What is happening to all the men who try to attract women, dont they know how to dress.
We went out Saturday to a Swinger social, have never been to one before and was very surprised to see how the men dress to try and attract women.
90% of the men had jeans on which didnt fit,unsaven and worst of all wearing trainers.
Several men looked as if the had not washed their hair,obviouslt we had one drink and left.
Before anyone says anything, congratulations to the ladies, they all made an effort to dress,
Come on guys smarten up
Have fun
T&S
It is the ultra-casual look! Made famous by footballers and any other men who know that they have just enough money to pull no matter how they turn up.
Others try but forget they have no money.
As for how I turn up....
No matter how hard I try, I simply cant do smart, only marginally less scruffy.
I don't like men in suits, I always wonder if they're going to try to sell me insurance.
H.x
i like a smartly dressed man, clean shaven etc but on the other hand a rather fancy the rugged non shaven look sometimes as well
wear what you feel comfortable in is my motto
I think that alot of men look scruffy when they go out. I don't think men should wear trainers to go to the pub ever!.
The first thing I notice on a man is the shoes, it's no good having a £500 suit and scruffy shoes.
When I go out I normally wear trousers(well pressed), a shirt(well ironed), and shoes(well polished).
Maybe i'm just old fashioned.
Although I LOVE :twisted: a suit and shirt and tie, I still think it's the personality that counts - I'd rather be talking to a casually dressed friendly guy than a smartly dressed unapproachable one.
But I agree it does look strange to see a very elegantly dressed lady with a scruffy fella - you don't often see it the other way round.
I have to be honest I am of these guys that does spend a lot of time getting ready to go out.
I just feel so uncomfortable if I am not washed, shaved and nicely dressed. And if you are not comfortable then is shows.
As it was a social and most likely in a public place, maybe they dressed casually/comfortably? Trainers does not mean scruffy. Nor do jeans.
I'd try to look beyond the clothes - after all, they don't stay on when you fuck, do they?
They may not stay on when you get down to it no but it gives a fair indication of what type of a person they are if unkempt scruffy and even at worst dirty though surely..
Making an effort is easy.. not saying anyone has to go over the top but surely making a bit of an effort is good?
Mike x
I doubt anyone will be embarrassed... If they were happy to go as they did its their choice. No one says they 'have' to dress in anything different.. or even wash. All thats being said as far as I see is they were slightly dissapointed and left! Their choice too eh.. Some may be happy with the way they looked.. they were not.. simple really!
No harm done.. no offence caused just a fair comment made I think..
Mike x
mind you jacket and tie did not last long as it was so hot 
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