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now i'm quessing they would be in and out b4 you can blink
Well IMO i would say they were being selfish if they didnt attempt to satisfy your needs even quickly :lol:
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Quote by bisto kid
now i'm quessing they would be in and out b4 you can blink
Well IMO i would say they were being selfish if they didnt attempt to satisfy your needs even quickly :lol:
i agree but.....and i know i am going to cause a riot here but here goes lol
to me there are 2 types of people who use this site there are 'swingers' and people who use it as a 'quick shag site' and i have spoken to and met both types, now swingers will as a rule want to get to know you, be your friend and do as a rule care about each other and then theirs your married and cheating etc type, who use the site as a means to just get their leg over and i have found such types do not care about anything but having a shag and rushing off home b4 wifey misses them. your needs don't even come into it.
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Quote by MikeC
hun your also great attending to me crying
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MikeC
But we really needed that chat
I am here for more chat anytime xx
H, red x
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Quote by naughtynymphos1
now i'm quessing they would be in and out b4 you can blink
Well IMO i would say they were being selfish if they didnt attempt to satisfy your needs even quickly :lol:
i agree but.....and i know i am going to cause a riot here but here goes lol
to me there are 2 types of people who use this site there are 'swingers' and people who use it as a 'quick shag site' and i have spoken to and met both types, now swingers will as a rule want to get to know you, be your friend and do as a rule care about each other and then theirs your married and cheating etc type, who use the site as a means to just get their leg over and i have found such types do not care about anything but having a shag and rushing off home b4 wifey misses them.
:thumbup:
I agree.
The trick to choosing guys for successful meets is to find the real swingers and leave the quick shag types to have a wank in the privacy of their own sad lives
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Quote by bluexxx
now i'm quessing they would be in and out b4 you can blink
Well IMO i would say they were being selfish if they didnt attempt to satisfy your needs even quickly :lol:
i agree but.....and i know i am going to cause a riot here but here goes lol
to me there are 2 types of people who use this site there are 'swingers' and people who use it as a 'quick shag site' and i have spoken to and met both types, now swingers will as a rule want to get to know you, be your friend and do as a rule care about each other and then theirs your married and cheating etc type, who use the site as a means to just get their leg over and i have found such types do not care about anything but having a shag and rushing off home b4 wifey misses them.
:thumbup:
I agree.
The trick to choosing guys for successful meets is to find the real swingers and leave the quick shag types to have a wank in the privacy of their own sad lives
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
thats why i not meet married and cheating, i just say its cause i care about their mrs's feelings to sound nice :lol2:
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i always have a quick shag...30 secs then shoot....it took al day to get those pics done 
MikeC
MikeC
personally, if the woman does not have an orgasm, then i can be more dissapointed than she is, it has only happened once to me i'm glad to say, and there were mittigating circumstances (she was suffering from a bad head cold), but i felt so bad and guilty.
luckily we did make ammends when she recovered.
so i suppose i'm definatly not selfish, unless only in the way that i do like the woman to orgasm. i'm only happy if she goes away with the biggest smile, and a funny walk. :twisted:
luckily we did make ammends when she recovered.
so i suppose i'm definatly not selfish, unless only in the way that i do like the woman to orgasm. i'm only happy if she goes away with the biggest smile, and a funny walk. :twisted:
What a toughy!
Totally depends on the situation in my book.
Sometimes women want to come really quickly and, just like us blokes, nod off afterwards. Sometimes though they cum and then want another one, which is usually bigger than the first, in which case its the woman being selfish(and bloody lucky too, how many blokes out there can, truly, have more than one orgasm?)
Other time they want the slow build up, meal, wine, 69, shag (make love, eughhh) with a mutual climatic ending (too many Mills and Boons I think myself!)
Anyway thats my experience(s)
Totally depends on the situation in my book.
Sometimes women want to come really quickly and, just like us blokes, nod off afterwards. Sometimes though they cum and then want another one, which is usually bigger than the first, in which case its the woman being selfish(and bloody lucky too, how many blokes out there can, truly, have more than one orgasm?)
Other time they want the slow build up, meal, wine, 69, shag (make love, eughhh) with a mutual climatic ending (too many Mills and Boons I think myself!)
Anyway thats my experience(s)
Quote by goodporking
Totally depends on the situation in my book.
Totally agree, my orgasms vary so much. I can take a really long time to reach the point thoroughly enjoying myself along the way, other times I can orgasm almost immediately and then enjoy concentrating on pleasuring the other person. Also I find sometimes that I do not feel the need to reach orgasm at all & enjoy myself any way. Often these different scenarios depend on my mood at the time & also the situation.
As a busy mum I find that a quick shag results in either a quick orgasm or none at all, something my hubby finds hard to accept ( and feels guilty about) but does not bother me one jott, i just love sex
Swinging experiences are different, however, and I would hope that everyone involved would be intent on giving pleasure. Unfortunately this is not always the case & as a result experiences are not quite so enjoyable IMHO, when yes peeps can be selfish when not concentrating on the other participants nees & desires.
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Quote by BiWelshMinx
how many blokes out there can, truly, have more than one orgasm?
Ermmm loads I would imagine ;)
Minx x x
Yeah, probably the vast majority of them when they're young, and a fair few of the more mature guys can easily do more than one in a session, given the encouragement and motivation :twisted: :P :twisted:
Quote by bluexxx
how many blokes out there can, truly, have more than one orgasm?
Ermmm loads I would imagine ;)
Minx x x
Yeah, probably the vast majority of them when they're young, and a fair few of the more mature guys can easily do more than one in a session, given the encouragement and motivation :twisted: :P :twisted:
U mean blowjobs surely ?
;)Minx x x
