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I'll have you two know I'm worth thruppence & a part chewed toffee :smug:
What sort of toffee?
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threpence isn't legal tender.
you're stuck with her now Tan, goodluck!!
and I allwaysmake sence.
you just have to be in the right timeframe to to see it.
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It's legal tender in this timeframe :smug:
Anyhoo- I can think of worse things than being stuck with Tan- she's a good cook, and her dumplings are delish, apparantly!
very timely thread,
before the quickies and the access to view friends lists i was much happier, ignorance is bliss.
the sad fact is some people think having stuff lastered allover their profiles shows they are genuine and meet and think it will bring them more meets, and maybe to some it will do.
there was similer thread re detective work.
there are only probally 2 people in total ever via swinging that if i knew a guy or couple had met with either of those two individuals then i couldnt go near them. sexual safety reasons but also i would question how well i would actually get on with them if they found the other twos personality appealling.
i really hate power trippers and sadely there are a few people who are. i dont want to get mixed up in that.
xx fem xx
before the quickies and the access to view friends lists i was much happier, ignorance is bliss.
the sad fact is some people think having stuff lastered allover their profiles shows they are genuine and meet and think it will bring them more meets, and maybe to some it will do.
there was similer thread re detective work.
there are only probally 2 people in total ever via swinging that if i knew a guy or couple had met with either of those two individuals then i couldnt go near them. sexual safety reasons but also i would question how well i would actually get on with them if they found the other twos personality appealling.
i really hate power trippers and sadely there are a few people who are. i dont want to get mixed up in that.
xx fem xx
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i would question how well i would actually get on with them if they found the other twos personality appealling.
Think this is most likely part of a more logical reason why i'm put off if I know (ignorance is some times bless)
The other is less logical that i cant really explain - but its like when your choosing a name for your children - if you have bad memorys of someone, they 'taint' the name and you wont choose it ?
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I didn't post on this the other day when it first went up as I had to ponder.
I don't necessarily like knowing about who other people have slept with... regardless of whether I like the person or not. But, then I think what about going to a club or a party where I/you/we hypothetically may be involved in a group situation or at least playing semi-publically or in a situation where it is clear who is with who and what for... what happens then about the sloppy seconds issue?
So, on balance I don't think I mind knowing - in some cases. But if I really despised a person and they slept with someone I kinda wanted to sleep with... well, it's not happened yet. I'll wait and see how I react then.
I don't necessarily like knowing about who other people have slept with... regardless of whether I like the person or not. But, then I think what about going to a club or a party where I/you/we hypothetically may be involved in a group situation or at least playing semi-publically or in a situation where it is clear who is with who and what for... what happens then about the sloppy seconds issue?
So, on balance I don't think I mind knowing - in some cases. But if I really despised a person and they slept with someone I kinda wanted to sleep with... well, it's not happened yet. I'll wait and see how I react then.
I don't really care.
mostly in my experience I've been the first "try" of a girl that was approaching swinging for the first time (unless they've all been magnificently leading me on..which I seriously doubt) so there have been very few sloppy seconds for me.
when there were, I was never bothered about it. I never, so far, had the chance/misfortune/accident of bumping into the actual "first cock" of the situation. would I mind? not really..I've never been able to "rate" men for their looks and I would only know about them what I learned from my prospective date..and exchanging experiences is more a turnon than a downer..
I just don't bother with getting to know men, because we're never going to go anywhere past a drink and a pat on the back at a social (and I still have to go to my first)
and if I don't know them, how can I judge them?
also, I always talk to some extent with the girl I plan to meet..and I would not be into them if I did not value their intelligence and ultimately their taste.
after all, if they're into me, they can't have that bad a taste for men, can they? :giggle:
truth is, I meet for nsa sex, which means I'm into that particular person..not in her life, choices, lifestyle or previous relationships, casual or otherwise.
the chance of a good time together with her is not subjected to what she does with her time when I'm not with her.
mostly in my experience I've been the first "try" of a girl that was approaching swinging for the first time (unless they've all been magnificently leading me on..which I seriously doubt) so there have been very few sloppy seconds for me.
when there were, I was never bothered about it. I never, so far, had the chance/misfortune/accident of bumping into the actual "first cock" of the situation. would I mind? not really..I've never been able to "rate" men for their looks and I would only know about them what I learned from my prospective date..and exchanging experiences is more a turnon than a downer..
I just don't bother with getting to know men, because we're never going to go anywhere past a drink and a pat on the back at a social (and I still have to go to my first)
and if I don't know them, how can I judge them?
also, I always talk to some extent with the girl I plan to meet..and I would not be into them if I did not value their intelligence and ultimately their taste.
after all, if they're into me, they can't have that bad a taste for men, can they? :giggle:
truth is, I meet for nsa sex, which means I'm into that particular person..not in her life, choices, lifestyle or previous relationships, casual or otherwise.
the chance of a good time together with her is not subjected to what she does with her time when I'm not with her.
