Further to the thread about heroes where most people thought members of the armed forces were heroes, especially those serving overseas, I have just heard on the news about a soldier serving in Afghanistan who was refused a room in the Metro Hotel in Woking because he was a member of the armed forces!! He was home on leave and wanted to visit a friend who had been injured but when he produced his forces ID they refused him.
My thoughts? Utterly disgusting.
It is probably standard company policy about groups of squaddies because when they have stayed in that chain before they have made a mess. (I know this because I was one and we were banned from everywhere, because my 'colleagues' would routinely tear apart hotels/b+b's, pubs, clubs etc when drinking)
The policy may not have specified groups and just labelled all squaddies. The 'fluff' about him visiting an injured mate and being injured himself is just that:- 'fluff'.
Disgusting? perhaps, but so is the crap that a small but expensive minority of squaddies cause on payday. I could tell you some stories but my lantern is on the blink and my sandbag has emptied.
Splendid while I see the point of a ban on groups of guys generally, this person was in civvies, on his own and with a broken wrist. He asked to see a hotel manager and was refused as was asked to leave.
I for one will make a point of not using the metro hotels chain, nor the "big apple" entertainment centres run by the same company
So does this make it ok to blanket ban groups of people because a minority of that group have caused problems before? On that premis I could therefore ban any black people if some had caused trouble in the past? Or ban Americans cause I met a few once I didn't like? The list goes on. Oh and btw he wasn't injured ... he was home on leave in Wales and went to visit an injured mate in Woking (alone).
As a teacher I certainly don't want to be blamed or denied anything because of the actions of my colleagues.
In edit I didn't hear that he had a broken wrist, not that it makes a difference.
I am not saying that it is right. Who am I to judge? and likening it to racism and sexism and perhaps in even homophobia is accurate I suppose. But the fact that squaddies are not a 'minority' group makes them as open to discrimination as 'Bikers', young people and others who are routinely discriminated against by businesses. They are also not protected by the law. Perhaps they need to get together and campaign to be classed as a minority group?
Sorry, but I don't think there's enough information to go on here to have an opinion either way. I'm certainly not going to jump to the guy's defence just because he's a squaddie. They can be as much an arsehole as the rest of society. Likewise if there's a company policy against it then the manager's hands are tied. Either way it seems suspiciously like a story on a slow news day.
i think he had to show some for of identification as most hotels ask for this if you pay by cash and not credit card ... and the only for of id was his forces id card
The thing is, doesn’t hoteliers and Licensees have the right to refuse entry to anyone, if it was your granny that got refused entry would it have made the press?
Shops like Harrods refuse entry to people everyday just because of the way they dress.
Some swinging/clubs hotels refuse entry to single men, if one was in the armed forces would it be a bigger deal?
We love our armed forces and are proud of the job they do, however they shouldn't get preferential treatment over any other human being, and by that we mean he's probably not the first person to be refused entry to that hotel and no doubt wont be the last.
It’s the hotels loss, the press must be desperate for stories.
sorry Peanut, that quote was not mine, it was buckingfabe's...
the military have always been refused entry to places it isn't now
Ffs.. the para's are notoriously banned from all of the places they have ever been based/posted. Everywhere I was based and/or posted squaddies were not allowed to enter pubs/clubs/hotels etc. As a female I wondered how 'they' knew that I was a squaddie but now that I am older and wiser I can spot a squaddie (male or female) a mile away.
I live in Darlington and I know that squaddies from Catterick are briefed to go out on the town in small (less than 5) groups and to stay away from other groups of squaddies or they stay on the garrison because the staff know how to handle pissed up squaddies and the military police will police them tightly.
Don't be getting all sentimental about it on here. Have a look round your nearest garrison town on a friday/saturday night, especially after payday, and ask yourself how many of those squaddies who are 'only having a laugh' you want in your home in that state? Yes, I am tarring them all but I have seen the worst and best of them so have most local businesses.
I was in when the first gulf kicked off and my unit returned to an on camp 'do'. We had a beautiful singer and band as well as a stand up comedian (blue of course). Two of my male mates jumped on the stage and simulated sex (doggy style) in front of the singer, naked. They then pissed on the singer and the drum kit and one of them defecated on the stage. All of this to raucous laughter and clapping. It was so talked about that it made the papers... well, it made the Sun and I think that qualifies. It was standard practice to us but civvies went crazy.
get off your moral high horses and realise that these people work damn hard and play harder. I don't agree with their excesses but I can honestly say that I wouldn't want them in my business when they are 'unwinding'
Splendid is on the button with this without doubt. Our town used to quake when the Para's came through on masse on their way to or from somewhere else (with huge friggin headaches too i bet) but seriously they used to take the town apart pub by pub and by the time the county had assembled enough police to even attempt some sort of control the whirlwind had passed. The damage caused at times was in the least extreme and the behaviour likewise.
How about a dozen or more para's out of their box playing a game which involved them sh**ing on a table?? whats all that about eh? and in a restaurant part of a pub with kids present gross! Yeah, I know I was there, watching the parents trying to usher the kids out of the place, walking over carpets sounding like a shingle beach due to the amount of broken glass om it.
That doesn't happen nowadays why? because the pubs won't let them in. If the guy in th OP was genuine then thats a shame, of course it is but prevention is better and safer than cure. When the forces lads and lasses go out on a bender then the really only the forces should have to deal with it
It has gone from one soldier to many as lines have to be drawn somewhere and they are generally blanket rulings as they are easier to explain to staff.
By the way,the paper said it was a £60 a night budget when has 60 quid been budget?
Haven't they heard of the credit crunch?