Easy or playing hard to get?
I thought about this one for a few seconds and decided when it comes to swinging...
neither.
'Playing hard to get'.... I don't play games with people (aside from sex games obviously), so i don't expect them to play games with me - I expect them to be themselves. I may filter people - but it is not playing hard to get - it is filtering, simple as. Some people get more filtering than others.
Then I had a think about what is 'easy' - and I decided 'easy' was all relative anyway. To some the simple fact you are a 'swinger' and open to sex with more than one person makes you 'easy'.
Would I drop my pants for anyone who asked? No!
Am I open to being impulsive with the right person/people? Hell yes!
So, my answer is neither.
But I am interested in what swingers perceive as being 'easy'?
Is being impulsive the same as being ‘easy’?
Is ‘easy’ the same as being decisive, direct or knowing what you want?
Is ‘easy’ the same as desperate?
Does the term ‘easy’ have a place in the swinging world as a description of a swinger’s behaviour or is it just a vanilla term, like ‘loose’.
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playing hard or easy to get
Quote by PoloLady
Easy or playing hard to get?
I thought about this one for a few seconds and decided when it comes to swinging...
neither.
'Playing hard to get'.... I don't play games with people (aside from sex games obviously), so i don't expect them to play games with me - I expect them to be themselves. I may filter people - but it is not playing hard to get - it is filtering, simple as. Some people get more filtering than others.
Then I had a think about what is 'easy' - and I decided 'easy' was all relative anyway. To some the simple fact you are a 'swinger' and open to sex with more than one person makes you 'easy'.
Would I drop my pants for anyone who asked? No!
Am I open to being impulsive with the right person/people? Hell yes!
So, my answer is neither.
But I am interested in what swingers perceive as being 'easy'?
Is being impulsive the same as being ‘easy’?
Is ‘easy’ the same as being decisive, direct or knowing what you want?
Is ‘easy’ the same as desperate?
Does the term ‘easy’ have a place in the swinging world as a description of a swinger’s behaviour or is it just a vanilla term, like ‘loose’.
Is easy 'Like her'? Is hard 'I do not like her'? For me the answer is a yes, that's me. I do not try hard to get if I like someone. I do not expect them to. That does not mean that I think easy is quick. Well not in a public place.
I'm in the same mind as PL here. I've had to wade through about 200 pms since my ad went up last weekend and if I met them all, I'd be there til Doomsday ! :shock:
I DON'T shag anything with a pulse but that's not playing hard to get.
Being a single fem, I can pick and choose ( sounds selfish but hey, sack me for it !
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I DON'T shag anything with a pulse but that's not playing hard to get.
Being a single fem, I can pick and choose ( sounds selfish but hey, sack me for it !
) Quote by Sassy-Seren
I'm in the same mind as PL here. I've had to wade through about 200 pms since my ad went up last weekend and if I met them all, I'd be there til Doomsday ! :shock:
I DON'T shag anything with a pulse but that's not playing hard to get.
Being a single fem, I can pick and choose ( sounds selfish but hey, sack me for it !
Have looked at you, only to willing to 'sack'
you, when, where? ....but I could be a time waster. 