I have been stood up... i know; hard to believe but hey...it happens also i have stood up some...
i'm washing my hair....
I got stopped by the police and told i must imediately attend an identity parade
I need to suddenly be in work at 11 PM
i ran out of petrol and my battery was dead on my phone
I suddenly got a headache
my false tooth fell out
my Sister from australia suddenly and surprisinginly turned up at my door
My Granny died
all of course very genuine (O)(0) (~)(~) x
you do believe me? don't you?
i reply to all emails i get including winks, even when they are from people who are not what we are looking for
i am usually polite even when they send the same messege over and over again despite me saying that they are not what we are looking for !
So reading that your reply and sounds that you hate me? How can you say am pushing male even if you don't know me? Never had and won't chatting with peoples like you,or send a message,when say in the chatroom the fun will starting i mean the laughs and entertainment,that is why there is live cams? Maybe you enjoy that watching guys wanking off 24/7 on live cams? That isn't pushing but the way? Live cams is for entertainment just for let you know(members can chat,members can dance,members can masturbate,wanking off)it is a free place and only watching who those want,when am on chatroom,some peoples asking me for a performance or just a simple dance,so yesterday said no,but from now on will bring back the laughs and fun in my live cams and if you don't like,that is simple just don't turn on the Big Bra live cam! Life is too short and some peoples has no sense of humour at all! And yeah am special!
Hi just to say thank you to all of you,really learning a lots in this forum and that is the meaning of forums,chat,discussion and sometimes arguments,but the way thanks for that person who said my usename is turning members off,will change soon and also anymore thanks for the grammars lessons and spell,will improving step by step,only those who travelling abroad knows that how it is hard to spell in a foreign language,have nice day and come on England,lets beat the USA today!
So i say am special and so does anyone here, am sure that there are lots of specials peoples in their on way here or anywhere in this world, you just must discovering your gift,thanks and come on England!!
can i ask why do you have bra in your user name?
Hi , so Bra it is the name of my city i born,but some members thinking bra is female lingerie,didn't know that would be so trouble to me,but tomorrow am going to change to nice user name,all the best,thanks!
Calm down, calm down - got a bit heated this one! Big bc, totally agree with you changing your name - a bit misleading and leads to a snap judgement. Am a newby but thought the point (or one of them) was a bit of freedom to be yourself, the consequence of which Big bc, is that we are all different and some people may like you but many will not. You sound like a showman who likes to entertain, nothing wrong with that......but so is David Dickenson and nobody likes him (apologies David if you are on here).
Try just watching the conversation for a bit and see the friendly interaction rather than 'entertaining' and realise that if you send a message then you are probably not the only person that has and a weeding out takes place. Your ya own worst enemy and I suspect, your own best friend. Try making some more
Having joined the site initially as a couple and now using the site as a single male primarily for the cafe I have had the experience of both types of attention.
When i used to swing as a couple we were constantly getting mails from single guys. Now if the mail was a wink we would ignore it completely. If it was a what i used to describe as a "one line expect-a-fuck" we used to ignore that. However on the rare, (and if i'm being honest, it was rare) occasion that we did get well thought out informative reply or posts we used to reply even if it were a "no thank you".
I think what single males forget is that being in a majority group they have to stand out and not just expect to come on here and get a GUARANTEED shag. It's a simple numbers game and what you say on your reply or advert is kind of what or how people will think of you. If it's a one liner or short "what i want is" then couple's will be far less inclined to reply than someone who puts a bit about themselves and takes time to write something as it shows you will make the effort should things evpolve further from there.
Some advice to newbie single guys looking to meet couples from someone looking at the bigger picture who isn't really bothered about meeting anyone and has been about for a little while on here and seen a lot of what goes on.
Write a well worded and informative advert stating who you are, what your about and most important what YOU can offer THEM!
Be honest, it makes for better compatibility and therefore greater chance of a meet up.
Don't expect to send one mail and get a shag, just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean it's full of sluts who will have sex with you within the first correspondence. Have the patience to get to know people, chat online and have a bit of banter. Just like in the "real world" people on swingingheaven usually like to get to know people before having sexual encounters with them.
Expect non replies, and don't go on the forums having a go about it when you inevitably get sick. Perseverence is the key to success in my humble opinion.
Now go forth and procreate ye single men of swingheaven.
Thanks for that, you just told what us single males have to do and you know the both of swinging, please try to let others singles know about yr experiences and am sure that will helping a lots the singles ones here,all the best and yeah am show man,that is my problem and my gift, but i bought new cam now,think should that new kind of entertainment soon he he!!
Hello there, well sounds that you know me for ages? You just say the kind of person am, showman and yeah that is my problem and my gift, but i can't seating down and "watching what is going on" that isn't my way, to be honest sometimes wondering become a "normal,boring man" seating on live cam and just wanking off 24/7 or hide myself of this exterior world, my ex-girlfriends told me, they never have boyfriend like me before,because my way,but the thing is i can't to be that man,shy,hide my self,watching what is going on and do nothing about,and as i love to dance(that is other problem) just annoying some peoples,but that is my way and unfortunately,can't change,but will follow yr advice for while and see where it leads,thanks so much,have nice day!
Bratislava, Brasilia? Bradford?
A good idea to change your name and it would do you no harm to not have the words "big" and "cock" in your new nom de plume
am show man,that is my problem and my gift, but i bought new cam now,think should that new kind of entertainment soon he he!!
The thing is when you announce you are on cam I expect not many take notice and actually look, I know for a fact I would not look, lots of guys announce they are on cam, some even under the pretence of "hey ladies can you check to see if my cam is working??", yeah right :wanker:
To be honest I`m not sure your "entertainment" is the sort that most fems or couples are looking for or would take seriously.
Hi Mrs-BMW, well to be honest i know that my kind of " entertainment" is not what the couples or females are looking for in this site, just to do that to bring laughs,fun and smiles on live cam,that is all and yeah don't take that seriously because then would be boring!
There are, and always will be single males on the outside of all sections of society - that's just the way it is. Incidently on the subject of chat rooms on this site, it is not always easy to "break in" with established players and in other rooms nothing is going on at all with only two or three attendees!
Plim :sad:
I have seen this arguement from both sides of the fence. When we initially registered on here as a couple we were looking for meets either together (3some, same room swap etc), or with the other partner watching but not involved i.e. Mrs T and a guy, or me and a girl.
Initially we never put any pictures on our profile, and funny old thing we never goy any replies. So we put some photo's on our profile, gradually plucked up the courage to go on cam and eventually ended up as the people we are today, lol. but at every stage in the last six years we have been turned down, and still are on a regular basis.
I think the nature of this and other similar sites is that it will always attract far more single males than any other demograph. It is always easy to label a group of people because of the actions of one, and unfortunately for some single males, there are far more of them out there likely to upset people.
One time when we were on cam, in the middle of the afternoon, a single male told us he had just joined, we said welcome and he replied 'gonna get your tits out then?' With attitudes like that it's easy to see why couples get annoyed. Wouldn't you?
Our biggest annoyance these days is that people don't read profiles. We get asked 'where are you from?' and 'what are you looking for?' constantly, but if people read our profile all the answers are there. As an example, we are one of a small percentage of couples on this site that are looking for young males (early twenties). Yet we get many mails from guys well over the age range we are looking for, 30, 40, 50 etc all telling us they are 'a young 44' and would love to meet up!
If you were looking for a Porsche and the salesman showed you a Ford, but said it was a new one, would you still go for it?
If I had the ability I would stop single males in their 40's and 50's from looking at our profile or contacting us.
