Okay - so I considered doing this as a poll - but have to admit I am not too sure how to set up a poll -so it has become a "discuss".
Most of us lead pretty hectic lives. Full time jobs, some with kids on top of that, some with studying. Most of us have houses that need cleaning and pets that need tending.
Some of us are single - perhaps enjoying great times whenever we can. But lets face it - we can't always fit in a whole night of sensual music, candles and great sex that lasts all night.
But every now and then the chance for a quickie arises. The kids are off at some extra curricular activity and you have an hour - 2 hours to spare. Your fave play partner is free... so you arrange a quickie.
But do you actually enjoy that quickie - or do you come away feeling a little sorry that it couldn't be more than it was?
Discuss..........
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Quickies - for or against? Discuss
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Sex God
Depends whether or not it's spontaneous. Also depends whether it's just'we didn't have time last night so we'll do it now' or 'mmmmmmmm I fancy a little play NOW'
Personally, I like the odd quickie now and again :twisted:
Bev
xx
Personally, I like the odd quickie now and again :twisted:
Bev
xx
Sex God
I love quickies!! :twisted: And lots of them.. one after the other 
Sex God
Two hours spare? That's a quickie? :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: I'd consider that a longie :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
How long does it take? :shock:
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How long does it take? :shock:
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Sex God
2 hours is a quickie?
I'm impressed
I'm impressed
Sex God
Quote by Rainbows
Two hours spare? That's a quickie? :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: I'd consider that a longie :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
How long does it take? :shock:
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I like to take my time!! :twisted: :twisted:
So do I sometimes. I can give up a whole 15 mins of my time to people who like to go the long way round
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:wink: :wink: 
Sex God
Quickies are great fun, sometiimes you arent at home and you are out somewhere and you think, yeah, lets do it, grab the moment and shag! :twisted:
a qui! sorry finished
Orgasminator
a quickie can be great, but can also leave u unfulfilled and wanting more, but sometimes u just grab what u can get
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In most of my past relationships 'normal' sex (including foreplay and everything) was no more than half an hour, and a quickie lasted between 5 and 10 minutes. Like bluexxx said one or two hours is ages :shock:
Sounds similar to my life, whole night of fun, never happens, 2 hours of peace, damn rare (we have kids)... So for us a quickie is we got 5 maybe 10 mins, it boils over and we go at it like rabbits for the time we have. Can be fun...
The couple of hours are rarer, but not better or worse, just different...
Sounds similar to my life, whole night of fun, never happens, 2 hours of peace, damn rare (we have kids)... So for us a quickie is we got 5 maybe 10 mins, it boils over and we go at it like rabbits for the time we have. Can be fun...
The couple of hours are rarer, but not better or worse, just different...
Ah, I don't think it was down to lack of time with me, just inexpirienced partners. The frustrating thing was, we would have had time to go on all night they just didn't want to, and now I'm with someone who appreciates how good all night sessions can be we don't get the oppourtunity very often
But yes, answering the original question, quickies are excellent if it's all you get time for or even just as a change from how things normally are. Being left wanting more isn't necessarily a bad thing
Sex God
Quickies have there place.
The sex itself might be not that great but the thrill of having a quicky is so worth it :twisted:
The sex itself might be not that great but the thrill of having a quicky is so worth it :twisted:
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Quickies have there place.
The sex itself might be not that great but the thrill of having a quicky is so worth it :twisted:
I beg to differ..... Some quickies are bloody great!!..
Plus for some guys who lack stamina its a good cover!.. ahem!.. he he
We keep joking that we should try a quicky one day to add a bit of variety.... Always seem to have longies... not that we are complaining... its just become a standing joke that we cant fit it into a space shorter than an hour. (and generally around 2hrs)
Anybody got any tips for doing a quicky that stays quicky (
for anyone that just says premature ejaculation)
Anybody got any tips for doing a quicky that stays quicky (
for anyone that just says premature ejaculation) Quote by EnglishChris99
We keep joking that we should try a quicky one day to add a bit of variety.... Always seem to have longies... not that we are complaining... its just become a standing joke that we cant fit it into a space shorter than an hour. (and generally around 2hrs)
Anybody got any tips for doing a quicky that stays quicky (
hey english.. The way i see it is.. being able to have the odd quicky along with the regular "longy" just means your more diverse!
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hey english.. The way i see it is.. being able to have the odd quicky along with the regular "longy" just means your more diverse!
The diversity thing was what I was getting at... we want to try new things by doing a quicky but keep failing cos it turns into a longy... alas we may never reach that level of diversity!!!!
Forum Virgin
My fuckbuddy Rachel and I often meet up in a pub near where she works in Farringdon - then slope off for a quicky in a nearby spot which, though 'public' is secluded from prying eyes. We both find it highly arousing to be indulging in an anal bonk, which she prefers, as cars pass by within yards yet nobody can see us.
I am highly in favour of the quicky, just as long as there are slowies too!
I am highly in favour of the quicky, just as long as there are slowies too!
Orgasminator
Both have their place... but I guess some of it depends on how reactive both people are else one ends up being left behind, so to speak.
When younger, very much younger, I used to work in a wimpy and my gf of the time used to pop in wearing a short skirt and no nicks... we'd go up to the staff room and she would stand facing the door looking through the little window as i'd slip in from behind and rub her nips and clit... as it was the staff room the time could be as little as 5 mins, or as long as 15... the best couple of times were when someone was walking towards the door along the coridor and we'd have to make a guess as to if we could finish before they got to the door... for thoes that dont remember the winpy uniforms, the tops used to be like overly long shirts so even if I didnt manage to put the old man aways, he was covered, lol... other times when we were together we'd do it for nearly as long as 25mins and that included 24mins 30seconds of begging, boy was I a stud in thoes days, lololol.
My ex who i used to swing with a couple of years back and I used to enjoy everything from 4 hour sessions involving toys and ropes and stuff, to 5 minuite quickies when we just felt like doing it or had been winding each other up sexually but wernt really in a sutable place for a long session.
When younger, very much younger, I used to work in a wimpy and my gf of the time used to pop in wearing a short skirt and no nicks... we'd go up to the staff room and she would stand facing the door looking through the little window as i'd slip in from behind and rub her nips and clit... as it was the staff room the time could be as little as 5 mins, or as long as 15... the best couple of times were when someone was walking towards the door along the coridor and we'd have to make a guess as to if we could finish before they got to the door... for thoes that dont remember the winpy uniforms, the tops used to be like overly long shirts so even if I didnt manage to put the old man aways, he was covered, lol... other times when we were together we'd do it for nearly as long as 25mins and that included 24mins 30seconds of begging, boy was I a stud in thoes days, lololol.
My ex who i used to swing with a couple of years back and I used to enjoy everything from 4 hour sessions involving toys and ropes and stuff, to 5 minuite quickies when we just felt like doing it or had been winding each other up sexually but wernt really in a sutable place for a long session.
The best quickie I've had was with a young guy I hadn't met previously but had spoken to online. I had been to an Ann Summers party and felt a bit horny after playing with the toys there. I got home about 11pm, logged on and started chatting with him. After 5 mins of saying how horny we both felt I said 'come on over'. WIthin 20 mins he was on my sofa and we were shagging for all we were worth :twisted: He didn't stay long as it was late and we both had to get to bed (to sleep!) but it was a good shag! Only saw him once again since then and it wasn't so good that time so I reckon it was the urgency of it all that really got us both going and made it so enjoyable.
So it can be good, but I also love the sessions where we can spend more time together and try lots of fun things :twisted:
So it can be good, but I also love the sessions where we can spend more time together and try lots of fun things :twisted:
Sex God
I think both have there place but
I do prefer a long session and just 'chilling' out and being with each other
I do prefer a long session and just 'chilling' out and being with each other
