You had actually proceeded quite well without any offensive remarks.
However the classic 'I'm not racist but'.............................
You are correct, you didn't use the word but.
However the line 'Im not racist', has an unfortunate stigma attached to it.
Another of these Politically Correct nonsenses occurred the other week when I asked for a Black Coffee and was told that was an inappropriate and possibly racist term and that I should ask for either coffee with milk or coffee without,
WTF is that all about?
Many words begin their obsessive and unfortunate translation through the press. Currently we have chavs and asbos. All treated with derision, contempt and abusive humour. In a few years they will be considered offensive and people will be running to their lawyers and looking for compensation.
So we now have a huge vocabulary of word which we cannot use. Which we replace with slang which has not yet been qualified to be either acceptable or affensive.
You need to look at the Oxford dictionary of Slang to see how many words and expressions have been lost.
Its a blast.
I think the idea of free speech in the UK is rather illusory, there is in fact no such thing. Everyone is free to say whatever they like except for that which runs contrary to generally received wisdom. The idea that people are able to freely argue ideas which the majority would find repellant seems long dead in a society so well "defended" by The Sun and Daily Mail. In a way today's society is not that different from that in the time of Copernicius who was ostracised for daring to argue that the earth orbited the sun rather than vice versa (the generally received wisdom of the day). I don't think this is an entirely positive development.
To be honest, I haven't had to modify my language at all in the classroom, because I've only been teaching for a few years and the culture at university was as you describe Steanrachy. At the time it seemed a bit odd, but it's just a different word for some things. Language changes over time anyway; there are archaic words which at one time would have seemed 'everyday' and which have changed over time. To the people for whom they were 'everyday', the 'modern' words which replaced them, must have been viewed in much the same way as you view 'thought showers', 'chalkboards' and such.
Don't know is it offensive?
Yeah, it's a bit of a tricky one this....
From a kind of "outside looking in" I think there are a few things that have bearing on the whole issue - social/class/surroundings/beliefs.
One thing I really noticed is that when I lived in Basingstoke, the non PC jokes were accepted as the norm - it was considered "OK" to be sexist/racist/ageist/any other ist that you can apply.
Wolverhampton is a very very multicultural city - there are people from just about every walk of life there, and I started to find the really "ist" jokes pretty offensive.
I'm actually very proud to have a huge group of friends from many of the different communities - I have a friend that's a devoted Christian, one that's gay, one's a Sikh (and I've heard some of the comments he gets on the street - it's just plain not nice)....I guess what I'm driving at is you do have to accept that the population is now made up of many different groups and beliefs, and that is a change from 30, 40, 50 years ago - but it isn't going to change back. If the demographic sands are constantly shifting, I guess we've got to be prepared to retune our own thoughts too.....kind of either go with the tide, or get swept along in it anyways.
However! The flip side to my coin is this - I don't believe we should change everything on a whim! A blackboard is exactly that. A black sheep "does exactly what it says on the tin".
The irony of it is, by changing all these thing, I reckon we stand to offend more of the people we were trying to appease to begin with!
So, I guess that's a pretty long winded way of saying that I kind of sit on the fence a bit - I think the message for me is really just to be aware of whats happening around you, accept it and adapt to it.
Hope I haven't offended anyone!!
i understand where your coming from,
however the boring bit is comming now,
brainstorming is actually a medical term used for a condition within the brain, aparently it is a distressing thing to happen. i was informed of this while at uni 2 years ago , we had to refer to it as mind mapping when we were pulling ideas together.
handicap was changed due to the connetations of the original term cap in hand, disabled people, were consider as begging so the label was changed.
i think ricky jervas, with his stand up called politics summs it up so well.
recently i had to call the RNIB to ask them about a support group for a tenant i was visiting,
me: hi i wonder if you can help me? i'm supporting a tenant who is blind and would like to attend the day group held in his village
RNIB LADY : i think you find my dear its offensive to refer to him as blind
me: but he is blind
RNIB LADY: the term your looking for is visually impaired, its wrong to use the label blind
me: oh well you best change your bloody agency name then cuse if im not mistaken its the ROYAL NATIONAL INSTUTUTE FOR THE BLIND.
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Use of such phrases results in their explanation.
However the explanation is illustrated with a scenario of various stories about abuse, deprevation and a raft of 'things that happened to other people a long time ago'. Oddly and conveniently brought back into the 'imagination ' for the purpose of education.
Maybe. Or is it just a set of values and beliefs which still persist. Although they do not appear to be practised, their character is kept alive by education.
Well if you want Freedom of Speech, take a listen to Kevin "Bloody" Wilson, an ozzie singing comedian who is far from PC.
I have been to one of his shows, when he was over year a couple of years ago on tour and the one thing I can without any hesitation is that as soon as you walk through the door you can feel the Political Correctness stopping at the door and going no further.
The fact that Kevin Wilson, Bernard Manning etc can derive a living from basic abuse, shows how it has become a commodity.