No I have just discovered a wright person and it was the wrong time. At first because it was complicated by others being around. Then it was just too late. I am hoping for another chance.
So who knows?
Travis
Time is everything.
Time places you in a circumstance
Time adds complications
Time brings with it it's own set of responcibilities.
Time is a tide, with ebb and flow
We cannot ignore Time and all it's attendant attachements.
with Time there comes consequence
there may never be a "right" Time, but Time cannot be wrong.
Time is a drop... a river... an ocean.
lp
...as for people... !!!
lp
yep....totally agree with that Nola
Picture the students who meet at uni. They've slogged for years to get to that point- and their career choices are set to take them in different directions.
That's just the blindingly obvious one. Most of us will encounter the right person at the wrong time at some point in our lives.
I appreciate that time is complicated etc etc... but does it not mean that if the right person/wrong time thing is right, then you spend your whole life regretting that missed chance or that wrong moment?
I think there can be different people that seem right at that time. But you don't know if they are right unless you try, what you then might find out is they were not right at all. A couple of saying is you never know someone unless you try, and the grass always looks greener on the other side.
Nobody I believe is perfect for us in every way, we all have faults and our own insecurities, what becomes perfect is accepting this.
I have been with my hubby for 30 years, he isnt perfect but neither am I, but we wouldn't change each other for anything else, his strenghts are my weakness and vice versa. We fit together like a pair of gloves.
Ok, I'm going to be a bugger here.
I don't for one moment believe there is a wrong time. I will explain what I mean.
If the person you meet is the right one for you, then you will both make sure that it is the right time. Time is an irrelevance.
What IS a problem, is circumstances and if they conspire against you, then they can be difficult or impossible to overcome.
If someone says it was the right person, wrong time. I believe they are saying that it is the right person, but only for now and under these conditions. This is a temporary thing. It has no lasting future.
If it is the right person, no conditions need be set. They will be mutually sustainable entierly dependent of time constraints. Circumstances may dictate it is difficult to maintain a relationship, but if it is the right person then they will work towards changing these circumstances to ensure they become favourable.
If they don't, then they are not the right person for you. Simply because they are not willing to make the commitment and sacrifices you are willing to make.
Right person, wrong time is a con. It is a cop out. They are not saying you are the right person for them, what they are saying is that you are the right person for them at this time and given these circumstances. Change the circumstances, and your position becomes untenable.
I didn't mean that to sound harsh. Time is never a problem, circumstances are. If someone has the time and circumstances in their favour and still will not commit to even attempting a long term future, then they are definitely not the right person, regardless of what your heart or head is telling you.
The right person will want you whatever... not whenever.
