Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login

sexual terminology you dont like

last reply
101 replies
4.3k views
1 watcher
0 likes
i was reading through one of the threads on the site and came acorss one from a 19 year old.
it made me chuckle due to the terminology he used for preforming oral on a female, well at least i think thats what he ment lol
he says hes good at licking out lol
i was chatting to a guy a few year ago, he was 23 and he asked if i liked guys to fuck my bum bum :shock:
needless to say i just couldnt cope and started laughing and he said i was old and stuffy cuse i laughed at this.
this got me to thinking has anyone you liked ever come out with a sexual term and all of a sudden your put right off?
xxxx lou xxx
Sex God
have to admit the one term that really does make me cringe whenever i see it being used in the chatroom is "MILF"
does anyone actually think it is in any way flattering??????
mind you... probabaly another of those "me" things.....
I don't like fuckbuddy - it's awful & the least sexy way to describe casual encounters lol.
there're loads more I just can't think.
I'm actually quite flattered to be called a MILF at my age :shock: I hate words like c*nt. It's such a nasty word whether it's being used as a body part or as an insult evil
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I'm actually quite flattered to be called a MILF at my age :shock: I hate words like c*nt. It's such a nasty word whether it's being used as a body part or as an insult evil

i agree definetly c*nt....
Warming the Bed
Quote by daveanddebbie69
I'm actually quite flattered to be called a MILF at my age :shock: I hate words like c*nt. It's such a nasty word whether it's being used as a body part or as an insult evil

i agree definetly c*nt....
I loathe that word as well. A horrible word used to describe something beautiful ...
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I'm actually quite flattered to be called a MILF at my age :shock: I hate words like c*nt. It's such a nasty word whether it's being used as a body part or as an insult evil

But, I think, can be used effectively in erotic writing, where the scene has been set properly.
If you don't agree - let me try a sample in PM and see if you're not convinced.
Quote by westerross
But, I think, can be used effectively in erotic writing, where the scene has been set properly.
If you don't agree - let me try a sample in PM and see if you're not convinced.

any excuse to get me in your box rolleyes
Orgasminator
Quote by BabyBrenda
I don't like fuckbuddy - it's awful & the least sexy way to describe casual encounters lol.
there're loads more I just can't think.

yep, i hate that term too!
and as for c*nt....well i quite like it....but i have seen "the vagina monologues" twice and been encouraged to reclaim it lol
Master of Sex
I imagine the term that upsets more people than any other is ............
NO SINGLE MALES lol
Quote by fabio grooverider
have to admit the one term that really does make me cringe whenever i see it being used in the chatroom is "MILF"
does anyone actually think it is in any way flattering??????
mind you... probabaly another of those "me" things.....

much prefer the term yummy mummy
Quote by Sassy-Seren

But, I think, can be used effectively in erotic writing, where the scene has been set properly.
If you don't agree - let me try a sample in PM and see if you're not convinced.

any excuse to get me in your box rolleyes
Can't blame me fer trying! wink
Warming the Bed
i'm with u essex34m can't stand the term milf makes a mother sound like a right tart
much prefere yummy mummy
however still would rather be thought of as a woman in my own right than as a mother in these sort of situations :!:
[
westerross wrote:
But, I think, can be used effectively in erotic writing, where the scene has been set properly.
If you don't agree - let me try a sample in PM and see if you're not convinced.
any excuse to get me in your box

couldn't agree more
chestyx sillyhwoar:
Quote by chestybabe
i'm with u essex34m can't stand the term milf makes a mother sound like a right tart
much prefere yummy mummy
however still would rather be thought of as a woman in my own right than as a mother in these sort of situations :!:
westerross wrote:
But, I think, can be used effectively in erotic writing, where the scene has been set properly.
If you don't agree - let me try a sample in PM and see if you're not convinced.
any excuse to get me in your box

couldn't agree more
chestyx sillyhwoar:
with an avatar like that, you are going the right way about it
Warming the Bed
biggrin
with an avatar like that, you are going the right way about it

right way about what confused: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: lol
chesty sillyhwoar:
erm, er um oo, well, i said, well no, you said its well i am , you but oh bollocks, is it bedtime yet?
Warming the Bed
i got one last week made me squirm.
"hiya babe think your really horny and im in luv with your pic are you free as im really horny and need to dump my load "
yea it annoyed me as my add says how much i hate oneliners.
rolleyes :roll: :roll:
Quote by lulu
i got one last week made me squirm.
"hiya babe think your really horny and im in luv with your pic are you free as im really horny and need to dump my load "
yea it annoyed me as my add says how much i hate oneliners.
rolleyes :roll: :roll:

theres two lines there, he is smarter than the average bear
im glad you only murdered one song with take that, they had too much encouragement
I'm not over fond of shagging.
The word I mean! rolleyes
I hate, no, I LOATHE the term 'spit-roast'. mad
It makes me think of a woman being treated like an animal, for the pleasure of the participating guys and it turns me right off if anyone mentions it in a playing environment. evil
daft as it might sound, i cant stand the words Slut, Whore and Slag
soooo derogatory evil ............. C**t I can handle though dunno
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I'm actually quite flattered to be called a MILF at my age :shock: I hate words like c*nt. It's such a nasty word whether it's being used as a body part or as an insult evil

Dear SS
C*nt is a good Saxon word for a part of the body. It became a nasty word and an insult after the French speaking invasion in 1066. Their is nothing wrong with the word, when used correctly. Perhaps you would like to use a Latin word, or a Welsh word. redface
There is nothing wrong with the word. However I do find that the people who use it indiscriminately are distastfull. It is still a good word.
Travis
I hate the word "fanny"...its just such a wishy-washy word and I hate anyone using it...
C**t doesn't bother me...in fact I know that it turns some men on so I like to use it occasionally....but only if the guy uses it first....
I also hate "vagina" and "minge"
I don't mind the word c*nt sometimes. :twisted:
Terms that I personally dislike are things like:
Gash (yes there is an advert on here with that actual word in it!)
Spunk
Fanny
Puppies (a 44 year old guy kept asking me about mine in a chat room! :shocksmile
Quote by Kiss_Me
Spunk
Fanny

don't like them either redface
Quote by Sassy-Seren

Spunk
Fanny

don't like them either redface
See I knew we were meant for each other! :rascal:
Sexlightened
some girls like to be called a tart whore bitch etc during a hard shagg
Quote by Cossie
some girls like to be called a tart whore bitch etc during a hard shagg

yes they do, but i'd check with them first wink we're all different - i like 'bitch' but call me a slag mid-shag and my knee is likley to connect with bollocks lol :twisted:
oohh don't like slag... but am ok with slut for some wierd reason
the words kids use for various bits of anatomy are a huge turn off for me... if it's something my kids would say my wide on will close up very very quickly
although I'd much rather be referred to as a yummy mummy than a milf.... not sure I am one mind... just I'd like to be called one lol
Quote by Cossie
some girls like to be called a tart whore bitch etc during a hard shagg

:grin: some do don't they