I wish I hade wise words here for you, but in truth, they have been said, mainly by Tracey-Jane as it happens
but if the guy isnt willing to stand back and chill while you get your mind in order, well, every bloke knows just how screwed up a lady can get when pregnant, I for one wouldnt be trying to push for a particular result with a lady going through the hormonal alterations common to pregnancires
With a bit of luck he will read this thread as well, seeing as he responded to your advert there is a chance he may browse the forums as well. I hope he does, wouldnt like for things to go pairshaped for you