whats the attraction of a guy wanting your ass, you tell them your no -no's and once you get started enjoying the moment wham there there trying to shove there fingers, dick up there , all that does for me is bring me down a couple of levels so thus not enjoying the moment any more, then they say are you gonna swallow HA.
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Quote by cockslut
whats the attraction of a guy wanting your ass, you tell them your no -no's and once you get started enjoying the moment wham there there trying to shove there fingers, dick up there , all that does for me is bring me down a couple of levels so thus not enjoying the moment any more, then they say are you gonna swallow HA.
:gagged:
attraction wise ..... for some people - its different, its , its 'filthy', its pushing the boundaries, its unchartered territory...its a gesture that they're willing to do something out of the 'norm', its experimenting..... its intimate, its animalistic... its well, whatever you interpret it to be ....but fluck is it tight
however - there's a big difference between consentual anal play and it being a big No No - especially if they're already aware that its not your cup of tea. Anyone touched me somewhere , especially after I'd specifically said I dont like it , i wouldnt be sucking his cock, i'd have got a 12 inch dildo and shoved it up his ass :twisted:
No means No. Rule number one. - in fact, perhaps we should upgrade rule number two to 'dont give it out if you dont want it back in return' :twisted:
Quote by Darkfire
Anyone touched me somewhere , especially after I'd specifically said I dont like it , i wouldnt be sucking his cock, i'd have got a 12 inch dildo and shoved it up his ass :twisted:
No means No. Rule number one. - in fact, perhaps we should upgrade rule number two to 'dont give it out if you dont want it back in return' :twisted:
So you went to Blue's finishing school too then? :rascal:
Quote by Bloke2005
whats the attraction of a guy wanting your ass, you tell them your no -no's and once you get started enjoying the moment wham there there trying to shove there fingers, dick up there , all that does for me is bring me down a couple of levels so thus not enjoying the moment any more, then they say are you gonna swallow HA.
:gagged: Bloke :giggle:
:giggle: Quote by Bloke2005
Anyone touched me somewhere , especially after I'd specifically said I dont like it , i wouldnt be sucking his cock, i'd have got a 12 inch dildo and shoved it up his ass :twisted:
No means No. Rule number one. - in fact, perhaps we should upgrade rule number two to 'dont give it out if you dont want it back in return' :twisted:
So you went to Blue's finishing school too then? :rascal:
not yet, but I might :twisted:
there are somethings even if you enjoy doing them that we think should be keep between partners. A is one of them..and if you have said no once then that should be enough for anyone..the other way is to suck his dick but when he comes give him his sperm back..anyway u feel like.........
Quote by cockslut
whats the attraction of a guy wanting your ass, you tell them your no -no's and once you get started enjoying the moment wham there there trying to shove there fingers, dick up there , all that does for me is bring me down a couple of levels so thus not enjoying the moment any more, then they say are you gonna swallow HA.
Theres a simple answer to this..... Men are Boys at heart and if you say no you can't what's the first thing he wants???? See simple.
Now apply this to something useful..... like don't lick me there for more than 30 mins or don't make me come more than say 10 times..........
What more advice can be given? Just curious though..... is your 4th pic on your profile an illusion then??
Mike xxx
Quote by cockslut
whats the attraction of a guy wanting your ass, you tell them your no -no's and once you get started enjoying the moment wham there there trying to shove there fingers, dick up there , all that does for me is bring me down a couple of levels so thus not enjoying the moment any more, then they say are you gonna swallow HA.
To a lot of people saying you don't do anal only eliminates cock entering the brown starfish - finger stimulation is a different act. Usually a guy gets no real physical satisfaction from poking a digit in the dirtbox - but he is attempting to gain pleasure from your enjoyment.
Aside from that - if you realise you actually enjoy having a finger fumble up the fart flute - you may well change your mind about the willy-wonka up the chocolate factory.
Quote by PoloLady
Usually a guy gets no real physical satisfaction from poking a digit in the dirtbox - but he is attempting to gain pleasure from your enjoyment.
Aside from that - if you realise you actually enjoy having a finger fumble up the fart flute - you may well change your mind about the willy-wonka up the chocolate factory.
Or genuinely gaining pleasure from being part of hers.
I have to say I'm a much bigger fan of "ass play" than sticking it the chocolate starfish.
Sometimes I just can't resist gently pushing my thumb against it as it pukers and blows little kisses to me as I ease in and out, when back-scuttling.
Quote by dambuster
Usually a guy gets no real physical satisfaction from poking a digit in the dirtbox - but he is attempting to gain pleasure from your enjoyment.
Aside from that - if you realise you actually enjoy having a finger fumble up the fart flute - you may well change your mind about the willy-wonka up the chocolate factory.
Or genuinely gaining pleasure from being part of hers.
That's the one!
It must be that in some cases at least - or why do women do it to other women?
Quote by PoloLady
Usually a guy gets no real physical satisfaction from poking a digit in the dirtbox - but he is attempting to gain pleasure from your enjoyment.
Aside from that - if you realise you actually enjoy having a finger fumble up the fart flute - you may well change your mind about the willy-wonka up the chocolate factory.
Or genuinely gaining pleasure from being part of hers.
That's the one!
It must be that in some cases at least - or why do women do it to other women?
Still :gagged:
The most sensuous sexual experience was with a partner who couldn't get enough of A. She enjoyed having A then going out and feeling my love juice run out of her perhaps up to one hour later 
To me it was just so erotic. To hear her demand my cock up her arse was the biggest turn on.
I would never attempt A with anyone who wasn't willing. That IS a no no.
To me it was just so erotic. To hear her demand my cock up her arse was the biggest turn on.
I would never attempt A with anyone who wasn't willing. That IS a no no.
Quote by Bloke2005
Usually a guy gets no real physical satisfaction from poking a digit in the dirtbox - but he is attempting to gain pleasure from your enjoyment.
Aside from that - if you realise you actually enjoy having a finger fumble up the fart flute - you may well change your mind about the willy-wonka up the chocolate factory.
Or genuinely gaining pleasure from being part of hers.
That's the one!
It must be that in some cases at least - or why do women do it to other women?
Still :gagged:
go on tell us from a mans point of view.. if you dont mind...
Quote by cockslut
hhhhmph...................
no-no's.....................
nope, sory, can't help you.
H.x
well your ad has 4 no-no's on it for a just being picky lol
Very true, well spotted.
More of a vetting process than a list of 'this aint allowed' though. Bit like an all day ticket to a theme park, if you fit the criteria, you can do whatever you like once you're in.
H.x
Quote by H-x
hhhhmph...................
no-no's.....................
nope, sory, can't help you.
H.x
well your ad has 4 no-no's on it for a just being picky lol
Very true, well spotted.
More of a vetting process than a list of 'this aint allowed' though. Bit like an all day ticket to a theme park, if you fit the criteria, you can do whatever you like once you're in.
H.x
nice explanation. prob my luck the guys who tried it on me were bull at a gate type, and thus put me off it, as if i'm gonna try it i want to feel the pleasure of tickets please.
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What more advice can be given? Just curious though..... is your 4th pic on your profile an illusion then??
Mike xxx
So just because someone has consented to a particular act in the past, they have no right to say no to the same act in the future?!?
Les
I agree Les, Didn't realise it was a case of consent with one, consent with everyone either
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What more advice can be given? Just curious though..... is your 4th pic on your profile an illusion then??
Mike xxx
So just because someone has consented to a particular act in the past, they have no right to say no to the same act in the future?!?
Les
I agree Les, Didn't realise it was a case of consent with one, consent with everyone either
If I can get really basic here, I always tell people I don't do anal (Flidais talking here, not Media- that's a different kettle of fish
)as I have tried it and it just bloody well hurts. Saying that, a few months back, when I must have been quite 'relaxed' (OK, I'd had a few vodkas) I did and really enjoyed it. Tried it since and back to 'No'...so the whole point of this being, what you do once you don't, necessarily want to (or even be able to) do again. Quote by Shloppy
The most sensuous sexual experience was with a partner who couldn't get enough of A. She enjoyed having A then going out and feeling my love juice run out of her perhaps up to one hour later
To me it was just so erotic. To hear her demand my cock up her arse was the biggest turn on.
I would never attempt A with anyone who wasn't willing. That IS a no no.
I agree with this entirely. There's no pleasure when anal sex is not a woman's thing but when she invites you to give her one up her arse mmm heaven
Quote by awol
The most sensuous sexual experience was with a partner who couldn't get enough of A. She enjoyed having A then going out and feeling my love juice run out of her perhaps up to one hour later
To me it was just so erotic. To hear her demand my cock up her arse was the biggest turn on.
I would never attempt A with anyone who wasn't willing. That IS a no no.
I agree with this entirely. There's no pleasure when anal sex is not a woman's thing but when she invites you to give her one up her arse mmm heaven
You men have a way with words ....
:giggle:
Minx x x
Quote by couple_ne2000
What more advice can be given? Just curious though..... is your 4th pic on your profile an illusion then??
Mike xxx
So just because someone has consented to a particular act in the past, they have no right to say no to the same act in the future?!?
Les
Err did anyone here say they should??? Not that I can see...... I read the post for what its saying and its saying to me that she doesn't like it as it brings her down a level or two.... then looking at the pics I see she has some of her (I assume her) taking it!!
Where does it say in my reply anywhere that she now has to because she already has done? I asked if it was an illusion?? I think it strange to post the question and have the pic on your profile like someone saying I hate Bi sex and posting pics showing Bi sex and the like...... maybe just maybe the guys that keep trying this on her have actually seen the pics on her ad and just maybe thinks she likes it??? Its a thought eh.
Maybe your looking at the wrong reply......... or just fancied a dig!
Mike
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You men have a way with words ....
:giggle:
Minx x x
:shock: :shock: :shock: Errrm ............... may I draw your attention to this :small-print:
Quote by PoloLady
To a lot of people saying you don't do anal only eliminates cock entering the brown starfish - finger stimulation is a different act. Usually a guy gets no real physical satisfaction from poking a digit in the dirtbox - but he is attempting to gain pleasure from your enjoyment.
Aside from that - if you realise you actually enjoy having a finger fumble up the fart flute - you may well change your mind about the willy-wonka up the chocolate factory.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Quote by mdr2000
What more advice can be given? Just curious though..... is your 4th pic on your profile an illusion then??
Mike xxx
So just because someone has consented to a particular act in the past, they have no right to say no to the same act in the future?!?
Les
Err did anyone here say they should??? Not that I can see...... I read the post for what its saying and its saying to me that she doesn't like it as it brings her down a level or two.... then looking at the pics I see she has some of her (I assume her) taking it!!
Where does it say in my reply anywhere that she now has to because she already has done? I asked if it was an illusion?? I think it strange to post the question and have the pic on your profile like someone saying I hate Bi sex and posting pics showing Bi sex and the like...... maybe just maybe the guys that keep trying this on her have actually seen the pics on her ad and just maybe thinks she likes it??? Its a thought eh.
Maybe your looking at the wrong reply......... or just fancied a dig!
Mike
No, I'm not just having a dig, why would I??
I think I am bringing up a valid point! Having re-read the ladies profile, it doesn't say she hates bi-sex. The first post is asking why, when you have made the boundries of play clear does the person you are playing with try to push, or ignore those boundries.
Wether you meant it that way or not, your post implied that because she has a picture on her profile that looks like anal, then it is something that she should be happy doing so. My point is that peoples boundries change. They may be comfortable performing an act with one person but not another. If the boundries are set out at the beginnning of play then those boundries should be respected!
It IS an important point, if boundries are ignored then a situation can easily turn from play to sexual assault!
Les x
Quote by couple_ne2000
... your post implied that because she has a picture on her profile that looks like anal, then it is something that she should be happy doing so.
I have not been to look at the photos (yet) but I would say one thing here... having a photo containing anal sex on an ad/profile WILL and DOES strongly imply she likes anal - as not only has she had it, she is showing others she has had it too.
Quote by couple_ne2000
My point is that peoples boundries change. They may be comfortable performing an act with one person but not another. If the boundries are set out at the beginnning of play then those boundries should be respected!
True. Though in cases where there are mixed messages - people will/may ultimately have a quick fumble to see if the goal post has moved.
Quote by couple_ne2000
It IS an important point, if boundries are ignored then a situation can easily turn from play to sexual assault!
I get what you are saying, but where does the line get drawn? Do we all have to sit and write a list of does and don'ts - is sex always that prescribed?
Tip-toeing around boundaries is part of how we learn new things and have new experiences. There are some lines which should not be crossed and some which can be approached - people can't get it right all of the time if the messages are unclear.
