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Self Pitying Whine ~ I'm sorry but if I tell you all at once
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Sex God
((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) from me too chick, for both of you.
If you need me just shout. :rose:
Gem. x
If you need me just shout. :rose:
Gem. x
Sounds like your having an awful time .
On a practical note, when you next talk to the housing department, why not at least threaten them with your local or even national press? You have a brilliant story there especially at this time of the political calendar. Even if you dont follow your threat through I m sure just mentioning the papers will get things moving.
Also why not contact your local MP, this is the time when s/he will be wsanting a case like yours so s/he can be seen to be capable of doing something?
Anywasy good luck
On a practical note, when you next talk to the housing department, why not at least threaten them with your local or even national press? You have a brilliant story there especially at this time of the political calendar. Even if you dont follow your threat through I m sure just mentioning the papers will get things moving.
Also why not contact your local MP, this is the time when s/he will be wsanting a case like yours so s/he can be seen to be capable of doing something?
Anywasy good luck
Wow, :therethere: everything that has been said and then some.
You might be amazed at how quick both the council and the social jump when you mention that you have written to your MP, in our experience it scares the crap out of them, and all of a sudden, all of the things that were totally impossible yesterday, suddenly get done today, try it, you have nothing to loose, and another tip, put everything in writing, and at the bottom put:
Cc The Right Honourable (insert your mp here) MP
Legal dpt. C.A.B.
The editor (insert publication of your choice)
Now sit back and watch the buggers jump.
You have all our commiserations from the bottom of our hearts, the only heartening thing we can say is that we have been in a very similar position, and this too shall pass, trust.
Quote by foxylady 123
Sounds like your having an awful time .
On a practical note, when you next talk to the housing department, why not at least threaten them with your local or even national press? You have a brilliant story there especially at this time of the political calendar. Even if you dont follow your threat through I m sure just mentioning the papers will get things moving.
Also why not contact your local MP, this is the time when s/he will be wsanting a case like yours so s/he can be seen to be capable of doing something?
Anywasy good luck
You might be amazed at how quick both the council and the social jump when you mention that you have written to your MP, in our experience it scares the crap out of them, and all of a sudden, all of the things that were totally impossible yesterday, suddenly get done today, try it, you have nothing to loose, and another tip, put everything in writing, and at the bottom put:
Cc The Right Honourable (insert your mp here) MP
Legal dpt. C.A.B.
The editor (insert publication of your choice)
Now sit back and watch the buggers jump.
You have all our commiserations from the bottom of our hearts, the only heartening thing we can say is that we have been in a very similar position, and this too shall pass, trust.
Quote by Katien_n_John
Wow, :therethere: everything that has been said and then some.
Sounds like your having an awful time .
On a practical note, when you next talk to the housing department, why not at least threaten them with your local or even national press? You have a brilliant story there especially at this time of the political calendar. Even if you dont follow your threat through I m sure just mentioning the papers will get things moving.
Also why not contact your local MP, this is the time when s/he will be wsanting a case like yours so s/he can be seen to be capable of doing something?
Anywasy good luck
You might be amazed at how quick both the council and the social jump when you mention that you have written to your MP, in our experience it scares the crap out of them, and all of a sudden, all of the things that were totally impossible yesterday, suddenly get done today, try it, you have nothing to loose, and another tip, put everything in writing, and at the bottom put:
Cc The Right Honourable (insert your mp here) MP
Legal dpt. C.A.B.
The editor (insert publication of your choice)
Now sit back and watch the buggers jump.
You have all our commiserations from the bottom of our hearts, the only heartening thing we can say is that we have been in a very similar position, and this too shall pass, trust.
I would echo the above, and always, always keep copy letters!!
Sex God
Sorry to hear about all your problems Calaista, heres hoping that things get better.
John
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Sex God
We feel for ya hun , we have had a year of it as well . All we can say is , without wishing to appear glib and simultaneously injecting some light heartedness - chin up at least you have great tits !
S n G xxxxx
S n G xxxxx
Thanks to everyone 
for all the coments on here and all the comments in my PM box / MSN etc. It is much appreciated.
We had the dreaded phone call this morning that said ... pack, you have no choice and as soon as we find you a house you'll be out .. which is easier said than done because when you plan to move you arrange boxes etc and obviously we can't/haven't got anything :shock: And due to the situation can't afford to hire anything unless the council sort it out!
We are definitely going to lose phone/internet access which is going to absolutely kill me :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: and at a time when I really need the support and distraction! I'll happily give out my mobile to anyone who wants to keep in touch as after today I guess we'll not be around a great deal !
to everyone who has been fab :) to us
C x & M x
for all the coments on here and all the comments in my PM box / MSN etc. It is much appreciated.We had the dreaded phone call this morning that said ... pack, you have no choice and as soon as we find you a house you'll be out .. which is easier said than done because when you plan to move you arrange boxes etc and obviously we can't/haven't got anything :shock: And due to the situation can't afford to hire anything unless the council sort it out!
We are definitely going to lose phone/internet access which is going to absolutely kill me :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: and at a time when I really need the support and distraction! I'll happily give out my mobile to anyone who wants to keep in touch as after today I guess we'll not be around a great deal !
to everyone who has been fab :) to us C x & M x
Sex God
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We had the dreaded phone call this morning that said ... pack, you have no choice and as soon as we find you a house you'll be out .. which is easier said than done because when you plan to move you arrange boxes etc and obviously we can't/haven't got anything :shock: And due to the situation can't afford to hire anything unless the council sort it out!
C x & M x
phone round all the supermarkets in your area, tell them you need big boxes urgently.. then go round them all tomorrow and collect what they have saved you from this evenings deliveries.
prob no point just turning up on spec - as they will have probably destroyed todays boxes already.
also..... surely the coucil have to be responsible for any costs incured if you are moving because of them!!!!!!!!!!!
if you have no money. .... then its not possible for you to pay out these fees, the council cant do the work with your stuff in the house... so they would have to go to the expense of moving it anyway - may as well be to your new place.
i would also call social services........ even if they cant do anything themselves to help you - they normally know of any charities help groups who can, someone might be a local volunteer with a massive van - worth a try hun.
xxxxx
Sex God
Have only just seen this thread - all the best to you and Morbius, Calista....
Mike.
Mike.
Sex God
another thing, i have a friend who went through a similar experience.
she was not elligable for state benifits - but that did not exclude her from being able to apply for a loan from them.
apparently anyone on a low income is (or was then) allowed to apply for a interest free loan to cover emergency situations.
might be worth looking into.
x
she was not elligable for state benifits - but that did not exclude her from being able to apply for a loan from them.
apparently anyone on a low income is (or was then) allowed to apply for a interest free loan to cover emergency situations.
might be worth looking into.
x
