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As I read thru profiles of couples and laies happy to meet single man they usually include in bold type "NO MARRIED MEN",
I often wonder what they define as a "Married Man".
Is it for instance a guy with a live in partner or a girlfriend.
If these guys are not married men then this is surely sexual harrasment of us married men.
We have feelings and needs too u know and should not accept such unfairness.
Any opinions?
I'm trying to thing of a single guy in absolutly no relationship.
The word "loser" springs to mind
I have 'no marrieds' in my profile too and that for me, means ANY guy who has a partner tucked away somewhere who has no knowledge of his 'extra curricula activities' whether they're married or not.
Stating I want single, over 35 local guys doesn't stop the married/attached 25 year olds from Outer Mongolia sending me cock shots though :doh:
Quote by bigbuns2
I'm trying to thing of a single guy in absolutly no relationship.
The word "loser" springs to mind

so just because a male is really single he is a loser????? thats not a nice thing to say
Quote by bigbuns2
I'm trying to thing of a single guy in absolutly no relationship.
The word "loser" springs to mind

rolleyes
Let me put it another way.
If you meet a goodlooking guy who says her is single he is either a liar or a loser.
My money would be on the former.
Quote by bigbuns2
Let me put it another way.
If you meet a goodlooking guy who says her is single he is either a liar or a loser.
My money would be on the former.

Let me put it this way:
why don't you stop making ridiculous generalisations which only result in getting people's backs up, and take a step back and enjoy the forums in a more chilled, less provocative way.
Rant coming up..I tried to resist, i really is my opinion and if you dont like it then its your fault for asking...........
Well I think that if you have any kind of partner you shouldnt be cheating on her if you have any love or respect , if you dont then why not dump her and actually BE single?.
No doubt your wife is too delicate for other men to shag, or she doesnt like sex, or she doesnt understand your needs.....have you ever thought about hers?
You can call it swinging if you want but I call it cheating. I would be devastated if my husband was cheating on me and I think its only fair that i dont cause some other poor cow that hurt.
Phew feel better now lol
Quote by bigbuns2
Let me put it another way.
If you meet a goodlooking guy who says her is single he is either a liar or a loser.
My money would be on the former.

What bolloks...so this makes me a loser then hahahahha
in that case...this loser has never had so much fun hahaha
RWL
xx
Hi big buns I think maybe your statements are far too sweeping lol
I found this bit of info from a newspaper taken from a survey done amongst and from single. Ok its from a newspaper so large pinch of salt needed but you get the point.biggrin
The 10 reasons why men won't commit:
1. They can get sex without marriage more easily than in times past
2. They can enjoy the benefits of having a wife by cohabiting rather than marrying
3. They want to avoid divorce and its financial risks
4. They want to wait until they are older to have children
5. They fear that marriage will require too many changes and compromises
6. They are waiting for the perfect soul mate and she hasn't yet appeared
7. They face few social pressures to marry
8. They are reluctant to marry a woman who already has children
9. They want to own a house before they get a wife
10. They want to enjoy single life as long as they can
Oh and also I think the same probably goes for single women too!
Quote by welikesinglemen
Rant coming up..I tried to resist, i really is my opinion and if you dont like it then its your fault for asking...........
Well I think that if you have any kind of partner you shouldnt be cheating on her if you have any love or respect , if you dont then why not dump her and actually BE single?.
No doubt your wife is too delicate for other men to shag, or she doesnt like sex, or she doesnt understand your needs.....have you ever thought about hers?
You can call it swinging if you want but I call it cheating. I would be devastated if my husband was cheating on me and I think its only fair that i dont cause some other poor cow that hurt.
Phew feel better now lol

Passes a cold glass of something for 'welikesinglemen' and a chair lol :thumbup:
Quote by redwine_lover
Let me put it another way.
If you meet a goodlooking guy who says her is single he is either a liar or a loser.
My money would be on the former.

What bolloks...so this makes me a loser then hahahahha
in that case...this loser has never had so much fun hahaha
RWL
xx
Makes me an ex loser biggrin
But tar and fether me anyway i might like it lol
Quote by bigbuns2
I'm trying to thing of a single guy in absolutly no relationship.
The word "loser" springs to mind

Depends what your wife is like
Quote by redwine_lover
Let me put it another way.
If you meet a goodlooking guy who says her is single he is either a liar or a loser.
My money would be on the former.

What bolloks...so this makes me a loser then hahahahha
in that case...this loser has never had so much fun hahaha
RWL
xx
It is all that humping you are doing!! biggrin :D
Quote by bigbuns2

As I read thru profiles of couples and laies happy to meet single man they usually include in bold type "NO MARRIED MEN",
I often wonder what they define as a "Married Man".
Is it for instance a guy with a live in partner or a girlfriend.
If these guys are not married men then this is surely sexual harrasment of us married men.
We have feelings and needs too u know and should not accept such unfairness.
Any opinions?

Hmmmmmmm ................
For me personally, I feel most of the users on here use the above phrase when in fact they mean 'no cheaters', as if you are happy cheating on your wife/ partner , you would obviously have no qualms about lying about other things, such as 'of course I've had the snip' etc etc. Most of the peeps on here want to be secure in the kowledge that the people they chose to play with are trustworthy, and will not broadcast any private details to others.
Perhaps you should spend a little time reading posts and joinging in gently rather than your 'bull in the china shop' approach.
Or is it the approach of ' the best form of defense is attack'......................... lol
Quote by bigbuns2
I'm trying to thing of a single guy in absolutly no relationship.
The word "loser" springs to mind

:shock: Errrr.... welcome to the forums... I think confused
Not again....I'm staying out of this, this time but echo Cherrytree's sentiments........I'm off to post a penis size thread, there's not been one for a few hours lol
It makes more sense in the next post lol
Quote by bigbuns2

As I read thru profiles of couples and laies happy to meet single man they usually include in bold type "NO MARRIED MEN",
I often wonder what they define as a "Married Man".
Is it for instance a guy with a live in partner or a girlfriend.
If these guys are not married men then this is surely sexual harrasment of us married men.
We have feelings and needs too u know and should not accept such unfairness.
Any opinions?

Congratulations! You've managed to post the biggest load of utter tripe I've ever seen on here.
And there's been some tripe.
Unusually for me, I'm not even going to add a little token word of advice, or a welcome in gesture. Why? Because you've just insulted some good friends of mine- good looking, honest, single men.
Tell you what, put your wife in touch with me & I'll arrange for her to verify that for you. :thumbup:
Quote by winchwench
Because you've just insulted some good friends of mine- good looking, honest, single men.

Never ever considered we are friends, but thank you for the compliment, it is appreciated passionkiss
Quote by essex34m
Because you've just insulted some good friends of mine- good looking, honest, single men.

Never ever considered we are friends, but thank you for the compliment, it is appreciated passionkiss
I said honest! :lol2:
kiss
welcome to the forums bigbuns :shock:
I see you like to make an impression!
Making a generalisation of my own based on my own opinions - I always thought swinging was about a lifestyle that you could be sexually open with out cheating or lying. I think that is what is most disliked in this community is those who lie and cheat and hurt people. So whether married, attached or any other variation doesn't matter, I think when people write "no married men" it just means no people who have anyone at home that doesn't know what they are up to. You may have feelings are needs but surely your partner does too.
So bigbuns if your other half doesn't know what you are up to I think that is why people exclude married men like you. I am sure there are people here for whom having a partner who doesn't know what you are up to doesn't matter.
Perhaps a prostitute might better serve your needs. I know bit harsh.
R xx
Quote by Ruthandswede
welcome to the forums bigbuns :shock:
I see you like to make an impression!
Making a generalisation of my own based on my own opinions - I always thought swinging was about a lifestyle that you could be sexually open with out cheating or lying. I think that is what is most disliked in this community is those who lie and cheat and hurt people. So whether married, attached or any other variation doesn't matter, I think when people write "no married men" it just means no people who have anyone at home that doesn't know what they are up to. You may have feelings are needs but surely your partner does too.
So bigbuns if your other half doesn't know what you are up to I think that is why people exclude married men like you. I am sure there are people here for whom having a partner who doesn't know what you are up to doesn't matter.
Perhaps a prostitute might better serve your needs. I know bit harsh.
R xx

Yep...Plus also does not sound like a very nice person anyway. Still takes all sorts I suppose. :shock:
Quote by bigbuns2
Let me put it another way.
If you meet a goodlooking guy who says her is single he is either a liar or a loser.
My money would be on the former.

What the.......
wave okay loser here then.... not that i consider myself goodlooking, i'm a ugly sod....but beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Can I stand for president of "losers annomous" then??? (I have been here for 4 years... I must be the loser of losers.....)
if that is your attitude and I was to paint all married guys on here with the same brush.... you'd go ballistic!!!
I am going to keep calm.......this is like a random "drive by" post..... come out of nowhere... everyone ducks for cover and is left thinking WTF lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by bigbuns2

As I read thru profiles of couples and laies happy to meet single man they usually include in bold type "NO MARRIED MEN",
I often wonder what they define as a "Married Man".
Is it for instance a guy with a live in partner or a girlfriend.
If these guys are not married men then this is surely sexual harrasment of us married men.
We have feelings and needs too u know and should not accept such unfairness.
Any opinions?

How is that harrassment? And if you shouldn't accept such unfairness, does your wife know that you're on here?
Quote by bigbuns2
I'm trying to thing of a single guy in absolutly no relationship.
The word "loser" springs to mind

confused Oh dear. You may need a huge dressing for the wound on your foot, very soon.
Quote by flower411
Hi bigbuns wave
Welcome to the forums lol
I`ve read your profile and the comments you have posted in this thread and I`m pretty sure that you`d have problems meeting anybody from here even if you weren`t married.
It all has to do with general attitude and yours is simply unpleasant !

:thumbup:
???
umm ok,, why is it unfair that some people choose not to sleep with married men, or attached etc?
people have that right, sorry its not a pay ya money and the memebrs have to shag you here.
if all singe guys are losers then i think you read to rethink, your a married guy un a unhappy mariage and cant be honest with your wife, you then come on to a swinging site and demand a shag due to fairness,
whos the loser??
if all single guys are losers what does that make single women? ... gratefull they never married if your the result.
you need to learn some manners, and respect.
youve just wasted or would that be lost you loser your money, cuse i dont think any one here will be wanting to meet such a arrogant insulting fool.
Quote by bigbuns2
I'm trying to thing of a single guy in absolutly no relationship.
The word "loser" springs to mind

Way to make friends and influence people!?!?!
So, on that note, as a single gal in absolutely no relationship am I a loser????? :shock:
Erm... let me see, I don't think so! wink
Quote by bigbuns2
Let me put it another way.
If you meet a goodlooking guy who says her is single he is either a liar or a loser.
My money would be on the former.

As you are putting yourself forward as an advocate of fairness and non discrimination, should we assume that you apply this well rounded opinion equally to single women?
Oopsie lol
Quote by bigbuns2
I often wonder what they define as a "Married Man".

Dont they usually come with a certificate and a wife?
Its down to personal choice surely? Either people look for single or married.
I dont see why people should be branded liars or losers. dunno