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Pics before meeting??
Quote by 34fun
pics are not a neccesaty for me, but it does tend to put both parties at ease.
although i do like some sort of telephone contact, it just seems to weed out the time wasters.
Right thats it :taz:
I cant take it anymore 34fun
:banghead: I've beeen resisting the urge to ask ever since you put it up but I just have to know ,
WTF is that thing in your avatar
: , why is it's dick so disproportionaly huge :?: and I thought cock shots where not allowed 
seriously though.......
it is my pet samson - dont people say pets resemble their owners....
well he has a big d*ck - and i'm small and wrinkly !! lol
It's alive! :shock: :shock:
(only joking mate).As people have said above, pics are a necessity if you're meeting in a crowded or public place, otherwise you could stand within a few feet of each other and not even know. If you're meeting in someone's house or somewhere similar, then it's not really a necessity. Some form of contact is good beforehand, although being a bloke it's not so much for personal security as it is to root out timewasters.
I find pics are also useful as 9 times out of 10, the mental image you have of that person is completely different to what they look like, and the last thing you want on a first meet is for your first impression to be one of looking like you've been roughly violated with a red hot poker :lol:
Quote by PoloLady
Pics before a meet - YES - always.
And even then some dickheads send a photo of their mate - thinking their mate is better looking and then explain it with (oh I love this line) " I thought you would like me once you got to know me". Yeah I know all I need to know now matey - you are a lying tosser!
:laughabove:
very true
I have never had someone send out someone elses pic (that i have met) but i have had people send very old pics that look nothing like them anymore.
And your right if they have to lie to get you to meet them why the hell would we want to get to know them?
Sex God
never mind the old pics, what about the women who decorate the outside of the pics with flowers etc, and "hust so happen" to make a 48 inch waist appear to be a 28 inch waist etc.
like you are not going to notice that when u meet them!
its obvious you are going to realise they are big when u meet them (and i wouldnt care anyway... i like big women) and its so insulting to your intelligence!
like you are not going to notice that when u meet them!
its obvious you are going to realise they are big when u meet them (and i wouldnt care anyway... i like big women) and its so insulting to your intelligence!
Quote by PoloLady
Pics before a meet - YES - always.
And even then some dickheads send a photo of their mate - thinking their mate is better looking and then explain it with (oh I love this line) " I thought you would like me once you got to know me". Yeah I know all I need to know now matey - you are a lying tosser!
I would always want a pic before i meet someone.
In fact i usually like a pic before then so see who im chating to see that they area real person and not just words on a screen. I thinks it makes it more imtamate and personal and helps you ge the feel of them.
Carol
Quote by PoloLady
Pics before a meet - YES - always.
And even then some dickheads send a photo of their mate - thinking their mate is better looking and then explain it with (oh I love this line) " I thought you would like me once you got to know me". Yeah I know all I need to know now matey - you are a lying tosser!
You should ask to meet said mate instead :twisted:
Sex God
Being the exceedingly shallow people that we are, Vix & I always require photos before a meet. :P Besides, prospective partners can see us first anyway courtesy of the photo ads, so it seems only fair.
One thing that perturbs us, however, is the majority of couples ads that only feature a photo of one-half of the couple (most often the female). What's up with that? Aren't we going to be meeting up with both of you?!
~Reese!
One thing that perturbs us, however, is the majority of couples ads that only feature a photo of one-half of the couple (most often the female). What's up with that? Aren't we going to be meeting up with both of you?!
~Reese!
Sex God
Quote by Reese
Being the exceedingly shallow people that we are, Vix & I always require photos before a meet. :P Besides, prospective partners can see us first anyway courtesy of the photo ads, so it seems only fair.
One thing that perturbs us, however, is the majority of couples ads that only feature a photo of one-half of the couple (most often the female). What's up with that? Aren't we going to be meeting up with both of you?!
~Reese!
oooh i KNEW there was something else i wanted to moan about... thanks for reminding me reese!
its like the adverts are saying "here is what the guys gets.... you women can have whatever u are given"
sniff
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
pics are not a neccesaty for me, but it does tend to put both parties at ease.
although i do like some sort of telephone contact, it just seems to weed out the time wasters.
Right thats it :taz:
I cant take it anymore 34fun
:banghead: I've beeen resisting the urge to ask ever since you put it up but I just have to know ,
WTF is that thing in your avatar
: , why is it's dick so disproportionaly huge :?: and I thought cock shots where not allowed seriously though.......
it is my pet samson - dont people say pets resemble their owners....
well he has a big d*ck - and i'm small and wrinkly !! lol
Yours isn't small and wrinkly :shock:
ssshhhhhhhhhhh dont tell everyone - they all want a piece of me..
how are you shaz - exhausted no doubt :roll:
Sex God
Quote by Shireen_Mids
us women demand to see pics of your fella's too
Steve doesn't want his pic on our ad.... Obviously we have a pic of us together so that people can see what he looks like, but it's just that he thinks people will be more interested in me
Shireen
xxx
thats diff hun, steve is still visable on there.
some people put 3 pics just of the woman and expect that to be enough to make u want to meet them both!
This has happened more than once:
Get a reply to our ad with no pic. We ask for facial pics, so usually we don't respond to these. We say "no pic, no reply"
But occasionally, we like what they have written so respond, asking again for a pic.
The usual "I have no digi-cam/only on-line at w*rk"/bullshit excuses finally overcome and the remaining peeps eventually send us a pic.
The horror, the horror! This dude looks like an RTA in action! We have been emailing and all seemed well. Now we have to say "sorry, but it's a 'no' this time".
Not really nice to be telling them all was fine, but now we've seen your face - no chance mate, go get Ordained - only God could love that!
Get a reply to our ad with no pic. We ask for facial pics, so usually we don't respond to these. We say "no pic, no reply"
But occasionally, we like what they have written so respond, asking again for a pic.
The usual "I have no digi-cam/only on-line at w*rk"/bullshit excuses finally overcome and the remaining peeps eventually send us a pic.
The horror, the horror! This dude looks like an RTA in action! We have been emailing and all seemed well. Now we have to say "sorry, but it's a 'no' this time".
Not really nice to be telling them all was fine, but now we've seen your face - no chance mate, go get Ordained - only God could love that!
Sex God
yeah but what about when u get a face pic and it looks mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmyuuuuumyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and so you tell then. i am having you for sure! lol
but then u meet the person and they are a hobbit with a stunning face or something?
thats quite tricky to get out of.
WBB (looking quite shallow at the moment i admit!)
but then u meet the person and they are a hobbit with a stunning face or something?
thats quite tricky to get out of.
WBB (looking quite shallow at the moment i admit!)
Sex God
Quote by gruntypig
well_busty_babe - I'm new to the scene - are there many hobbits out there - should they perhaps have their own chatroom -
they already do!!!!!!!!!!
Quote by well_busty_babe
yeah but what about when u get a face pic and it looks mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmyuuuuumyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and so you tell then. i am having you for sure! lol
but then u meet the person and they are a hobbit with a stunning face or something?
thats quite tricky to get out of.
WBB (looking quite shallow at the moment i admit!)
Well I would certainly meet WBB without seeing a pic
Such a sexy lady
NC
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