I don't know if anyone's seen 'Sex Tips For Girls' on TV? We saw a couple of episodes but didn't really learn anything we didn't already know. But it got me thinking. With the wealth of experienced people on SH we could put together a really useful list of tips to enhance the sex life. You never know, it might even make a good article for the next edition of SHM (as long as people get credit for their tips ;-) ).
I'll start off with a few of my own... feel free to join in:
1) When using water based lubes (eg. KY Gel) keep a small spray bottle of warm water to hand. When the gel starts to dry up, a few squirts from the water bottle will revive it.
2) A light sprinkling of baby powder on the breasts during foreplay makes an interesting contrast to massage oil. It can also be very sensual when used on shaved genitals, but doesn't taste very nice and isn't condom friendly.
3) The nervous system will switch off receptors if they're stimulated in the same way for too long. To make things more interesting, vary the pressure and area of contact occassionally. For the same reason, it's good to alternate between cool and warm sensations.
Cueball stands back and waits for the comics to arrive ;-)
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Quote by cu3b4ll
3) The nervous system will switch off receptors if they're stimulated in the same way for too long. To make things more interesting, vary the pressure and area of contact occassionally. For the same reason, it's good to alternate between cool and warm sensations.
Just a follow on from that ....
however, if you do hear heavy breathing, sensual moaning, gentle bucking and some urgent hands gripping your hair/shoulder/whatever is nearest - don't change pace or pressure!
Sex God
Quote by Marya_Northeast
3) The nervous system will switch off receptors if they're stimulated in the same way for too long. To make things more interesting, vary the pressure and area of contact occassionally. For the same reason, it's good to alternate between cool and warm sensations.
Just a follow on from that ....
however, if you do hear heavy breathing, sensual moaning, gentle bucking and some urgent hands gripping your hair/shoulder/whatever is nearest - don't change pace or pressure!
oh god yes, what she said
Quote by cu3b4ll
Well obviously!
Unfortunately, it's not obvious to everyone. Some men (and maybe some women but I can only speak from my own experience) think that "don't stop" actually means "please do it a lot harder and faster".
Tips from me:
Turn the fookin mobile off or at least on silent and don't place it next to your dildo as when you reach for it with lube-laden hands, you won't be bloody happy!
When inviting your playmate into the shower for some wet soapy fun, remember to wash out the babyoil you used to soften your delicious skin beforehand as head injuries from the taps are difficult to explain.
Always keep an eye out for where condom wrappers end up. Kids know it isn't a sweet wrapper and even if they do fall for that old chestnut, they'll only end up asking you to buy them some! :shock:
Let an extra strong mint XXXX melt on your tongue, and then use your mouth and tongue on her clit with all the sensuality you can muster . Coating the area with mint as you play, then periodically move your mouth away and gently breathe on her clit to give a cool rush of air, then warm her up again by closing your lips around her clit again.
Works great on cocks too.
Vert
. Coating the area with mint as you play, then periodically move your mouth away and gently breathe on her clit to give a cool rush of air, then warm her up again by closing your lips around her clit again.Works great on cocks too.
Vert
Sex God
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Well obviously!
Unfortunately, it's not obvious to everyone. Some men (and maybe some women but I can only speak from my own experience) think that "don't stop" actually means "please do it a lot harder and faster".
Tips from me:
Turn the fookin mobile off or at least on silent and don't place it next to your dildo as when you reach for it with lube-laden hands, you won't be bloody happy!
When inviting your playmate into the shower for some wet soapy fun, remember to wash out the babyoil you used to soften your delicious skin beforehand as head injuries from the taps are difficult to explain.
Always keep an eye out for where condom wrappers end up. Kids know it isn't a sweet wrapper and even if they do fall for that old chestnut, they'll only end up asking you to buy them some! :shock:
:rotflmao:
Quote by lilacgem_vert2go
Let an extra strong mint XXXX melt on your tongue, and then use your mouth and tongue on her clit with all the sensuality you can muster
Works great on cocks too.
Vert
that I will try!!!
Sex God
dont turn up to a meet drunk 
:lol:
do not wear a certain item of clothing that means sudden death after 10 seconds to all the men i have worn it for
:lol: do not wear a certain item of clothing that means sudden death after 10 seconds to all the men i have worn it for
Have a peek in here too:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/74376.html?highlight=SH%20lovers%20guide
Seems great minds think alike :thumbup:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/74376.html?highlight=SH%20lovers%20guide
Seems great minds think alike :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
Regularly check your batteries in your vibrator for acid leakage......and please DO check with your eyes and NOT with other rather more delicate parts of your anatomy :shock : :shock:
ops:
Did you find this out the hard way?
:shock: :shock: :shock:
Sex God
lock the door after a meet arrives incase you have friendly neighbours :shock: :shock: :shock:
yes it happened to me
yes it happened to me
Sex God
Quote by X_fanny_x
dont turn up to a meet drunk
do not wear a certain item of clothing that means sudden death after 10 seconds to all the men i have worn it for
Oh you can't leave it at that!! Please tell what the item is
Quote by bbw_lover
Regularly check your batteries in your vibrator for acid leakage......and please DO check with your eyes and NOT with other rather more delicate parts of your anatomy :shock: :shock:
Did you find this out the hard way?
:shock: :shock: :shock:
ooooooohhhhhh yes hun, i sure DID!!!!
Sex God
Quote by Lost
dont turn up to a meet drunk
do not wear a certain item of clothing that means sudden death after 10 seconds to all the men i have worn it for
Oh you can't leave it at that!! Please tell what the item is
:gagged: well its a certain thing put together with a certain position 10 seconds later and :wanker:
Quote by Bonedigger
Regularly check your batteries in your vibrator for acid leakage......and please DO check with your eyes and NOT with other rather more delicate parts of your anatomy :shock : :shock:
Do your batteries stay in there long enough to go like that? :shock:
Or maybe my vibrator is a battery guzzler. I think I might need to connect it up to the national grid!
