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premature ejackulation
Sex God
Quote by freimation
is there a cure is it all in the mind do pills and potions work genuine anwsers please
You're the doctor - you should know!
Have you tried Google?
Gonna be honest as it's a fair question and the answer is not as I know of, I've rarely suffered myself the only times I have beleave it or not have been when I really can't be arsed with it 
Think the usual advice is masterbate some time before if you know your gonna get lucky for want of a better phrase or spend more on giving foreplay. But as for the subject I beleave practice makes perfect
Think the usual advice is masterbate some time before if you know your gonna get lucky for want of a better phrase or spend more on giving foreplay. But as for the subject I beleave practice makes perfect
I would say the first thing is to stop worrying about it as that will make it worse. Have you tried delaying techniques - starting and then stopping? Ideally through masturbation first and then if you are able to manage delaying, then try the same when having sex.
My fiancee taught me hot to delay when she :wanker: me and I have such great orgasms :sticky:
My fiancee taught me hot to delay when she :wanker: me and I have such great orgasms :sticky:
Go on I'm in a helpfull mood If you can't hold back mentaly so to speak you can physically delay and lengthen your orgasm by thus............
Feel just below your balls there is like a raised veiny bit apply preasure there with your fingers or even your partners (make it part of your play) trust me it works
If you can't hold back mentaly so to speak you can physically delay and lengthen your orgasm by thus............Feel just below your balls there is like a raised veiny bit apply preasure there with your fingers or even your partners (make it part of your play) trust me it works
Quote by AndyNudeUKI find that area stimulates me not holds me back
Feel just below your balls there is like a raised veiny bit apply preasure there with your fingers or even your partners (make it part of your play) trust me it works
Trust me it stimultes me if played with in a certain way but applying pressure there really does delay........go on try it out I'll expect a report in 60 seconds
Quote by sheddyI find that area stimulates me not holds me back
Feel just below your balls there is like a raised veiny bit apply preasure there with your fingers or even your partners (make it part of your play) trust me it works
Trust me it stimultes me if played with in a certain way but applying pressure there really does delay........go on try it out I'll expect a report in 60 seconds
I thought that was suppose to be 60 minutes if I am to delay? Otherwise I am happy to oblige :rascal: Quote by sheddyI find that area stimulates me not holds me back
Feel just below your balls there is like a raised veiny bit apply preasure there with your fingers or even your partners (make it part of your play) trust me it works
Trust me it stimultes me if played with in a certain way but applying pressure there really does delay........go on try it out I'll expect a report in 60 seconds
:notes:
Quote by sheddy
I thought that was suppose to be 60 minutes if I am to delay? Otherwise I am happy to oblige :rascal:
Quote by @8:35 Sheddy
I guess it works then
:giggle:
I admit I did try it but it didn't seem to work, not that I erm, anyway just that I still felt like I could off, erm, you know
Sex God
well that gambit was as smooth as a warthogs ballbag !
When i'm on top and I can start to see that distracting look of struggle in his eyes...I tell him..
..soggy cabagges....
..Margaret Thatcher eating soggy cabbages...
...Margaret Thatcher with a very runny nose eating soggy cabbages ....
It usually kills the moment but does wonders for premature ejaculation issues.
And we get to start all over again :P
..soggy cabagges....
..Margaret Thatcher eating soggy cabbages...
...Margaret Thatcher with a very runny nose eating soggy cabbages ....
It usually kills the moment but does wonders for premature ejaculation issues.
And we get to start all over again :P
Sex God
Think about Grand Prix racing cars. Doesn't make for very interesting sex mind you.
And next time you get into a Formula One car make sure you put yer goggles on first!
And next time you get into a Formula One car make sure you put yer goggles on first!
Quote by keeno
At one time I tried thinking about the least sexy thing possible. I settled on Ann Widdecombe (aarrgh!!!). It did work but I had to stop when I started finding the monster woman strangely erotic.
Anti-depressatants are good, except they can stop the intial erection.
Many forms of medication can affect the libido and the ability to become aroused, for both men and women.
Whether it's premature ejaculation or an inability to 'get going' the worst thing you can do is put pressure on yourself, although I appreciate that it's sometimes difficult to be rlaxed about these issues.
I would even suggest going to your GP if you feel able, you can only get help/support if you seek it out. I'm sure everyone experiences something like this at least once in their lifetime.
Quote by girlonamission
When i'm on top and I can start to see that distracting look of struggle in his eyes...I tell him..
..soggy cabagges....
..Margaret Thatcher eating soggy cabbages...
...Margaret Thatcher with a very runny nose eating soggy cabbages ....
It usually kills the moment but does wonders for premature ejaculation issues.
And we get to start all over again :P
I'd much rather try girlonamission's technique :rascal:
She can get on top & talk about Maggie & soggy cabbages anytime :twisted:
Master of Sex
I have the opposite problem but I'm surprised no one has mentioned the squeeze technique. As you feel the sensation of coming start squeeze firmly just below the glans until the sesation fades. You or your partner can do it. Then carry on as before.
Some advice.
I use to be like that. But if i know im on an night out or meeting up i make sure i dont go out with a fully loaded gun. I make sure i shoot at least 3 shoots out befor i go ;)
And trust me it works.
Also as its been said is stopping and starting. And rather than you thinking " yes this is brilliant I love this "
Try to get in the fram of mind " I hope she/he likes this "
What im saying there is instead of thinking how well your enjoying it, try to do everything you can to make him/her feel good and think yeh there enjoying that.
If that makes sence??? Hard to explain!
I use to be like that. But if i know im on an night out or meeting up i make sure i dont go out with a fully loaded gun. I make sure i shoot at least 3 shoots out befor i go ;)
And trust me it works.
Also as its been said is stopping and starting. And rather than you thinking " yes this is brilliant I love this "
Try to get in the fram of mind " I hope she/he likes this "
What im saying there is instead of thinking how well your enjoying it, try to do everything you can to make him/her feel good and think yeh there enjoying that.
If that makes sence??? Hard to explain!
Quote by redpantherman
When i'm on top and I can start to see that distracting look of struggle in his eyes...I tell him..
..soggy cabagges....
..Margaret Thatcher eating soggy cabbages...
...Margaret Thatcher with a very runny nose eating soggy cabbages ....
It usually kills the moment but does wonders for premature ejaculation issues.
And we get to start all over again :P
I'd much rather try girlonamission's technique :rascal:
She can get on top & talk about Maggie & soggy cabbages anytime :twisted:
:thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by adamreidless
Don't have first hand experience but I was speaking to a guy in the Townhouse a couple of weeks ago who reckoned anti-depressants did the job. So, get depressed, then get the tablets and give it a go!
Adam
indeed they do. in fact some work so well, they can delay your orgasm by up to 24 hours, by which time the moments kinda gone.
jacking off to achieve the orgasm you actually would have preferred to experience the night before, when your partner was actually physically present, is kinda shit! :lol: :lol: :Pon the plus side, it can do wonders for your stamina! :P
neil x x x ;)
