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Hi all, any peeps not sure what to do over Xmas. It is a great time of the year but not the same without a partner or offspring. What are you single people thinking of doing? Would love to hear from a female/ couple who fancies going away for Xmas or meeting up. Happy Xmas to you all.
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Hi all, any peeps not sure what to do over Xmas. It is a great time of the year but not the same without a partner or offspring. What are you single people thinking of doing? Would love to hear from a female/ couple who fancies going away for Xmas or meeting up. Happy Xmas to you all.

Hi Meggo3, I hope your not feeling to bad about xmas and i hope you find someone to share it with.
Louise xx
Take yaself off on holiday dunno
Lots of Xmas holiday's in the travel agents these days.
Yup
Same old same old here too.
But i love christmass.
You should all arrange a big massive kness up together. Like the old pensioners do. :giggle:
Louise xx
Ps. dont take it the wrong way, i mean it in a good eat, drink and be merry kind of way. kiss Id have you all over to mine if i had the room. I do cook a lovely christmas dinner.
I've taken myself off on holiday the last couple of years with mixed results. This year I think I'm going to invite myself round to a friend's house, whether they like it or not. It is tough, though, as I think I'm impossing myself on them when it should really be a family time.
H.x
working, xmas eve and xmas day, boxing day on at night. Strangely looking forward to it
i found my first xmas single very hard, didnt know what to do with myself, now i love it
xmas eve and xmas day with family, boxing day getting lashed at a friends house, back to work for a couple of days.
north east social on 29th, dads birthday 30th, have invited a couple of friends off the site to stay for new years eve, drinks and a laugh in good company, new years day with family, then back to work again
Earthy xx
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I've taken myself off on holiday the last couple of years with mixed results. This year I think I'm going to invite myself round to a friend's house, whether they like it or not. It is tough, though, as I think I'm impossing myself on them when it should really be a family time.
H.x

you know you're more than welcome to call here too hunni and it would never be imposing kiss
I've got my son coming home for 3 weeks :bounce: and I've got Xmas Day off :bounce:
Meggo, I hope you find someone nice to share your time with. I'm sure there are plenty of ladies who'd love to spend the time with you. Good luck hun :kiss:
after a couple of xmasses >sp?< surrounded with family illness etc.. and various other concerns, I was alone last xmas... and though I was a tad caught up in the thought of others all around me having fun in the company of others.... I rather revelled in my quiet issolation....
not sure about this year though.....
we shall see.... Im not the biggest santa fan anyway
LP
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I've taken myself off on holiday the last couple of years with mixed results. This year I think I'm going to invite myself round to a friend's house, whether they like it or not. It is tough, though, as I think I'm impossing myself on them when it should really be a family time.
H.x

you know you're more than welcome to call here too hunni and it would never be imposing kiss
I've got my son coming home for 3 weeks :bounce: and I've got Xmas Day off :bounce:
Meggo, I hope you find someone nice to share your time with. I'm sure there are plenty of ladies who'd love to spend the time with you. Good luck hun :kiss:
thank you that was lovely. best bet is to not to try to hard and something someone will come along i think??? have a great time yourself.
This may seem old fashioned, but what about spending it with family? You know, parents, siblings? I know it's always nice to be sharing it with 'the other half' but you don't have to be in a couple to enjoy Xmas and New Year.
Jedi, I think it should be in LMU really - looks as if Meggo is asking if any females or couples want to meet over Christmas? Just in a roundabout way.
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Hi all, any peeps not sure what to do over Xmas. It is a great time of the year but not the same without a partner or offspring. What are you single people thinking of doing? Would love to hear from a female/ couple who fancies going away for Xmas or meeting up. Happy Xmas to you all.
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i found my first xmas single very hard, didnt know what to do with myself, now i love it

I'm kind of glad you wrote this Earthy.
This is my first ever Xmas alone. Dreading it at the moment but hoping if there are more I'll enjoy them as much as Earth does now. Once I'm into the swing of single Christmas'.
My little boy will be in Derbyshire with his mum, I'm in Nottingham (only lived here 3 months). Friends and family are all in South London.
No idea what to do at the moment.
I can imagine most of it will be spent on the M1!!!
I had my first solo xmas last year.. was ok generaly as long as you keep yourself busy....
this year i am going to lanzarote for xmas...so will be sat on abeach during the festive season but back in time for NYE... fully recommend it...
RWL
just me and my 14 year old son this xmas.
but going to be a good xmas, better than the last one and now im out of a bad relationship.
im determind this is going to be a good xmas for my son biggrin
meggo3 spend it with friends and i hope you have a great xmas.
Tina xxx
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just me and my 14 year old son this xmas.
but going to be a good xmas, better than the last one and now im out of a bad relationship.
im determind this is going to be a good xmas for my son biggrin
meggo3 spend it with friends and i hope you have a great xmas.
Tina xxx

Hi Tina, you too. Better to be not in a relationship at all rather than in a bad one i think. Hope you and your son have great Xmas. xxx
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I had my first solo xmas last year.. was ok generaly as long as you keep yourself busy....
this year i am going to lanzarote for xmas...so will be sat on abeach during the festive season but back in time for NYE... fully recommend it...
RWL

I'll wave to you from my beach!
big hugs to all the "on your owns "at xmas from us two, you never know there may be a party in the offing for one or two of you, not sure what we are doing yet but could be fun to have some of you around, saying that if you stayed the night on xmas eve and we had the customary visit from father xmas would a mod be able to vouch that santa is not a banned member or a member of another site........
its a joke by the way
the party bit may just come true, but then xmas is a magical time isnt it!
wrats
xx
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big hugs to all the "on your owns "at xmas from us two, you never know there may be a party in the offing for one or two of you, not sure what we are doing yet but could be fun to have some of you around, saying that if you stayed the night on xmas eve and we had the customary visit from father xmas would a mod be able to vouch that santa is not a banned member or a member of another site........
its a joke by the way
the party bit may just come true, but then xmas is a magical time isnt it!
wrats
xx

You just can't resist dragging it up can you?
leave it out Frecklebird its a frigging joke ffs, get a sense of humour everyone knows santa is a member and active in the chat room
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big hugs to all the "on your owns "at xmas from us two, you never know there may be a party in the offing for one or two of you, not sure what we are doing yet but could be fun to have some of you around, saying that if you stayed the night on xmas eve and we had the customary visit from father xmas would a mod be able to vouch that santa is not a banned member or a member of another site........
its a joke by the way
the party bit may just come true, but then xmas is a magical time isnt it!
wrats
xx

I can confirm that as yet Santa isnt a banned member and can attend any social activity that is advertised on the site, however Rudolf is a different matter and is currently banned for persistently trying to upload animal pictures onto the site claiming that they are of him yet the lips, antlers and hind quarters that are on view are clearly those of a Moose.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: @ Dave lol
at xmas day after boxing day i put a add in for a lady to go on holiday with all ways go to lanazrote 15 days in the sun and funny thing is there is all ways ladys up for it so everbody is happy :P
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big hugs to all the "on your owns "at xmas from us two, you never know there may be a party in the offing for one or two of you, not sure what we are doing yet but could be fun to have some of you around, saying that if you stayed the night on xmas eve and we had the customary visit from father xmas would a mod be able to vouch that santa is not a banned member or a member of another site........
its a joke by the way
the party bit may just come true, but then xmas is a magical time isnt it!
wrats
xx

I can confirm that as yet Santa isnt a banned member and can attend any social activity that is advertised on the site, however Rudolf is a different matter and is currently banned for persistently trying to upload animal pictures onto the site claiming that they are of him yet the lips and antlers and hind quarters that are on view are clearly those of a Moose.
ill have you know rudolfs ban is entirely inappropriate a personal friend and family member ill add, he was a victim of an over zealous room op thats all,
nice one Dave
staggy
I'll be working, can't stand christmas anyway.
Looking foward to new year though, my mates getting married on the 30th and a fancy dress party on the 31st.
Christmas on my own
Looks that way , just me and the dog
I was hopping someone else would be here , but I don’t think they will make it
Mum and dad will be at my sisters and brother-in-law’s , watching my niece open her pressie’s then having Christmas dinner . my sister and I don’t get on and as im a stubborn git through my own stupidity it looks like its just me and peg now
Ill still put the tree up and the deck’s , get some Christmas spirit , put the songs on the stereo and dress peg up to look like Rudolf .
Iv got a choice of Christmas DVD’s to watch , you know the ones you have to watch after the Christmas dinner !
Zulu
The Vikings
Spartacus
Ben-Hur
No James Bond im afraid ,or Chity Chity Bang Bang
No Jason and the Argonorts ether ( bugger)
Would be nice to have some people round and have a giggle
Not sit and eat my Christmas dinner on my own
Right that’s enough of that
Normal serves is resumed

It’s the 1st tomorrow so go and do your Christmas sig’s so my computer looks festive for Christmas !
I dont celebrate Xmas, its wank, its time off work, and that's all that matters, so leave me alone biggrin
I'm working all over christmas(thank god).
I have not had a christmas dinner for 15 years.
I'm used to it now.
by now we should all know what we are doing christmas eve confused
im not working so!
anyone fancie a party at my place ??????? wink