Ello,
I'm sure something like this has been posted at some point, but can'r find anything about it just yet, although i'll keep looking.
When a man has an orgasm, is there an average time for him to recover, 'how long is apiece of string' I hear you cry!!! I know it all depends on the individual, or how horny a person is etc... but i'd really like to delve into this.
With Susie, I very rarely need any recovery time at all, well, maybe after the 4th or fifth time of asking i may need a few minutes...lol i don't think it's all that unusual but i'm told otherwise. Maybe She's just been with the wrong type of man...lol
Is it usual... or unusual to be able to carry on immediately after orgasm?
Paul x
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recovery time for men?
I can carry on, but it is not a pleasurable, besides after the time it takes to decide to let fly Mrs TnH normally had enough anyway :P It is normally best for us to chill, put the air con on, and go for the hug...
As for multiples they are possible without much effort, but the first normally the best
Whatever works for you...
As for multiples they are possible without much effort, but the first normally the best
Whatever works for you... 
Sexlightened
Takes about three days 
Personally I can honestly say it depends entirely on who you are with and the circumstances you are under. I have a bit of a thing for older women (If the name didn't give that away) I found that my recovery time with her was about 5-10 minutes. I think as I siad it depends on how fit you are and how turned on you are.. Just my twopennethworth.
Sean
Sean
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'how long is a piece of string' I hear you cry!!!
You lot talking about me again???????????
My piece of string is 12" when measured from my arse and continues to surprise me even after 40 odd years!
In a very sensual 3some last year with Wilma and another woman I managed 7 times in a night and some instant recoveries (within 10 mins!). At the last party I jumped off the bed to grab a durex - stepped on a bloody sharp heel of a woman's stiletto and turned my ankle over - next thing I looked down and I had lost my erection.
Looked everywhere for it and never found it again that night - pure embarrasment for me and a very understanding partner! Where is that woman?
You never can tell!
Fred
Richard got quite a legendary reputation back where we used to live for being able to satisfy three women at once in one session.
Of course, despite his athletic pumping and staying power, impressive by any standards,
there are two tricks to this:
1. don't cum
2. the women are also pleasuring each other.
To address 2 first - while he's with one girl, I'm with the other, then when he's with me they are together, so the girls are making each other cum.
After about 3 or 4 orgasms each, Richard still hasn't cum.
So when it comes to round 2, after a break, he just "inflates" again, and we all go for it.
So at the end of the evening, he'll cum, so he's really only "done it" once.
Our first night together we did it 5 times, and I told all my friends about this incredible 5 times a night guy.
It wasn't until much later that I realised he only actually does it once.
His trick is staying hard and not cumming until I'M ready.
Both impressive and considerate.
Obviously I offer his services to my friends - hey what are friends for after all?
As for the usual problem of guys coming and not being ready again by the time you are - have more than one guy - 2, 3 or even 4. Then when one is "done", move onto the next.
Couldn't be easier!
Rachel
Of course, despite his athletic pumping and staying power, impressive by any standards,
there are two tricks to this:
1. don't cum
2. the women are also pleasuring each other.
To address 2 first - while he's with one girl, I'm with the other, then when he's with me they are together, so the girls are making each other cum.
After about 3 or 4 orgasms each, Richard still hasn't cum.
So when it comes to round 2, after a break, he just "inflates" again, and we all go for it.
So at the end of the evening, he'll cum, so he's really only "done it" once.
Our first night together we did it 5 times, and I told all my friends about this incredible 5 times a night guy.
It wasn't until much later that I realised he only actually does it once.
His trick is staying hard and not cumming until I'M ready.
Both impressive and considerate.
Obviously I offer his services to my friends - hey what are friends for after all?
As for the usual problem of guys coming and not being ready again by the time you are - have more than one guy - 2, 3 or even 4. Then when one is "done", move onto the next.
Couldn't be easier!
Rachel
Sex God
Quote by Fred
Looked everywhere for it and never found it . . .
ha haaaa so that's where you've been? i trust it's all in fully working order! good to see you back too! you stopping for a bit?
n ;-)
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ha haaaa so that's where you've been? i trust it's all in fully working order! good to see you back too! you stopping for a bit?
n ;-)
Longer than my erection at the last part - that's for sure!
BTW - to qualify the 7 times in a night - that was 7 orgasms for me - I have not got the willpower to make my arse go the opposite way when my eyes cross and I start to resemble Goofy!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:Fred
Hello Susie here (lucky girl that i am),
I didn't know if it was just me and my prior experience but I have to say - Paul regains his hard-on almost instantaniously the majority of the time. It's great for me because he can keep going for as long as I want him to. I have NEVER known a man who can orgasm and recover so rapidly and I have seen the evidence not just felt it! Think this is why Paul was driven to ask the question coz I've gone on and on about it since we first met and I think he wants to suss out how "normal" he is.
Anyway, just thought I would have my say.
Susie
I didn't know if it was just me and my prior experience but I have to say - Paul regains his hard-on almost instantaniously the majority of the time. It's great for me because he can keep going for as long as I want him to. I have NEVER known a man who can orgasm and recover so rapidly and I have seen the evidence not just felt it! Think this is why Paul was driven to ask the question coz I've gone on and on about it since we first met and I think he wants to suss out how "normal" he is.
Anyway, just thought I would have my say.
Susie
It also depends on how long the sex lasts, as in the act, of its the average of the supossed timing of a few minutes then cum, then he should recover quite quickly. If he is banging away for half an hour or an hour then it takes longer to recover and during that time the girl may have cum many a time and she may be done by the time he has cum esp if the foreplay before hand was another half hour or hour. There is also the intensity of the mans orgasm to consider aswell, if he only spurts out a quick spurt or does he cum like a water fountain and in doing so drains himself. As said before a lot also depends on how turned on both partners are and in some cases where you are having it, be it at home or outside where time may become an issue but the excitement may make it more of a turn on.
Tracy and Richard
Tracy and Richard
Orgasminator
theres no real need to stop unless you want to, if your prepared to fuck through the cheese grater syndrome for five or so mins and you are turned on by the situation you can then enter the numb but ok stage before the back to wheyhe bit before you came, its easy when you know what to expect.
xx
xx
varies depending on the woman/situation. Usually if she wants to carry on then i'm able to just keep going. Fav time was on a beach in Fiji, she came 3 times and me twice without going limp. I think the key is not to stop, once you lay back and relax then that's it and a few mins maybe needed but if you keep going should be ok. suppose everyone's different though.
Sex God
Recovery time? I wish!
(Feeling pleasantly worn out today
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(Feeling pleasantly worn out today
) Never thought about it before.
If I'm alone with my wife, nearly an hour.
The two of us in the car or the truck, about half an hour.
If we're with another guy having a threesome, about 20 minutes.
If we're having a threesome with another woman, about the same.
If we're outdoors with or without others, maybe only 15 minutes.
The same if I'm watching her and being ...er looked after by another woman.
Last weekend 14 orgasms, since then one, rather miserable, sensation.
Crikey. What does this signify?
If I'm alone with my wife, nearly an hour.
The two of us in the car or the truck, about half an hour.
If we're with another guy having a threesome, about 20 minutes.
If we're having a threesome with another woman, about the same.
If we're outdoors with or without others, maybe only 15 minutes.
The same if I'm watching her and being ...er looked after by another woman.
Last weekend 14 orgasms, since then one, rather miserable, sensation.
Crikey. What does this signify?
Sex God
i have to say.. i dont agree with all this "recovery time" melarky.. you load of namby pambies.. just "splint them up".. and get on with it!
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i have to say.. i dont agree with all this "recovery time" melarky.. you load of namby pambies.. just "splint them up".. and get on with it!
F*ck - that's where I have been going wrong..................
........... just off to the garage to get some wood (play on words that one)
Paul
