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Is it just me or is there more of an expectation for girls to manage their pubes then men.
There are so many hairy men on this site ... I mean ... I don't expect a man to be clean shaven but a tidy up would be quite nice!!
Don't you think????
I'd love to "tidy" my nether region up but every time I go near my sack with the razor I bottle it :lol2:
Fair point, I trim mine with hair clippers on the shortest setting.
Quote by Funlovers2009
Is it just me or is there more of an expectation for girls to manage their pubes then men.
There are so many hairy men on this site ... I mean ... I don't expect a man to be clean shaven but a tidy up would be quite nice!!
Don't you think????

If you think I am dropping my trousers next time I am at the barbers you can think again.
Not after what happened last time.
The police were very understanding.
I don't mind having none, some or the full "wummaging thwough the undergwoth" flora and fauna fringing my assets. Because I have no real preference (and neither does Mrs R) I tend to try and tailor what I have to the preferences of any people we may meet.
I do draw the line however at carving animals into it. Pubic topiary should not be encouraged.
Res
Would this help??

:P
I keep it trim, once in a while, I'll do a mass clearout though and start 'fresh' wink
20 years ago, very few 'shaved' (esp men).
Now it's all the rage (largely as a result of the porn industry).
It's just a fashion.
I like neat and tidy... BUT, I do get irritated by people who say "eeew" as if it's something truly awful. Nobody moaned 20 years ago. It's just stupid fashion and conditioning.
I won't even try to mention the subconscious psyche behind a prepubescent look!
Anyway, neat and tidy for me. I can't say really care that much as long as I believe someone is hygienic.
I disagree that women are under more pressure though.
I think if anything, more and more women insist on men having no hair, or certainly no hair on their back or facial hair.
There was NO way on earth men had back, sack and crack done 20 years ago...it was even more rare than women shaving... I'm dark, I have body hair, I keep it as neat as possible... but get a life if it's THAT much of an issue. Do women REALLY think Johnny Depp has no body hair? etc
We are all victims of hype and media, and all to willing to be conditioned into believing the perfect human body is a certain way. Currently that's slim, shaved, perfectly symmetrical labia, pert breasts, flawless teeth, immaculate hair, exceptional eyesight, jaw dropping cock length etc etc
God, at this rate I might be tempted to vote for Bush to come back!
I prefer being trimmed short or totally bare as it makes my dick look bigger and I need all the help I can get in that departement :lol2:
I have to admit I don't like a man shaved. Done well, it look prepubescent and done badly it's just bad. I feel it look more manly with a distinct hairiness.
But trimmed is good, saves me sneezing half-way through an otherwise wonderful oral session.
I read this thread title as 'pub management' :doh:
Quote by Ste_n_Kez
Well I always keep myself shaved below and my tummy pubes trimmed. I don't see anything wrong with us men having some pride in our appearance wink

So, if we have hair down there we don't give a monkeys what we look like and may as well turn up with Spinach between our teeth and fetid gorgonzola around our nob?
Now I see where I am going wrong... ;-)
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Quote by Ste_n_Kez
Well I always keep myself shaved below and my tummy pubes trimmed. I don't see anything wrong with us men having some pride in our appearance wink

pmsl sowwy ste jus made me laff
Well i`ve shaved my bits for around 15yrs, way before it became so trendy, it makes me feel a lot cleaner for starters redface and i do like a man to be shaved or very well trimmed, however i do still like a nice hairy masculine body
I myselfe shave allthough not very well when the kids keep popping in the bathroom!!!
I love a shaven man I think it brings out their good points biggrin and also prevents me from stopping every now and then to take what seems like ages to get a rogue pube out of my teeth rolleyes
Me and Pom both like being smooth - makes oral SO much more enjoyable without a hairy barrier. Trimmed is ok - but not to keen on bushy bollocks and I'm surprised how many blokes still sport them. All they'd need is a mullet, a tash and a bri-nylon shirt and they'd look like they'd stepped right out of the 70s.
As for shaved adults looking pre-pubescent ... that's like saying a bald man looks like a newborn - clearly a daft suggestion. Adults look like adults - with or without hair.
i am shaved 90% of the time,im lazy 10% of the time lol
gary started shaving to but hes not very hairy anyway and his hair is fair on his body smile
i dont mind either way to b honest but i hate it wen very hairy men shave their bits, it looks like a landing strip !
Quote by noladreams
I read this thread title as 'pub management' :doh:

me too rotflmao
*note to self* - wear specs when reading forums :doh:
Love to stay smooth myself and love guys to be shaved, it's just nicer. Mind on saying that I wouldn't pass up on one that wasn't lol.
Then there's the joy of shaving someone else's bits, now thats nice.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I read this thread title as 'pub management' :doh:

me too rotflmao
*note to self* - wear specs when reading forums :doh:
Off to get the ladies a drink
:beer:
I'm usually smooth. However, I'm getting a bit lazy about it these days... so much so that I put off having a shag cause I can't be bothered shaving. And then you have the whole rash thing going on if you do it too often. confused
So... my question is to the boys mostly (since that's my area of interest at the moment) - do you care if a girl hasn't been arsed to shave? I don't mean for a first meet sort of thing, more when you're comfortable with someone... do you care?
:mrgreen:
I do prefer a fully shaven lady but a closely trimmed lady is just as appealing so I suppose there is no need to shave every day kind of thing but say perhaps once a week (depending on how fast your hair grows lol )
i do hate the actual shaving of myself unless gary does it for me smile
My hair grows way too FAST! rolleyes
If I shave in the morning I have stubble by the next morning and doing the whole shaving too often thing just leaves me sore but I've decided that if I could get over the whole non-shaved thing then I'd be having way more sex!! :doh:
Quote by Dirtygirly
I've decided that if I could get over the whole non-shaved thing then I'd be having way more sex!! :doh:

I doubt you would get kicked out of bed for having a hairy one ;-)
Quote by Dirtygirly
My hair grows way too FAST! rolleyes
If I shave in the morning I have stubble by the next morning and doing the whole shaving too often thing just leaves me sore but I've decided that if I could get over the whole non-shaved thing then I'd be having way more sex!! :doh:

mine grows that fast too, im hoping it slows with old age lol
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My hair grows way too FAST! rolleyes
If I shave in the morning I have stubble by the next morning and doing the whole shaving too often thing just leaves me sore but I've decided that if I could get over the whole non-shaved thing then I'd be having way more sex!! :doh:

mine grows that fast too, im hoping it slows with old age lol
that's why i prefer a mix of epilating and waxing. also i hate stubble growing back as it can actually hurt me. but as it's new hair coming through from waxing you don't feel it. i also find that on the whole things feel smoother for longer too.
DG as the hair takes longer to grow back too that means more sex for you too :twisted:
whips
Yeah I used to wax... I hated the inbetweeny bit waiting for it to grow long enough to wax and there's no way this side of hell (or in fact the other) that I'm going anywhere near myself with an epilator! I did a square inch on my leg... then I gave away the epilator! :mrgreen:
Anyway... text conversation with fuck buddy:
Me: When you free?
Him: When do you want me?
Me: Tempted to say tonight but I've not done anything with my bikini line
Him: Nothing wrong with that
Me: You just don't care do you? Men are such simple creatures, I'd be having way more sex if I didn't worry about shaving.
Him: Yip, just go with it! And get me round!
Me: See you later then! wink
Job done! :mrgreen:
Quote by Ms_Whips
that's why i prefer a mix of epilating and waxing. also i hate stubble growing back as it can actually hurt me. but as it's new hair coming through from waxing you don't feel it. i also find that on the whole things feel smoother for longer too.
DG as the hair takes longer to grow back too that means more sex for you too :twisted:
whips


Sorry but "ARE YOU MAD?????"
I've tried both on my legs several times, even tried different makes ffs but all are sooo painful its just not right.
Has antone ever tried one of those things that are supposed to electric shock your hairs into never growing again?
Kez :shock:
Quote by Resonance
Well I always keep myself shaved below and my tummy pubes trimmed. I don't see anything wrong with us men having some pride in our appearance wink

So, if we have hair down there we don't give a monkeys what we look like and may as well turn up with Spinach between our teeth and fetid gorgonzola around our nob?
Now I see where I am going wrong... ;-)
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Note to self ......dont arrange a meet with Res :wink:
What Ste is saying is there isnt anything wrong in a guy taking pride in his apperance and that has no bearing on any others persons judgement.
The point he was making is that it is not fashion that drives any man to be cleanly but self pride.
Is it not the same as the guy who wears hair gel to feel better about his apperance???
It doesn't bother me if a guy shaves or just trims so long as he's not got the Forest of Dean down his pants.....or over his back :shock:
I'm too chicken-shit to wax my lady garden so I shave. It's a bit tricky getting into all the nooks and crannies and much better to have someone else do it for me ( and dead horny too :twisted: )
thats cos your just plain weirdddd lol