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Sex pisses me off ..... sometimes

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Does anybody ever get bored of sex? I know I do. At times it makes want to srceam with frustration that I get so bloody interested in sex. It gets in the way of stuff. Just an idle question.
I think I might have an idea where you're coming from Lost.
I** can be quite a distraction at times... leading to a lot of what could posibly be described as *wasted* time. (when viewed retrospectively)
Indeed, this very site couls (for me) be seen as a symptom of this.
I love the site... the forums and the banter amongst the people involved, the friendly feeling etc etc... but I'm on other forums and rarely spend as much time there as I do here.
It must be the *sex* or *sexual* elemant involved. Even though Im not in an active search for fun and frolics, being on a site where the atmosphere is vaguely sexual and free keeps me returning... when in all honesty, there are other things I could/should be doing.
Thats just one element of course.. sex, and things sexual, can be incredibly pre-occupying, can they not?
lp
in edit: 'IT', not'I'...sorry
When I get "pon farr" - the extreme need for a shag, no matter how inconvenient - yes, it can be a bloody nuisance.
At certain times of the month, it overshadows everything else, and I can't function or concentrate properly on anything else.
Is that sort of what you meant?
would that be the:
Cat on a Hot Tin Roof Syndrome?
lp
I agree with Cherry, depends on what stage in the month I am. In the middle, like I'm coming up to I'm prob the horniest I can be, then it fades a bit towards the end of my cycle.
Trouble is, my horny parts of my cycle don't always correspond with Jay's needs, ie., if he's too tired or at the moment, stress plays a big part also.
depends on weather England are playing..... rolleyes
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I agree with Cherry, depends on what stage in the month I am. In the middle, like I'm coming up to I'm prob the horniest I can be, then it fades a bit towards the end of my cycle.
Trouble is, my horny parts of my cycle don't always correspond with Jay's needs, ie., if he's too tired or at the moment, stress plays a big part also.

Think i know where ya coming from, me and dek have sorta fallen outta sinque (sp) and alot of the time lately is spend on trying to get us horny as the same time which is very difficult mad , my horniest time is just before my bitch week but then u get the worry of making a mess etc. im usually ready a lot quicker that dek at the min and by time he gets ready (usually hours later) my readyness has well passed
yeah...I get that feeling around about the same time as I get fed up breathing redface
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depends on weather England are playing..... rolleyes

See - no wonder I "fancy the pants" off this guy! sillyhwoar: passionkiss
It only pees me off when I want it and Im not getting it mad
lol
Nope never get bored of it. I love sex and both myself and Mr M have very high sex drives......and both enjoy each others bodies enormously..........and often biggrin
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depends on weather England are playing..... rolleyes

See - no wonder I "fancy the pants" off this guy! sillyhwoar: passionkiss
see my sig....... :roll:
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depends on weather England are playing..... rolleyes

See - no wonder I "fancy the pants" off this guy! sillyhwoar: passionkiss
see my sig....... :roll:
Reserve list??? who? what? where? ... do your eyes never stop rolling?? :roll: :roll:
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depends on weather England are playing..... rolleyes

See - no wonder I "fancy the pants" off this guy! sillyhwoar: passionkiss
see my sig....... :roll:
Reserve list??? who? what? where? ... do your eyes never stop rolling?? :roll: :roll:
Only when he ceases his medication :roll:
never get tired of it,just never get enough of it lol
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depends on weather England are playing..... rolleyes

See - no wonder I "fancy the pants" off this guy! sillyhwoar: passionkiss
see my sig....... :roll:
Reserve list??? who? what? where? ... do your eyes never stop rolling?? :roll: :roll:
If they do I die...... :roll:
No I never tire of it, am always interested but often don't have anyone to share that interest with! redface
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Does anybody ever get bored of sex? I know I do. At times it makes want to srceam with frustration that I get so bloody interested in sex. It gets in the way of stuff. Just an idle question.

I hope it is not from feelings of guilt :!:
Plim - your not so grumpy old straight single male
Yep, sometimes it can be such a chore lol
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I think I might have an idea where you're coming from Lost.
I** can be quite a distraction at times... leading to a lot of what could posibly be described as *wasted* time. (when viewed retrospectively)
Indeed, this very site couls (for me) be seen as a symptom of this.
I love the site... the forums and the banter amongst the people involved, the friendly feeling etc etc... but I'm on other forums and rarely spend as much time there as I do here.
It must be the *sex* or *sexual* elemant involved. Even though Im not in an active search for fun and frolics, being on a site where the atmosphere is vaguely sexual and free keeps me returning... when in all honesty, there are other things I could/should be doing.
Thats just one element of course.. sex, and things sexual, can be incredibly pre-occupying, can they not?
lp
in edit: 'IT', not'I'...sorry

Yeah, I guess this Is how I feel about it. I cant help enjoying and being fascinated by sex and sexual stuff. If I was able to employ my time in something else then I could, maybe acheive something.
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Does anybody ever get bored of sex? I know I do. At times it makes want to srceam with frustration that I get so bloody interested in sex. It gets in the way of stuff. Just an idle question.

I hope it is not from feelings of guilt :!:
Plim - your not so grumpy old straight single male
Guilt!!! I'm not sure I understand? swinging initialy brought about feeling of guilt, yes. If thats what you mean. Although personally i think that ewas a transitional stage i went through thinking that I was wrong to want to do something not favourably looked on by society. I asked all the usual questions of myself. Feeligs of guilt yeah, they passed quickly.
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Does anybody ever get bored of sex? I know I do. At times it makes want to srceam with frustration that I get so bloody interested in sex. It gets in the way of stuff. Just an idle question.

I find sex quite interesting, probably as I dont partake of it that often confused :? :lol2: (my choice -feels new years resolution coming on :grinsmile.
I love sexual banter and inuendo's in chat/forum.....but I do get bored of being asked for a shag every five minutes. Yet its a sex site so maybe I should excuse that to a point? I also get a little fed up being asked why I dont meet and what a waste it is that I dont...... :? :? :shock:
Im determed not to log in here some days because I should be doing other things. So I dont log in and read the forums anway :? :? :? But it makes me feel quite proud of the fact I haven't logged in and I have so much will power for not doing so :? :? :? lol :lol:
Its the fantastic friendships Ive made that keeps me here now more than anything....and the sexual atmosphere is an added element that I happen to enjoy most days! :lol: :lol:
Well, Ive waffled again...... rolleyes
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I love sexual banter and inuendo's in chat/forum.....but I do get bored of being asked for a shag every five minutes. Yet its a sex site so maybe I should excuse that to a point? I also get a little fed up being asked why I dont meet and what a waste it is that I dont...... confused :? :shock:
6 minutes and counting.........Anais, do you want a shag ???????????
Echoes
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I love sexual banter and inuendo's in chat/forum.....but I do get bored of being asked for a shag every five minutes. Yet its a sex site so maybe I should excuse that to a point? I also get a little fed up being asked why I dont meet and what a waste it is that I dont...... confused :? :shock:
6 minutes and counting.........Anais, do you want a shag ???????????
Echoes
Thank you, name ya day? lol :lol: wink
Lost, if you are saying that sex gets in the way of the rest of life, work, cleaning, eating and so on. Yes it can, but that’s just because there aren’t enough hours in the day.
For lilacgem and me, we both love sex. biggrin I have horny dreams often :twisted: , so I must think about sex when I’m asleep. I feel horny from the moment I wake up till the moment I go to sleep at night. I have known lilac since she was 16 and she has always been as horny as me. We both find the cure for walking around horny is to have sex wink . Simple as that.
We got back together about 4 months ago and have had ten weeks off work together and during that time spent eight weeks having a 69position “love in” hump , in our bedroom. Only broken up by having to eat and shop. O and get in the car to go playing in clubs as often as we can.
So the short answer to your question lost my friend, is NO
P.S. love your posts m8, keep em coming :thumbup:
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