A lot of couples have the problem we've often had - you advertise for another couple and get single guys reply.
Or turn up to meet a couple and find a single guy turn up who's partner "couldn't make it"
There are genuine single guys well worth meeting and playing with - if you are a girl who like spitroats, dp or GrandSlam (3 at a time - my current fave new thing) then you need to track done the genuine single guys.
One of the main problems is the view "they are single for a reason".
've found it easier in the past to meet on guy for a one on one, do it again with anoher guy, then get them both together for the third date.
A fourth date with a third guy.
Get them all together on the fifth date.
It takes a bit of work and some time but F**K me (literally) it is well worth it!
Rachel
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Quote by prags
Well it seems the double standard raises it's head again. The people who critisise men for playing away without telling their partners should consider a couple of things. First, technically if your married & have sex with someone else even with consent it is still cheating.
No prags that is not cheating technically or otherwise. My wife and I are completely faithfull to each other - it is just that we have sex with other people for fun as well, the same as we go out for a drink with other people or have other hobbies we share with friends.
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Secondly about the honesty angle do you tell your mother, sister, brother, workmates?
No I don't - but I also don't tell them about the rest of our sex lives either, simply because they would not want to know and it is none of their business.
I am sorry prags your arguements are complete bollocks, and are simply used to justify your own actions. If you have nothing to feel guilty about why do you need to justify it?
Some people do not like the idea of married people cheating on their partners, the same as some do not like smokers or bi-sexual men or whatever.
Sorry - Forgot to say, voted for having met single guys and had fun (Much better than OK). And also for your information we regularly meet a single guy who's wife as no idea what he gets up to, but do not try to pretend that is the same as my and I playing with each others full knowledge and permission.
(Roger packs away soap box and goes back to sleep)
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. But as there are so many single men interested in meeting couples on here you will have to spend a lot of time finding the perfect couple for you.
This is perhaps the wrong way to look a it - you should present yourself as the perfect guy for a couple to invite, it shouldn't be about you looking for what you want. We know what you want - sex with someone else's wife.
After all, as a couple, I can say that we have our sex life, and it's you who wants to join in, so we want to know what you can offer us.
Do any couples who want a single guy for an MMF ever advertise, do they need to with an abundance of single guys available?
It's a buyers market for couples and single girls - so single guys, you have to make the effort to sell yourselves. The competitoin is pretty stiff (no pun intended)
Rachel
As a single guy I can broadly agree, Rachel... but not entirely. I'm not looking to meet right now, but when I was I did have some standards... I wasn't willing to swing with someone just because they had two breasts and a vagina! (Maybe that was why I never swung with anyone, lol. 
) At the end of the day, if all I want is an orgasm then there's still no woman who can give me one better than my two five-fingered friends who go with me everywhere :wanker: I didn't just want sex with someone else's wife - I wanted sex with someone else's wife who pushed my buttons. Because after all, otherwise what's the point?
) At the end of the day, if all I want is an orgasm then there's still no woman who can give me one better than my two five-fingered friends who go with me everywhere :wanker: I didn't just want sex with someone else's wife - I wanted sex with someone else's wife who pushed my buttons. Because after all, otherwise what's the point? 