My ex and I split last year and haven't seen each other since. The sex was fantastic and was good enought to brush aside all the other issues for a while....She is BI and I was ok with that - I enjoyed watching her with other men and women but a few things she did shattered my trust. We used to go nightclubbing and pull others and have had a bit of fun at houseparties but never got too deeply into the swinging scene - mainly cos we didn't meet many like minded people but also we dicided the distance between us (She went to Uni 100 miles away) meant our trust was too strained to start involving others.
We both know that the best sex we have has is with each other, but we're also very good at arguing, spending money and clashing over personal bounderies. We talked at lenght about our fantasies and swinging was definatly part of them,.
Anyhow, my question is this....
She's just got in contact with me... Do I ask if she fancies coming to a Munch or is this all gonna get far too complex...and how would we be recieved by you lot? I don't want to get involed with her again, but she was a very good fuck.
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Should I talk to my ex about swinging?
Master of Sex
its not worth it....
do you fancy her going psycho at you?
you can get sex so many other places than your ex....
look forward, not backwards!
do you fancy her going psycho at you?
you can get sex so many other places than your ex....
look forward, not backwards!
Sex God
As I understand it, you can only go to a munch if you are a member of SH and a regular user of either the forum or chatroom.
Munchs are not a free for all and events for people to bring their mates or ex's to!!!
Munchs are not a free for all and events for people to bring their mates or ex's to!!!
Sex God
Can I ask a question at this point, just what is it that she's looking for from you, if it's just friendship without all the other stuff, that may not be too bad, but if it's a relationship, then I'd have to agree with everyone else.
John
John
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Can I ask a question at this point, just what is it that she's looking for from you, if it's just friendship without all the other stuff, that may not be too bad, but if it's a relationship, then I'd have to agree with everyone else.
John
I think she really likes the way I fuck her. I can't think of any other good reason for her to get in touch cos we sure as hell can't trust eachother....If you want me to go all deep about it i think we both got off on anger fueled rages and usually ended up fucking untill the argument was forgotton. I'm sure you all have you're own little quirks (tee hee)
hi hun,
just because she was a good fuck it doesnt mean that u need to get involved with her again!!, some advice my mum told me was.....if its not broke dont fix it!!!.........im sure u will be able to find another "good fuck" and if she gets feelings again and its not what u want things could get worse. I think your better to cut your losses (sex wise) and move on other wise youll be making a rod for your own back........you split up for a there was feelings involved then it would be different, me and mr bailiff split about 8 months ago for 5 months it wasnt so much that we didnt love eachother but i wanted to have some me time as ive been and lived with him since i was 16, but we loved eachother and got back together(love ay)!!, so if you have feelings then go for it but if not then just coz shes a good fuck could turn into alsorts of things trust me i know!!!!!!
hope this helps and u get what u want and are looking for!!!!
lou xxxx
just because she was a good fuck it doesnt mean that u need to get involved with her again!!, some advice my mum told me was.....if its not broke dont fix it!!!.........im sure u will be able to find another "good fuck" and if she gets feelings again and its not what u want things could get worse. I think your better to cut your losses (sex wise) and move on other wise youll be making a rod for your own back........you split up for a there was feelings involved then it would be different, me and mr bailiff split about 8 months ago for 5 months it wasnt so much that we didnt love eachother but i wanted to have some me time as ive been and lived with him since i was 16, but we loved eachother and got back together(love ay)!!, so if you have feelings then go for it but if not then just coz shes a good fuck could turn into alsorts of things trust me i know!!!!!!
hope this helps and u get what u want and are looking for!!!!
lou xxxx
Orgasminator
Pushed,
I am sorry to say but this predicament seems to me that you are thinking with pants & not with your brain.
She may have been a 'good fuck' but as the old adage goes ...
"There's plenty more fish in the sea"
Now whether or not you are into having intercourse with fish, that is not the point, the point is my friend...
Let it go, think on it as a great time you had, cracking memories for you to think about, but now it's time to move on.
The WHOOSH Manâ„¢
I am sorry to say but this predicament seems to me that you are thinking with pants & not with your brain.
She may have been a 'good fuck' but as the old adage goes ...
"There's plenty more fish in the sea"
Now whether or not you are into having intercourse with fish, that is not the point, the point is my friend...
Let it go, think on it as a great time you had, cracking memories for you to think about, but now it's time to move on.
The WHOOSH Manâ„¢
