hi mackaveli69, i hope i didnt offend you. we are fairly new to this and was just wondering where people stood on the subject. I suppose single (married men) are more likely to be discreet and as long as you dont get too involved then there should be no harm.
What everybody has said really................
We all have different points of view, DeeCee for instance is honest and upfront and should be applauded for his stance. H and I could never cheat on each other, we would prefer to call it a day if we had differences that we couldn't resolve, but it's not how everyone is.
We have met single guys, and married single guys if you know what I mean, and we avoid making any kind of moral judgement. If a guy tells us he is married, then yes we do ask why he does what he does, and the answer is invariably the same everytime.
It is up to you how you deal with the married man syndrome, and you should do whatever you both feel comfortable with.
Remember at the end of the day, there are people around who would disapprove of what we all do anyway, no matter who we do it with.
M
Play nice, guys, or I'll lock it.
Mal
as a rule we dont meet single males (married or single) due to preference but have to say that both men and women will always cheat for what ever reasons in the swinging circle or otherwise im sure there is also plenty of so called single females who are also married so it is not just a man thing,
its purely down to preference whether you choose to sleep with single married men or women. in my experience if men or women are delibrately going looking for sex behind their partners backs it usually means they are lacking something they need or want, im not saying this makes it all right but we all have our reasons and just purely out of interest how many of you would forgive your partners of a 1 night stand but not an affair
single all the way! or is it jingle all the way? Seriously though we don't go for married "single" males and in no way are we speaking about anyone in particular so don't take offence as this its just an opinion but we regard married "single" males who's wives have no idea what there up to as cheaters not swingers but as we said its just our opinion, swinging is just a hobby to us and lets all be honest its fun as long as we're all consenting adults but the poor wife left at home while her husband "single" male is out having fun, is that consenting? to us that’s cheating not swinging and loads will disagree but no matter what way you look at it its the truth.
it is always going to be an emotive subject......
who said that a single guy is going to blab more than a married guy????
i know people who play with married singles..... i know people who don't, that is their perogative/preference......
yes a married person has a lot more to lose if it all goes wrong.... but does that make them more discreet/ trustworthy???? not really............
i think it is interest point that has been made..... if a couple are looking for a bi fem.... does it matter to them whether they are truely single or a married single???? or do principles remain the same...........
Ive been on the other end of it and Im just not willing to go there! Its the lies that hurt more sometimes.....
xanaisx
Hi westerross, i did ask him if his wife knows and he said she doesnt. It makes you think what sort of person are they if they can lie to their other halfs like that.
There is no difference. I was just asking because of the contact that i had with the single (married man). It does apply to both sexes.
i agree with you about there being no difference but have talked to a few people about this subject and many would happily play with a single (married) female but not a single (married) male whose partners were in the dark
to me its all cheating wether its a male or female being lied to
:) 
ffs what are you gonna gain out of this (a meet errrrrrr I dont think so)
I for one wasn't saying single guys are immature I was saying that some cpls that I have MET would rather a guy was married/attached as they tend to be more discreet as they have alot to lose if their partner/wife finds out!!
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