real :twisted: :twisted:
As for bi ...................i was infatuated by me mates the age of 13............ and we hugged a lot !...boy wish it was more :twisted:
It went on to wanting me mates to join in with me and me boyfriends and seeing them shag etc with theres. :twisted: ............will not go on as its endless!.....but funny enough me Dad told me i was kinky at a very young age!.......dident no what he meant at the time .......but i do now :twisted: :twisted:
Umm... now then... Umm... excuse me I have to go and masturbate again................

4 Jan 2005

Ughhh!!!! whew.
That's better, now where was I... Oh yes, I'm not a pervert, just slightly disfuctional at times :twisted:

4 Jan 2005

Quote by arkan
The curiosity came relatively late with me but I managed to satisfy this curiosity in my mid to late teens and I have been trying to satisfy it ever since. My fist reactions to this was I mistakenly thought I may have been gay, I quickly realised I was 50-50 bisexual. Have I been bi all my life? ...not yet, getting there tho :P .
Judy

I have to admit to you!.......that i have Known from the age of 10 that i was kinky purvey! lol

my first fantasied was of being in a big ware house full of women naked bending over and men walking around taking us from behind!....boy i got off loads of times with that thought.......still working on it to become real :twisted: :twisted:
As for bi ...................i was infatuated by me mates the age of 13............ and we hugged a lot !...boy wish it was more :twisted:
It went on to wanting me mates to join in with me and me boyfriends and seeing them shag etc with theres. :twisted: ............will not go on as its endless!.....but funny enough me Dad told me i was kinky at a very young age!.......dident no what he meant at the time .......but i do now :twisted: :twisted:
Umm... now then... Umm... excuse me I have to go and masturbate again................
good the thought turns me on :twisted: :twisted:

5 Jan 2005

Quote by Debbiewebs
The curiosity came relatively late with me but I managed to satisfy this curiosity in my mid to late teens and I have been trying to satisfy it ever since. My fist reactions to this was I mistakenly thought I may have been gay, I quickly realised I was 50-50 bisexual. Have I been bi all my life? ...not yet, getting there tho :P .
Judy

I have to admit to you!.......that i have Known from the age of 10 that i was kinky purvey! lol

my first fantasied was of being in a big ware house full of women naked bending over and men walking around taking us from behind!....boy i got off loads of times with that thought.......still working on it to become real :twisted: :twisted:
As for bi ...................i was infatuated by me mates the age of 13............ and we hugged a lot !...boy wish it was more :twisted:
It went on to wanting me mates to join in with me and me boyfriends and seeing them shag etc with theres. :twisted: ............will not go on as its endless!.....but funny enough me Dad told me i was kinky at a very young age!.......dident no what he meant at the time .......but i do now :twisted: :twisted:
Umm... now then... Umm... excuse me I have to go and masturbate again................
good the thought turns me on :twisted: :twisted:
Damn you woman... I'm going to be very sore later at this rate... Umm.... back in a minute.

5 Jan 2005

Quote by JudyTV

Now please put me right on this one!............... but when working for the NHS.i was told by a shrink that we are all bi!

Apparently this bi side lays dormant with some of us but is active in others. It can lay dormant for years but in some males it stirs a curiosity in middle age and even later in some males. It is not uncommon for men to explore their bisexual side after the breakdown of a long and intense relationship.
Judy
Hmmm lets see now.... In my 40's, was married for 15 years. Since being seperated have had a few bi experiences.
I'm glad that side of me has woken up. It means I get to have more fun.

5 Jan 2005

Oh yea Bass Bi's certainly get a wider variety and a lot more fun than so called straight's, we got a lot more to choose from :twisted:

5 Jan 2005

Ah then Dabbiewebs, you'll appreciate that one of Alicia's e-names is "shagfrombehind" smile

And yes, I've enjoyed that male fantasy of having one woman riding my dick, another woman sitting in my face while they kiss and caress each other. EFFIN WONDERFUL! and nothing al all pervy about it, I can assure you biggrin

I don't think that anything that consenting adults do - in private - is perverted. Doing it in public, therefore "inflicting" it upon the unsuspecting and non-consenting isn't really on.
I perceive a difference between perverted and kinky, but I'm not sure if I can define it. PErverted seems somehow to be more clinical, more of a legal term whereas kinky sounds like fun!
K

5 Jan 2005

i'm glad the semi-serious nature of the thread has been noticed - my take on it is that people who are liberated sexually are more likely to be easy-going and relaxed in other ways simply through the processes the person has to go through to achieve liberation...
someone who is trusting enough to share themselves and their partner with other people must by their very nature be the same elsewhere - we all know how so many non-sexual hang ups and neuroses can spring from a sexual base, and how integral our sexuality is to our very personalities. It makes sense to me that the opposite is true, that those who are comfortable sexually are comfortable in the rest of their lives.
as for the word 'pervert', why can't it be claimed as ours anyway? if homosexuals can reclaim 'queer', and african-americans can reclaim ' ', then 'pervert' strikes me as ripe for the picking...
hans x

5 Jan 2005

as an afterthought, words mean different things depending depending on the people and communities using them - being a straight(ish) white boy, it would not be acceptable to use words like & queer - the same should also apply to pervert?

5 Jan 2005

Quote by hans dip
someone who is trusting enough to share themselves and their partner with other people must by their very nature be the same elsewhere - we all know how so many non-sexual hang ups and neuroses can spring from a sexual base, and how integral our sexuality is to our very personalities. It makes sense to me that the opposite is true, that those who are comfortable sexually are comfortable in the rest of their lives.
hans x

I think you've got a good point there. Even though I'm a grown-up experienced businessman, I am very, very open and trusting in both business and personal matters - what you see is what you get. Happily that trust has very seldom been abused.
An awful lot of damage is done by jealousy, itself borne out of insecurity. Perhaps we might then say that people who are secure enough in themselves, and who trust their partners are able to be open, to share and to swing. Insecure people who are ashamed of themselves are more likely to be driven by unfilled lusts and frustrated desires into inflicting themselves inappropriately upon others.
K

5 Jan 2005

Quote by hans dip
here sir

nonesense. i bet you're dead nice really...
where are the twirling moustaced, pointy bearded cackling villains? i reckon they only really exist in roleplay...
EDIT: MQ is flippin' gorgeous, a really nice person. Sorry to disagree with you MQ. redface

(This post made sense when I wrote it.... sort of! Meant as a compliment to MQ :doh: biggrin

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5 Jan 2005

Quote by HungryP
here sir

nonesense. i bet you're dead nice really...
where are the twirling moustaced, pointy bearded cackling villains? i reckon they only really exist in roleplay...
She is flippin' gorgeous, a really nice person. Sorry to disagree with you MQ. redface

You've lost me, disagree with what?