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Why does it take...2 mins for a jam sandwich car .....to be called for 'back up' (from i'ts plain clothed colleague) ...when they saw a 'cple' (us) pull into Sandwell Valley (West Mids) last Sunday nite.....at about 11pm
yet it takes a jam sandwich..........
3 hours n 14 mins (to be precise)..when my partners brother was being kicked to shit by an 'anti-social neighbour' and 2 'henchmen'....... 3 weeks ago....or
approx 5 hours to get to pensioner's home after she was assaulted by a burglar (a lady from our estate)
or....
not far from Sandwell Valley at the moment....in areas such as Aston/Newtown/Handsworth (B'ham)......they are shooting eachother for fun.......with the underlying element ..drugs..such as 'crack/cocaine n heroin' being the cause.....yet....a response car is nowhere to be seen...when this happens !!!!
Thats because .....the 'real facist ...2faced cunts within this society'......would rather ....be 'pickin up 'easier targets'...like unarmed doggers and also take out their 'homophobic' ideologies on those guys who are doing nowt wrong down in The Valley ...Instead of dealing with the hard crime and also having to face the 'untrusting local communtiies'.... who've had to put up with the so called 'caring bobbies' and their 'racist' ideology...for years !!!!!!
u lot have been debatin all week about 'not trusting the 'authorities....such as 'media/police etc etc.........
Ask 'Sgt Mckee' ....WHY THE FUCK SHOULD WE LISTEN TO HIS SHITE. ???
horny_brum_cple wrote:
Ask 'Sgt Mckee' ....WHY THE FUCK SHOULD WE LISTEN TO HIS SHITE. ???

Why the whinge horny_brum_cple?
At least he has put forward some useful suggestions. If you have a problem in your area take it up with your local Chief Constable in person.
Policing policies differ around the country, many are driven by local polititians who like nothing more than to get themselves noticed by the press. Hence the number of policemen visiting dogging sites in various areas around the country.
The current Police Commissioner in the Met was, before his appointment, the best Chief Constable Northumbria ever had, and his policies, apparently, do not include the persuit of Doggers by his officers. If they were, Sgt Mckee would be hauled over the coals for sending that Email to Mark and probably demoted as well.
Seeing as Birmingham is well outside the Metropolitan area his policies have no effect where you live, so as I said, take it up with your own Chief Constable.
It would seem from your 'post' that there are a lot of crime problems where you live. If you get no response from your own Chief Constable then take your complaints to your own MP. With a General Election in the near future, he may get off his backside and put pressure onto the criminal elements by making complaints himself to the Chief Constable.
Harry0
Wonders .............'Who pulls your strings' HarryO ???
Fair play to ya m8...for 'outting' yaself....at least 'we know' 'whose side of the fence u sit on' !!!!!
PS...it wasn't a 'whinge'...it was an opposing view to his 'middle class 'we'll tell em one thing (cos they're so fucking thick to realise)' type of hypocritical attitude....however...WE'RE NOT THICK ...WE ARE FULLY CONSCIOUS AND AWAKE !!!!! .
We're sure the 'real crime' that we outlined.......happens everywhere throughout this country....(backtrack most of the forum posts in ere over the last 6 months n u'll see others opinions)..........YET........police are crawling everywhere on known dogging sites ....but....the reality is...that most of the real hard crime is going on in other areas.........while they patrol' n 'condemn' others for having a 'diverse' sexual attitude to
life.
Wonders If Mr Mckee would send his 'kind and caring' thoughts on 'doggers/dogging/swinging/gay sex/BDSM etc etc etc etc ........to The Sun and The NOTW and The Mirror/Guardian/Times etc etc etc...instead of emailing Mark ....which lets face it in 'media terms' .....only reaches....such a small minority within the country as a whole
horny_brum_cple wrote:
wonders .............'Who pulls your strings' HarryO ???
fair play to ya m8...for 'outting' yaself....at least 'we know' 'whose side of the fence u sit on' !!!!!

No one pulls my strings horny_brum_cple.I'm my own man, and I make my own decisions.
If 'outing myself' means, do I support the rule of Law and Order? the answer is: Yes I do, but not necessarily the way all the laws are enforced.
Having a moan in the pages of The Forum may make you feel better, but it won't do a thing for cutting crime in your area, you will have to take your moan to those who can do something about it.
In case your wondering I have been both Dogged and been a Dogger for over 30 years.
Harry0
I don't work with or for the police and never have - no-one is pulling my strings when I say that everything that Harry O has said is abolutely correct. Horny_bru_cple, I've no doubt that the problems in your area are very real and your account of them is accurate, and I'm sure that others in other parts of the country could account similar stories. However, these are issues to do with the constabularies concerned and it is no use attacking those constabularies that are pursuing positive methods of crime awareness and prevention that Sgt McKee is advocating. Similar methods have been tried with getting gay men to report anti-gay crimes in some parts of the country, and Sgt McKee's message sounds very similar to this. Despite the efforts some forces are making, as you say Horny_brum_cple, a lot leave a lot of be desired. If pressure is put on these forces from their superiors they may well be forced to act. Therefore, the best person to take your personal complaints to is your MP.
Please do not make personal attacks to people who ARE trying to make the situation better for all doggers - this can only be counter-productive.
Do u really think those in power ...listen to the voices of 'minorities' ????
we had an idea a fair few weeks ago.....when...we started to notice 'how the dogging scene' was being 'swamped'..........
The only ppl at this given moment within this country who have any 'credibility' within the 'swingscene'.......are....the ppl who got this site and the others such as 'Dirty Davids/Swing2US/ etc etc (to name the most famous..........because 'much respect to these ppl....who have 'outted their own' sexual diversity to 'all n sundry'...but also...make a nice bit of profit out of it...... (they might not make millinons etc etc...but lets face it.....Would u...within this capitalist system we live in.....do all the hard work it takes to get a decent website up n running......FOR NOWT ???)
SO...THUS...those webmaster/mistresses...we have mentioned along with other types of ppl 'within the 'scene'...like 'Steve Perry' (Bendover as we all know him)...Omar (the famous porn guy with the big cock) etc etc..............
Should now start gettin' together n making themselves 'heard' within the press...to at least 'speak out...for the minority of ppl...who they have 'lets face it....made 'quie a bit of bunce' out of...by 'sellin' their products' in wotever way they do.....whether movies that ppl buy..or websites that ppl 'pay to join' etc etc
harryO...u again in your response seem to think 'we' are 'moaning'....as stated in our second message 'Who's moaning' ??? .
Furthermore.....
U're response 'about u believing in law n order'..... was that a veiled attempt at asking us 'Do we believe in law and order' ???? Because ...like u...WE DO .....
However...we don't 'believe everything thats written by ppl like McKee because .....when u've grown up for 30 ish years of seeing 'police' tactics.....ermmmm evidence....ooo quick..we need evidence to back this up...........Miners strikes '84/85/86.....race riots..81/82 instigated by poverty/deprivation such as NF/BNP/police.. ....hippy/travellers/communes (including mothers holding babies in their arms) battered' with trunceons...gays ostracized since the year 'dot' (fairplay to george micheal.....at least he turned the table on the 'hypocritics' ) All .skinheads (of which i...John... am one myself) being portrayed in the mass media as 'thugs n yobs' when actually it was the NF /BNP that took the 'skinhead image' n turned it around....lets face it 'the majority of skinheads are 'anti-racist' with their musical roots being firmly embedded in a cross between 'white working class'...and influenced by jamaican black reggae' ....or that all irish ppl are cunts/terrorists etc etc...when actually the real 'terrorist' is the Brit system which has systematically ' n pillaged' every possible 'capitalist resouce' from India (tea/spices/silks) and Pakistan....South America etc...(coffee bean)...South Africa (diamonds)...Wales (coal)....Scotland/Ireland/Australia/New Zealand (cattle/farming) ............also not really personally a fan of the USA system....but at least 'fair play' to those 200 ish years ago...Who fought back n managed to gain back the 'independence' of their own country !!!
So HarryO
U see the evidence before u above....
Do u still think we're' moaning'...or maybe do u now see....it was a 'retaliation on Mckees system and the ppl/peers...he represents ?????
Would u...within this capitalist system we live in.....do all the hard work it takes to get a decent website up n running......FOR NOWT ???)

horny_brum_cple - You mean like this one rolleyes :roll: lol :lol: :lol:
with 'respect' to the naivity of the 'like this one' post........
we have no axe to grind with u or anyother genuine swinger/dogger etc etc on the site.........
but please........
don't evr think...this site isn't making sumone cash......
Most of what you are saying is incoherent and a lot of it is nonsense.
If you think someone is making money out of you (and I fail to see how cos no-one's ever asked me for a red cent on this site) then you are free to leave and take your no-fee somewhere else. Easy!
Otherwise, do as Bluexxx suggested and keep your personal abusive remarks to yourself or express them via PM. All opionions are welcome here if expressed in a tone of debate and interest - abuse is not allowed.

mad :x
Mark wrote:
And as for your posts towards harry0, I will just say that he's one of the good guys, so please, don't take it out on him if you're pissed off and angry about your local policing situation. He knows what he's talking about - I'm sure he won't mind me saying that he's been round the block a few times himself

Not quite sure what your referring to there Mark. Was it to the years I spent on night shift shaking door handles? sad Or that occasion when I had a meeting with a single female, who had not previously met me, and who ran for her life when she saw my face. rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Harry0
Quote by horny_brum_cple
'real facist ...2faced cunts within this society'
Ask 'Sgt Mckee' ....WHY THE FUCK SHOULD WE LISTEN TO HIS SHITE. ???

Well, thanks a bunch Horny. We get one Policeman trying to buck the system, and do exactly what doggers have asked for: Positive policing of dogging sites which focusses on the real crime in that area rather than harassing doggers.
Just once someone has the bottle to stick his head above the parapet and put some effort in to try and show that there is another way to keep dogging sites safe
And what do you do? You tell him not to bother because no matter what he does, and no matter how hard he tries, he will always be a fascist bully boy to you, and you will always treat him that way.
I think they call that 'Expectation Theory' . You expect all police officers to be fascist, so you treat them that way, and lo and behold, they become exactly how you expect them to be.
Now every Police Officer that has been tasked with finding a way to police dogging sites will look at what you have written and decide "Why should I stick my neck out if it is going to result in that sort of abuse?"
rolleyes :roll:
Nobody is born a policeman, nor do people join the police service because of the miners strike, poll tax riots, race riots or any of the other situations you have mentioned.
So what turns an enthusiastic 18 year old lad who wants to serve the community into the type of cynical, fascist you percieve???
Do u still think we're' moaning'...or maybe do u now see....it was a 'retaliation on Mckees system and the ppl/peers...he represents ?????

That would do it - From the moment you put on the uniform, no matter what type of person you are, narrow minded, blinkered, prejudiced, stuck-in-the-past bigots immediately lable you, and refuse any efforts you make to change.
Kat
we asked /stated in...this forum postin' earlier.......
Would Sgt Mckee..now .'stick his head above the parapet' and go to the big 'journo's and point out his very 'liberal' views????? (Maybe this is sumthing mark could ask him...as mark is a representitive of us as a minority...)
if he would...then at least us sexually diverse human beings may get a bit of decent publicity...however...I'm (as this is john typing...fayes nipped down the chippy LOL) sure he would be 'hauled over the coals n lose his job !!!!
Now we're sorry our 'first posting has upset some of u...cos u think..." U have good relations with cops"......but....from where we sit (along with a good silent majority of genuine swingers/doggers etc or anyother type of minority thats been 'stereotyped)
WE DON'T !!!!
Mark 'posted' the original statement...to get other ppl's opinions....we gave u ours !!!!
We're sorry (or maybe dismayed) if some of u...actuallyfeel.....One email/fone chat to a 'minority swing website is 'sticking a head above the parapet'...but....WE DON'T...sticking his head above the parapet...would be to go public himself to the 'mass press' ...along with...all the aforementioned ppl who have more power at their disposal (webmasters/mistresses who have used the media to 'promote themselves in the past...)..........There's the solution
PS We didn't 'attack' HarryO....I'm sure (if u backtrack the thread) we 'attacked' Mckees statement that Mark posted........the next posting was harryO...attacking our opinion...which is cool...but do not ever think...we will not engage in a debate.....just cos we don't agree with your methods of staying on the right side of the force !!!!
Wots the point in his gestures....if he ain't prepared to go the whole hog........then he may get repsect from us minority swingers etc etc...however...he'd be looking for a new job we feel
Come on - take some time to think about it, what are the press going to be able to do more with?
1) A letter to the editor from a police sergeant explaining police priorities in dogging locations
2) A posting on Swinging Heaven from a police sergeant explaining police priorities in dogging locations
The press would LOVE to be able to manipulate this to put it on the front page.
You are choosing to ignore what was posted because it does not fit with your personal view of police officers, you know NOTHING about this particular police officer other than what was posted on this site.
Every other judgement you have made about him is based on your preconceptions and prejudiced views about the police force. Show me one shred of evidence that proves that as an individual, this particular police officer is the way you describe him.
You talk about minorities and stereotyping, yet fail to acknowledge that this is exactly what you are doing.
we're actually more concerned as swingers...that a web'master' seems to be sittin having 'tiffin' with one of those...
Who he or his peers chose to warn us all about a few days ago that 'the police were watching us in the forums'........see another thread/sticky......
and what makes this more of a fuckin joke..
a lot of the very same...we're slagging the cops off themselves !!!!!! Fuckin 'ell....we only outlined the hypocritical force earlier......but now ...when examined more carefully.....the website is being swamped (run by) 'hypocrits ' or is it ????
u are correct about us 'stereotyping' the cop in question....but if he wants to break this image he should put his head above the big parapet........as mentioned earlier...
and for the previous person...who told us basically to 'Fuck off elsewhere'......we were actually invited to this website by the ppl who control it via what is known as a 'SPAM email'............now...it seems just becos we gave our opinion ...which is different to them..........they want us FUCK OFF !!!!!
Again - you take what has happened and try and fit it into your own private view of the world. Because others do not feel as I do - you lump us all together and call us hypocritical to try and add some sort of credibility to your ranting.
In every post I have ever made about police monitoring of this site, I have said 'The police monitor sites like this in order to deal with more serious crimes - not to hound swingers and doggers' - which is co-incidently exactly what this post said.
You asked why we should listen to what he says
The answer is, you should be treating everyone as an individual, encourage those who you feel display a positive attitude, and educate those who you think do not. This post was a positive step forward - and you sought to rubbish it straight away. If you do not allow things to change - then they will remain exactly as they are now. Your attitude does nothing to reduce the amount of harrasment doggers receive - it reduces the options.
I am saying - if you stop moaning about all the wrongs of the past and judge this post on it's merits perhaps you may see the postive side of it.
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If you think someone is making money out of you (and I fail to see how cos no-one's ever asked me for a red cent on this site) then you are free to leave and take your no-fee somewhere else. Easy mad :x


This is what I said - and it is a million miles from 'fuck off' - not a term I bandy about generally
:x :x :x
many apologies for the post we've just put in the dogging forum....but it seems ...u moved the thread into here...which is cool...but failed to let us know.......
thus...we presumed u'd deleted the whole thread
xxx
And while I'm at it - this site DOES NOT send out any spam email - ever. The only email sent is in response to those who report abuse or to those to abuse the ad system.
mad :x :x
Quote by horny_brum_cple
many apologies for the post we've just put in the dogging forum....but it seems ...u moved the thread into here...which is cool...but failed to let us know.......
thus...we presumed u'd deleted the whole thread
xxx

I have now deleted the 'raw nerve' posting.
mad :x
FFS Mark...c'mon mate...we've been debatin this alll fuckin day n u can't see ..how many times do we have to type....we are in a minority...who have no power....(due to employment issues etc etc being raised)...however...those ppl that do have the power...who we outlined earlier....shall we name again ...webmasters/mistresses of all the 'most popular sites' (prob your 're one of them)...plus a few of the 'mior porn celebs'.....CAN ONLY DO IT !!!!
....much respect to yourself .cos they or you have 'outted ' their/your own sexual diversity to the world ages ago...but...in doing so..have made a bunce !!!
who have we annoyed ?????
the only person/ppls we thought we'd 'annoy' by our original posting...was the boys in blue who have their types of system....also...maybe...members of the gutter press.....who u lot we're SLAGGING OFF...just a cple of days ago...when the Stan story hit headlines........
Oh what a difference a day makes
we still stand by everything posted...as i'm sure u lot will also....but don't ever try n paint yourselves 'whiter than white' (pardon the pun)....becoause u run websites and have the power over those who use your website........
horny_brum_cple:

rolleyes
ManAlive - you get the first 'Jags Snog' of the weekend ---oops, sorry, the SECOND Jags Snog of the weekend!
lol :lol:
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ManAlive - you get the first 'Jags Snog' of the weekend ---oops, sorry, the SECOND Jags Snog of the weekend!
lol :lol:

woohoo! :taz:
NO tongues though :shock:
lol :lol: :lol:
jags ...we'd never heard of swingheaven until a spam from the site came thru ...now...yes..we were slightly annyed with one of the other 2 sites we use ..as ....we got a feeling one of them may have 'swapped/sold'...whatever...our email address.......
we then came here...n was very very chuffed to find a site with 'intellectuals' not only ruuning it...but also posting...however.......lets be frank ere.......
we've read with interest in the last cple of months....many of the 'sarcastic responses' some of the 'master/mistresses' (yourself being one)...........along with some of those that we have realised are in the 'clique'............to other postings.........it seems some of those 'intellectual' ppl....are all too ready to 'pigeon hole' n label them as being 'wasters etc......
now....this thread set out to put a point of view opposing the boys in blue n their supposed... light hearted .'geture'........not a 'divide and rule' thread....wghcih u lot seem to have done with it..........
As said earlier....we wont FUCK OFF el;sewhere as ...the site...generally is cool.....but....don't PAINT YOURSELVES TO BE ABOVE ANY OF US 'MERE MORTALS WHO HAVEN'T THE POWER..OR HAVEN'T OUTTED OURSELVES DUE TO JOBS /FAMILIES ETC ETC
hbc
You really have a lot of hatred inside you.
You obviously have not taken much notice of what is said by the the Regs & mods on this site. This site is 'Free' ie 'No-Charge'.
Has anyone asked for your credit card details?
Is your screen inundated with pop-ups when you log on the site?
It is overly populated with ads?
The answers are no, no, no!!!!!!
So, as you say you are not thick - just how on earth do you think a fortune is being made from the site?
Mark and the Mods spend hours and hours of their own time ensuring that this is a good safe site - show them respect and gratitude - don't throw insults! But as Jags said - if you don't like it you are free to find an alternative. I re-read all the posts in this thread again - Jags did not tell you to F**k Off! So STOP rewording other peoples posts to suit your intolerant atttitude.
Also - you should welcome anyone who wishes to make swinging/dogging safer - whether they are members of the police force or not. Everything has to start somewhere.
I do understand about your response time statistics - on this I do tend to agree to a degree, however unless you were fully aware of the police workload at the time of each of these events, these stats cannot be verified.
Please take some time to read and understand what is being said instead of flying off half cocked.
Alex
To Mark and the Mods - Thank you for the best site around!
MARK....THEN WHY DID U POST IT...DID U THINK NO-ONE WOULD REACT TO IT ????
PLEASE M8...N THIS IS NOT MEANT TO BE SARCASTIC OR HAVING A POP.......WE ALWAYS THOUGHT U WERE INTELLIGENT...ESPECIALLY AS U ARE PRETTY GOOD WITH TECHNO STUFF ETC ETC......
SO COME ON M8...AT LEAST HAVE A THE BOL-- LOCKS TO ADMIT THAT 'SUBCONSCIOUSLY U'RE POSTING WAS MEANT TO GAIN A REACTION FROM US 'MORTALS' DOWN ERE...WHO KNOW FUCK ALL ABOUT 'TECHNO' WEBSITES ...
HOWEVER ...RESPECT TO U M8...COS IN A WAY WE ARE CHUFFED U POSTED IT...AS IT'S BETTER TO KNOW...THAT U 'HAVE TIFFIN WITH THE ENEMY'.....THAN NOT TO KNOW.........AND WONDER...'WHERE BIG BROTHER' HAVE GOT OUR EMAIL ADDYS AND INSIGHTS INTO OUR PRIVATE LIVES ...FROM !!!!
NOW...U CAN TAKE IT PERSONALLY IF U WANT...THAT STATEMENT COULD BE TAKEN AS AN ACCUSATION............U CAN TAKE IT 'ANY WAY U SEEM FIT'...........BUT FOR FUCK SAKE........
IF U HAVE 'CONTACT' WITH 1 (OR MAYBE MORE) .............THEN WE FEEL.....THAT GENUINE SWINGERS WITHIN U'RE WEBSITE WHO HAVE NOT 'OUTTED THEMSELVES ' SEXUALLY TO THE WORLD................HAVE A LOT TO FEAR FROM BEING MEMBERS OF THIS SITE .......
WOTS THE POINT NOW THO OF US ..LEAVING THIS SITE...TO 'PROTECT OUR SEXUAL DIVERSITY'.......WHEN U HAVE TIFFIN WITH THE PPL...WE ARE ACTUALLY TRYING TO AVOID AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME...COS ALL THEY EVER SEM TO WANT TO DO...IS PULL OUR CAR OVER...HASSLE US...N USE THE EXCUSE THAT 'THEY ARE CHECKING DOCUMENTS ETC ETC..BALD TYRES.....WHEN LETS FACE IT M8....WE ALL FUCKIN KNOW THAT...THEY ARE 'TAKING NOTE OF OUR REG...N MAKING SURE ...IT DOESN'T ...DRIVE AND BE SEEN TOO MUCH...DOWN THE VALLEY OR ANYOTHER PLACE WE MAY VISIT !!!!
YOUR OPINION PLEASE|??????
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FFS Mark...c'mon mate...we've been debatin this alll fuckin day n u can't see ..how many times do we have to type....we are in a minority...who have no power....(due to employment issues etc etc being raised)...however...those ppl that do have the power...who we outlined earlier....shall we name again ...webmasters/mistresses of all the 'most popular sites' (prob your 're one of them)...plus a few of the 'mior porn celebs'.....CAN ONLY DO IT !!!!
....much respect to yourself .cos they or you have 'outted ' their/your own sexual diversity to the world ages ago...but...in doing so..have made a bunce !!!
who have we annoyed ?????

You seem to have annoyed a lot of people, and what makes things worse is that you seem to believe that you can come here and shoot your mouth off at everyone, but no-one is allowed to argue back. And that's hypocritical
You're also making less and less sense and you also have nothing to back up what you're saying, which therefore makes what you're saying an OPINIONnot a FACT. You also can't seem to understand that the idea of diversity means different opinions. Instead all you want is for everyone to agree with you, and when they don't, you rage and swear at them.
Kudos to McKee for what he's done. Kudos to Mark for posting it.
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I am not going to be put in the same pigeon hole as other desperate webmasters who want you to give them some money and are prepared to spam to do it. That isn't what I'm about, as I thought was obvious...

Blatantly obvious to me Mark!