prostitution

8 Oct 2009

Quote by easy
Splendid_ I'm not sure how you come into contact with 'street' girls, but I have known one or two in a professional (mine, not theirs :lol2: ) capacity, so I can understand the slightly skewed view of prostitutes you seem to be presenting, as I had the same view.
I can guarantee you that there are people working, that carry out the work in exactly the same way as a lot of people carry out their work. Some days they look forward to working and others they really can't be arsed and feel like doing nothing. No individual forces them to work. There may be socio-economical factors, but we're all slaves to those in a consumer society. They know in advance how much the agency that they work through is going to take from their payment (if they work through an agency). They don't obviously have some of the problem that plagues street girls and live a socially-accepted 'normal' life, completely unremarkable apart from the acceptability of their chosen profession.
It does sound like you're tarring all prostitutes with the same brush and this isn't fair (never thought I'd say that Splendid was being unfair :shock: ).
If I have got the wrong end of the stick then I appologise, but that's the message I'm getting from what you've written.

No, you weren't mistaking anything I have written. I am aware of the type of ladies of which you speak. I would still argue that those ladies don't see it as a career option or would admire their daughters for doing it. They are pushed by circumstance.
cool

8 Oct 2009

Quote by splendid_
No, you weren't mistaking anything I have written. I am aware of the type of ladies of which you speak. I would still argue that those ladies don't see it as a career option or would admire their daughters for doing it. They are pushed by circumstance.

Isn't it natural for most parents to want something 'better' for their child (ie not the work they themselves do) and aren't we all pushed by circumstance? On any given day I can think of at least 20 things I'd rather be pursuing than being at work. My circumstances are that I like the money it takes to follow my pursuits (bloody capitalist society grrrr), so I have choices within the confines of my own making, of societies (and the pressure that's placed on me to conform) and where the two meet.
Oh and I forgot to ask in the last post ....... is it really safe wearing sandals whilst ridding a motorcycle? :lol2:

8 Oct 2009

Quote by easy

No, you weren't mistaking anything I have written. I am aware of the type of ladies of which you speak. I would still argue that those ladies don't see it as a career option or would admire their daughters for doing it. They are pushed by circumstance.

Isn't it natural for most parents to want something 'better' for their child (ie not the work they themselves do) and aren't we all pushed by circumstance? On any given day I can think of at least 20 things I'd rather be pursuing than being at work. My circumstances are that I like the money it takes to follow my pursuits (bloody capitalist society grrrr), so I have choices within the confines of my own making, of societies (and the pressure that's placed on me to conform) and where the two meet.
Oh and I forgot to ask in the last post ....... is it really safe wearing sandals whilst ridding a motorcycle? :lol2:
ahhh point taken. 8-)
sod off I leave my sandals off when on Tallulah.

8 Oct 2009

Quote by splendid_
.......... I leave my sandals off when on Tallulah.

That's funny 'cos I leave my socks on when .......... well we won't go there. redface

:giggle:

8 Oct 2009

sandals............... rolleyes

9 Oct 2009

Quote by splendid_
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sod off I leave my sandals off when on Tallulah.

Browsing t'internet this morning and I stumbled across and immediately through of you.
I wonder what someone's getting for xmas ... innocent

:giggle:

9 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
fvck me im lucky i never came off in those days...

You were, you might have ruined your speshully good looks and then you'd only be able to shag the ugly women innocent

9 Oct 2009

Quote by meat2pleaseu
fvck me im lucky i never came off in those days...

You were, you might have ruined your speshully good looks and then you'd only be able to shag the ugly women innocent

Wanna bet? - even ugly women have standards. biggrin

9 Oct 2009

oh i just love the forum
cant be bothered to read long posts actually my brain has erroded from shagging so much
3 cheers to brucie hes woke u all up hasnt he i think thats just what hes trying to do bring the forum back to life well done brucie
swingers and prossies are quite different we play for fun in safe enviroments but we are all human beings and do what we have to do
let him who is without fault throw the first stone

9 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
*throws stone*

Ouch!!!
Good job I had all the proper gear on or that may have really hurt! lol

9 Oct 2009

mind my bloody eyes

9 Oct 2009

Quote by midsprincess
mind my bloody eyes

Is it the drinking and late nights Mids wink

9 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
oh and another thing. why do so many swingers discriminate against smokers?

It stinks? dunno

9 Oct 2009

Quote by foxylady2209
oh and another thing. why do so many swingers discriminate against smokers?

It stinks? dunno

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Foxy, I love it :thumbup:

9 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
i love kissing a girl who smokes. i love the taste.

Each to his own. I would never say smokers shouldn't be on the site - anyone has a right to be a member here.
I just generally wouldn't prefer to meet one.

10 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
"Handsome and tall ? Do you travel/accommodate? Do you maintain an erection when wearing a condom?"
i'll only travel outside M25 for someone really speshul. I can accommodate someone really speshul. I can maintain an erection when wearinga condom (as long as its not too tight at the base) with someone really speshul.
as for bikes and sandals. i have been riding for over 25 years. I know wear all teh right leather/gear, but as a teen in a hot country i used to ride down to the beach in swimming shorts and flip flops. no helmet. fvck me im lucky i never came off in those days...

Brucie, you sound like my kinda guy... what kinda ride do you have ?
umm would I have to pay you ?
biggrin

10 Oct 2009

Splendid_, Kona I'ana 2007... jeans... bring it on!
lp

10 Oct 2009

great topic.
I know many swingers who are also escorts (prostitutes). I also know that they don't tell their 't swinging friends, becasue they say that they wouldn't approve.
I also know that lots of escorts go into clubs with men who havn't got regular partners.
I have spoken to many working girls and they say they don't enjoy escorting etc, it's just a way of earning fast cash.
Of course not all are the same, but I don't think business should or does mix with pleasurevery well.

10 Oct 2009

If I were to consider those who work in the sex industry voluntarily without coerssion (lets face it, there are many other forms of work where people of any sex or age are working under duress), it might loosely be compared to the many others of us who work in an area where we simply work to pay a bill or two, and meet the rent.
We are not all lucky enough to have a profession that meets or needs in the satisfaction stakes.
I'm not making light of the subject.
Work is work for many, a means to an end.
I have no issue with prostitution where the workers are there of thier own choice.
lp

10 Oct 2009

Quote by splendid_
No, you weren't mistaking anything I have written. I am aware of the type of ladies of which you speak. I would still argue that those ladies don't see it as a career option or would admire their daughters for doing it. They are pushed by circumstance.

Splendid, I've been pondering this since the post went up. You know (as do most other who know me here) that I've worked as a prostitute for a time in my life and I can quite honestly say that I chose to do so and was in no way forced into it, by others or by circumstance.
I actually feel the reverse of what you point out and feel more that I was forced into stopping as society do not accept it as an honest profession.
I was at uni and had a part time job to help me out, I worked 15 hours a week and took home about 300 quid a month. After doing some research into escorting I found out I could easily earn that a night plus I could chose when I worked, when I had holidays etc. So I went for the option that would earn me the most money with the smallest impact on my social life.
After I finished uni I got a proper job but still continued doing escort work part time. Why? I guess the answer is that I like nice things :lol2: I was brought up to believe that you worked hard for things and that is what I have always done. So I continued doing both jobs until I was turning down escort work due to my day job. At that point I made the decision to pack in my day job so that I could escort 'full time'. I probably did that 'full time' for about 3 years and during that time I had a ball! Like others have said, of course there are days when you don't fancy going to work, but doesn't everyone feel like that sometimes? Actually now I think about it the thing I found the biggest chore about working was getting ready to go out! If someones spending that sort of money to spend time with you, you have to be looking your best and ready to go out and dazzle! Men (and women) aren't paying for you to turn up and whinge about the day you've had, they're paying for you to turn up and give them a good time, so you get dolled up, put your hooker head on and get out there and do it! The bonus is that most of the time I'd have a fab time too. I got to do things that I would never have been able to have done because of the job and really have no regrets about the choice I made.
So if it's all so great why do I have a 'normal' job now? Quite simply because I've never felt that 'society' would accept my career choice and realised that I needed to get back into a job before the gap in my CV became too big to explain away! That is where to a certain extent I feel that I was actually forced to stop rather than actually making the choice myself.
As for wanting the same for my children? Well, I don't have children so I can't answer how I would really feel but I do think that if my daughter came to me and said she was thinking of taking it up, so long as I knew she was taking all the safety precautions she could then if she wanted to I would support her. I have a lot of respect for the girls that I've worked along side over the years. At least we're honest about who we are and what we do, I can think of many a girl who goes out on a Friday night and flirts with fellas for drinks in exchange for a shag at the end of the night. At least we set out our terms at the beginning.
I know that my view of the world of prostitution is VERY different to those who are forced into it, but please, can we not make such sweeping statements about things.
As for this thread......this isn't about me and prostitution. This is about swinging and prostitution. The two things are poles apart. One is a job and the other is a fun pass time. I didn't join here for work, I joined here for fun with like minded people and my choice of career had nothing at all to do with that.
When I joined here I knew that 'some' people would be uncomfortable with my choice of job and so was honest with the people I got to know so that they had a choice whether to get to know me or not. Some people felt that because of that it was OK to tell others what I did for a living, as if it was a bit of juicy gossip, some people judged me for that and assumed I wasn't a swinger and I was here for work purposes. Some people got to know me and decided for themselves.
Are swingers uncomfortable with prostitutes? I guess they are, but that's because the two things are so different.
I hope that no one is offended by anything I've written, I'm just putting across my own point of view on the matter. I'd just rather that people know the truth rather than assuming otherwise.

10 Oct 2009

There are (almost) as many reasons for prostitution as there are prostitutes. :thumbup:

11 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
Fazer 600. red. and dianese leathers.

should of got cheaper leathers and a better bike :twisted:

11 Oct 2009

Quote by leatherednperky
Fazer 600. red. and dianese leathers.

should of got cheaper leathers and a better bike :twisted:

:rotflmao:

11 Oct 2009

The trouble is swinging and prostitution does get mixed up in here.
Only this year i put an ad up because i was going on holiday, i got a pm from a lady asking when i was there would i like a 3some.
she mentioned they were having a party and i would be welcome but there would be a cost, fair enough parties cost money
She then said that if i want to come up earlier then we could have a bite to eat and drink and then have sex, oh and that will be Â£150 :shock:
Needless to say i declined
so it is here.

11 Oct 2009

flower, i salute you for your honesty. kiss

11 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
ah yes parties... the ones where single guys are charged... prostitution?...

can o worms.... can o worms
bolt

11 Oct 2009

Quote by poshkate
No, you weren't mistaking anything I have written. I am aware of the type of ladies of which you speak. I would still argue that those ladies don't see it as a career option or would admire their daughters for doing it. They are pushed by circumstance.

Splendid, I've been pondering this since the post went up. You know (as do most other who know me here) that I've worked as a prostitute for a time in my life and I can quite honestly say that I chose to do so and was in no way forced into it, by others or by circumstance.
I actually feel the reverse of what you point out and feel more that I was forced into stopping as society do not accept it as an honest profession.
I was at uni and had a part time job to help me out, I worked 15 hours a week and took home about 300 quid a month. After doing some research into escorting I found out I could easily earn that a night plus I could chose when I worked, when I had holidays etc. So I went for the option that would earn me the most money with the smallest impact on my social life.
After I finished uni I got a proper job but still continued doing escort work part time. Why? I guess the answer is that I like nice things :lol2: I was brought up to believe that you worked hard for things and that is what I have always done. So I continued doing both jobs until I was turning down escort work due to my day job. At that point I made the decision to pack in my day job so that I could escort 'full time'. I probably did that 'full time' for about 3 years and during that time I had a ball! Like others have said, of course there are days when you don't fancy going to work, but doesn't everyone feel like that sometimes? Actually now I think about it the thing I found the biggest chore about working was getting ready to go out! If someones spending that sort of money to spend time with you, you have to be looking your best and ready to go out and dazzle! Men (and women) aren't paying for you to turn up and whinge about the day you've had, they're paying for you to turn up and give them a good time, so you get dolled up, put your hooker head on and get out there and do it! The bonus is that most of the time I'd have a fab time too. I got to do things that I would never have been able to have done because of the job and really have no regrets about the choice I made.
So if it's all so great why do I have a 'normal' job now? Quite simply because I've never felt that 'society' would accept my career choice and realised that I needed to get back into a job before the gap in my CV became too big to explain away! That is where to a certain extent I feel that I was actually forced to stop rather than actually making the choice myself.
As for wanting the same for my children? Well, I don't have children so I can't answer how I would really feel but I do think that if my daughter came to me and said she was thinking of taking it up, so long as I knew she was taking all the safety precautions she could then if she wanted to I would support her. I have a lot of respect for the girls that I've worked along side over the years. At least we're honest about who we are and what we do, I can think of many a girl who goes out on a Friday night and flirts with fellas for drinks in exchange for a shag at the end of the night. At least we set out our terms at the beginning.
I know that my view of the world of prostitution is VERY different to those who are forced into it, but please, can we not make such sweeping statements about things.
As for this thread......this isn't about me and prostitution. This is about swinging and prostitution. The two things are poles apart. One is a job and the other is a fun pass time. I didn't join here for work, I joined here for fun with like minded people and my choice of career had nothing at all to do with that.
When I joined here I knew that 'some' people would be uncomfortable with my choice of job and so was honest with the people I got to know so that they had a choice whether to get to know me or not. Some people felt that because of that it was OK to tell others what I did for a living, as if it was a bit of juicy gossip, some people judged me for that and assumed I wasn't a swinger and I was here for work purposes. Some people got to know me and decided for themselves.
Are swingers uncomfortable with prostitutes? I guess they are, but that's because the two things are so different.
I hope that no one is offended by anything I've written, I'm just putting across my own point of view on the matter. I'd just rather that people know the truth rather than assuming otherwise.
nice one kate

11 Oct 2009

kate - thanks for your contribution. I really do appreciate your honesty- again.
I aint going to respond in detail except to say that you probably know very well that your choices were the exception rather than the rule and would argue that the original women that Brucie was referring to were picked up off the street and as such were totally different from the type of profession and choices you were in.

11 Oct 2009

Quote by poshkate
As for wanting the same for my children? Well, I don't have children so I can't answer how I would really feel but I do think that if my daughter came to me and said she was thinking of taking it up, so long as I knew she was taking all the safety precautions she could then if she wanted to I would support her. I have a lot of respect for the girls that I've worked along side over the years. At least we're honest about who we are and what we do, I can think of many a girl who goes out on a Friday night and flirts with fellas for drinks in exchange for a shag at the end of the night. At least we set out our terms at the beginning.

Kate - can I have your babies please? Seriously.. go ask the big man smile

That's one of the most honest, constructive and 'real' posts I've seen on here for ages kiss

x

12 Oct 2009

i really really want to add to this thread and say my piece but have been asked not to by my partner grrrrrr
kate thumbs up to ya well done xxxx