Depends what situation you meet them in as to what comes first - any order here just gotta have a bit o both!
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question about fancying people
well, lots of opinions, thanks. I'm surprised not many thought it's something that can develop. guess my question was because I've met the person, got on fantastically and did fancy her, just not quite as much as some other people in the past. Just have to see how it pans out I guess...
sorry to resurrect my old thread, but at least one of you was interested in seeing how it worked out 
My realtionship with the person in question has now ended. We got very close over the last months, and while she had a fantastic personality and was a great friend and support, the chemistry which (I may be wrong here) I believe starts with physical attraction never developed. She was just starting to dip her toe into the world of swinging, but was ultimately unhappy with me doing it so better that it ended without prolonging the pain. A lesson learnt which is positive though. Gotta fancy the arse of someone at the beginning at least :shock:
My realtionship with the person in question has now ended. We got very close over the last months, and while she had a fantastic personality and was a great friend and support, the chemistry which (I may be wrong here) I believe starts with physical attraction never developed. She was just starting to dip her toe into the world of swinging, but was ultimately unhappy with me doing it so better that it ended without prolonging the pain. A lesson learnt which is positive though. Gotta fancy the arse of someone at the beginning at least :shock:
Personally i think in swinging looks are not that important, there has to be some kind of attraction for me but that dosn't mean they have to be good looking, we are only after a good time and a bit of a spark for the night so does someone have to be great looking for that? suppose it depends what kind of person you are some people come on here looking for the impossable, model type looks and a great personality to match, well you going to be looking a long time :wink:
so does someone have to be great looking for that? suppose it depends what kind of person you are some people come on here looking for the impossable, model type looks and a great personality to match, well you going to be looking a long time :wink: 
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